How is it guilt? Hmm... so doctors, family, "friends" and the like that tell me how much of a let down I am for not trying hard enough is okay, but saying something against the mystical CI by stating simply that a person is not broke and does not need to be fixed is. Yet, I am rude for telling a person to become comfortable in their own skin because they should be proud of who ever they may be? Hmm... something is wrong with that... if I went to any deaf and pushed CI I would be seen as someone only trying to improve them... but saying they are okay the way they are is trying to change them, and pulling a quilt trip... odd
Would you tell a person that needed eyeglasses they should proud of what they're and not wear eyeglasses ?? This has nothing to do with being proud of you'reHow is it guilt? Hmm... so doctors, family, "friends" and the like that tell me how much of a let down I am for not trying hard enough is okay, but saying something against the mystical CI by stating simply that a person is not broke and does not need to be fixed is. Yet, I am rude for telling a person to become comfortable in their own skin because they should be proud of who ever they may be? Hmm... something is wrong with that... if I went to any deaf and pushed CI I would be seen as someone only trying to improve them... but saying they are okay the way they are is trying to change them, and pulling a quilt trip... odd
Michael Chorost's take.
Rebuilt.
Would you tell a person that needed eyeglasses they should proud of what they're and not wear eyeglasses ?? This has nothing to do with being proud of you're
this has to with a person lifestyle , she was born hearing and want to going on hearing . It may come at a shock to some people but every deaf or hoh person
doesn't think it's COOL !
Would you tell a person that needed eyeglasses they should proud of what they're and not wear eyeglasses ?? This has nothing to do with being proud of you're
this has to with a person lifestyle , she was born hearing and want to going on hearing . It may come at a shock to some people but every deaf or hoh person
doesn't think it's COOL !
Do you know people can get horrible headaches if they need to wear glasses and this make it very hard to be comfortable or do their job or going to school ?? And you can't drive a car safety if you need glasses to drive and getting into an accident in NOT being comfortable in your own skin ! So according to your reasoning if a person has any kind of disability they shouldn't use any device to made their lives easier , if you need a W/C you should just be comfortable sitting in your urine all day b/c you can't get to the bathroom on your own feet.Yes I would people should be proud of who they are and be comfortable in their own skin. Wear the glass or do not...really does not affect me in any way...
Actually read my posts and you will get what I actually mean and not whatever foolishness you are wanting to put in place of my words...Do you know people can get horrible headaches if they need to wear glasses and this make it very hard to be comfortable or do their job or going to school ?? And you can't drive a car safety if you need glasses to drive and getting into an accident in NOT being comfortable in your own skin ! So according to your reasoning if a person has any kind of disability they shouldn't use any device to made their lives easier , if you need a W/C you should just be comfortable sitting in your urine all day b/c you can't get to the bathroom on your own feet.
Would you tell a person that needed eyeglasses they should proud of what they're and not wear eyeglasses ?? This has nothing to do with being proud of you're
this has to with a person lifestyle , she was born hearing and want to going on hearing . It may come at a shock to some people but every deaf or hoh person
doesn't think it's COOL !
Yes I would people should be proud of who they are and be comfortable in their own skin. Wear the glass or do not...really does not affect me in any way...
Actually read my posts and you will get what I actually mean and not whatever foolishness you are wanting to put in place of my words...
Again ... read my posts and you will get what I mean and not whatever foolishness you want to replace my words withBased on the earlier posts that I have quoted above and added some bold to I can see where she was coming from when she posted what she did.
Wear the glass or do not...really does not affect me in any way...
Based on the earlier posts that I have quoted above and added some bold to I can see where she was coming from when she posted what she did.
It is not about CIs being good or bad. It is just a choice, you are ok living without your hearing. Some people are not and never will be. Before the CI it did not matter if you were ok or not being deaf, you were just stuck with it.
I have no desire to see ASL disappear. There are people that being deaf does not work for them. Parents are going to do what the feel best for their kids and we can both can feel however we feel about their decisions but at the end of the day it is their decision and no one elses.