jillio
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I think I know who you are referring to.
I'm sure you do!
I think I know who you are referring to.
An edge? An advantage? Over whom?
In having that added communication skill (speaking and/or listening) can certainly give deaf/hh people an edge, even a huge advantage in the hearing world. That's a given.
It often enables hearing people to see what a twerp the talking person is and they wish he was mute.
Not always....
According to your thinking, I have many advantages over many hearing people. The advantages are both physical and cognitive. But thinking that way, focusing on what one have, that another don't have, gives a lot of disadvantages that I don't want to carry around with me, and I feel sorry for people who have to do so.Yes, since I said "having that added communication skill" means exactly that...a skill...and in this context I was referring to speaking and/or listening skill(s) that can certainly give a person with hearing loss that added advantage in a hearing world. My focus is on the word "skill" which is an advantage.
According to your thinking, I have many advantages over many hearing people. The advantages are both physical and cognitive. But thinking that way, focusing on what one have, that another don't have, gives a lot of disadvantages that I don't want to carry around with me, and I feel sorry for people who have to do so.
And this doesn't nessarily have to be an audist statement. Someone who is Hispanic from a Spanish speaking family, has more advantages if they are fluent in spoken English as well.I am speaking specifically from the viewpoint of having communication skills involving speaking and/or listening as a deaf/hh person in a hearing world
Ok, so that's one of endless situation depedent disadvantages. Why the obession with that situation and disadvantage? You don't happen beeing jealous at people who are happy with ASL and find no disadvantages in not using speech and ears, while it creates tons of problems for you?That's fine. However, I am speaking specifically from the viewpoint of having communication skills involving speaking and/or listening as a deaf/hh person in a hearing world. We all have advantages and disadvantages over what people have or don't have.
Sure, not necessary audist. A hearing person can have more advantages if she know ASL.And this doesn't nessarily have to be an audist statement. Someone who is Hispanic from a Spanish speaking family, has more advantages if they are fluent in spoken English as well.
And this doesn't nessarily have to be an audist statement. Someone who is Hispanic from a Spanish speaking family, has more advantages if they are fluent in spoken English as well.
Right, and it's certainly not a statement as you have said. And exactly right about the advantages on the fluency part, too.
And this doesn't nessarily have to be an audist statement. Someone who is Hispanic from a Spanish speaking family, has more advantages if they are fluent in spoken English as well.
Sure, not necessary audist. A hearing person can have more advantages if she know ASL.
This is where we part company. It IS an audist statement. It comes from the attitude that hearing is better, and we are constantly stopping people and educating them every time we see it. It is a seemingly endless task, since many deaf still have the mistaken idea of the importance of speech.
Ok, so that's one of endless situation depedent disadvantages. Why the obession with that situation and disadvantage? You don't happen beeing jealous at people who are happy with ASL and find no disadvantages in not using speech and ears, while it creates tons of problems for you?
Agreed. In this case it is an audist statement, not because of the word choice, but as a direct result of the attitude of the individual making the statement.
Yep. It is too bad he will not learn this time, since we are his ignore list.
I admit to being somewhat of an audist a rather short while back, but I have learned so much on AD, thanks to you and others.