Ok, I'm sorry to learn about your disadvantages. You have my support.A matter of perspective here but there are in fact disadvantages and advantages as I have said before. In this case, communication skills, if you have them, involving speaking and/or listening is an advantage to have. Tons of disadvantages for me? You have it backward. And, yes, there are some disadvantages but "tons of them" is not it.
I have no problem with those who are happy with ASL. Good for them.