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Kinda going waaay off topic here but it relates to race and the the lady that didn't respond.
I was thinking about this just last week. I was at a Target and there were 2 lanes close to me with only one person in line. One lane had a black cashier and the other had a white cashier and I purposely went to the lane with the white cashier because she was white. It had nothing to do with me disliking black people because I don't feel that way. But our country has gone so crazy with blaming racism for everything that it is making racism worse. The reason I made my choice? I don't hear well and I have noticed that when a white cashier says something that I don't hear, they either notice my hearing aid or assume I am an asshole. Whereas when the same thing happens with a black cashier you can see in their eyes that they are thinking "racist." I have seen it 100's of times. Even when I have explained politely that I am deaf and point at my HA you can still see doubt in their eyes. And personally, I would prefer to be viewed as an asshole rather than a racist. It is really sad that things have come to this.
So anyway, I can see how if a deaf person didn't respond to one of the members in the group things might have become tense.
I was thinking about this just last week. I was at a Target and there were 2 lanes close to me with only one person in line. One lane had a black cashier and the other had a white cashier and I purposely went to the lane with the white cashier because she was white. It had nothing to do with me disliking black people because I don't feel that way. But our country has gone so crazy with blaming racism for everything that it is making racism worse. The reason I made my choice? I don't hear well and I have noticed that when a white cashier says something that I don't hear, they either notice my hearing aid or assume I am an asshole. Whereas when the same thing happens with a black cashier you can see in their eyes that they are thinking "racist." I have seen it 100's of times. Even when I have explained politely that I am deaf and point at my HA you can still see doubt in their eyes. And personally, I would prefer to be viewed as an asshole rather than a racist. It is really sad that things have come to this.
So anyway, I can see how if a deaf person didn't respond to one of the members in the group things might have become tense.