Where are all these elderly people who have a life filled with regrets? The ones I know have amazing stories, travels, experiences. The ones I spend time with are proud of their accomplishments, children, grandchildren etc. If you sit and actually spend some quality time with them, they will teach you so much. I actually have never met an elderly person with regrets, I truly mean that. I have met elderly people that are sad at times, they miss their spouse, children don't take the time to go visit, they are in physical pain etc. It really does not take much to brighten their day. Next time you see a "grumpy" elderly person.....instead of assuming they have regrets.....ask them how their day was.