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My mum is a foster carer, so i see children who come from all different backgrounds, some abused, some are developmentally delayed cos of the abuse, which can be emotional, physical, sexual or neglect. them all really makes me mad cos children shouldnt have to go through all that. some of the children iv really bonded with and wished they stayed but they either went back to their parents who are incapable of caring for them which makes me really angry or been passed on to another foster carer. why cant kids have decent parents
 
Deafteen90 said:
My mum is a foster carer, so i see children who come from all different backgrounds, some abused, some are developmentally delayed cos of the abuse, which can be emotional, physical, sexual or neglect. them all really makes me mad cos children shouldnt have to go through all that. some of the children iv really bonded with and wished they stayed but they either went back to their parents who are incapable of caring for them which makes me really angry or been passed on to another foster carer. why cant kids have decent parents
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Those parents aren't ready for anything.

Failures.
 
Deafteen90 said:
My mum is a foster carer, so i see children who come from all different backgrounds, some abused, some are developmentally delayed cos of the abuse, which can be emotional, physical, sexual or neglect. them all really makes me mad cos children shouldnt have to go through all that. some of the children iv really bonded with and wished they stayed but they either went back to their parents who are incapable of caring for them which makes me really angry or been passed on to another foster carer. why cant kids have decent parents
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I couldn't agree more. Being in the foster care system sucks, as does being in the orphanage. I wish we could all just be guaranteed decent parents to begin with. Unfortunately most people don't think if they're going to be wonderful parents in the passion of the moment. And in some cases, circumstances aren't even within the control of the parents.
 
people who constantly make excuses as to why they can't do something. one of my friends and i were talking yesterday about a problem she had and whenever i gave her suggestions as to how to solve it, she kept on giving me reasons why they wouldn't work. i give up. *sigh*
 
Hear Again said:
people who constantly make excuses as to why they can't do something. one of my friends and i were talking yesterday about a problem she had and whenever i gave her suggestions as to how to solve it, she kept on giving me reasons why they wouldn't work. i give up. *sigh*
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I'm sorry, that sucks.
 
I know what makes me mad the most. During the time of war/foreign occupation, I hate the Domestic Dissents consorting with foreign invaders to hunt down the Domestic Dissents.

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I hate seeing what war does to people. It tears up families. Even if soldiers come back with all their limps, every soldier comes back with an amputated soul.
 
Jiro said:
I know what makes me mad the most. During the time of war/foreign occupation, I hate the Domestic Dissents consorting with foreign invaders to hunt down the Domestic Dissents.

:mad2:
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domestic dissents hunting down their own? <confused>
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Yeah, that annoys me, too. At least, while waiting in line, get the damn checkbook out already, write it out to the store you're paying it to, then write what it's for, and then sign your name, and then when you get to the cashier and get the total price of your purchases, you are ready to write in the total and ready to tear the check off and hand it to the cashier. Would only take all of 20 seconds. Geez. Or if that is so damn hard to do, then get a damn debit card or checkcard. Just swipe it and put in the PIN and sign the receipt and you are good to go!
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:werd: Yes that was my exact point. Couldn't agree more.
 
Hear Again said:
domestic dissents hunting down their own? <confused>
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Yes - it happens in most wars. For example - Japanese Occupation of Korea for 30 years. Some Koreans work for Japaneses to hunt down Domestic Dissents who were fellow countrymen, neighbors, etc... and you know it's punishable by death. That pisses me off. I saw a little documentary last nite about it. :mad2:
 
False accusations. Especially when the person does it because s/he knows his/her word will be taken over yours. <mad>
 
Nika said:
I couldn't agree more. Being in the foster care system sucks, as does being in the orphanage. I wish we could all just be guaranteed decent parents to begin with. Unfortunately most people don't think if they're going to be wonderful parents in the passion of the moment. And in some cases, circumstances aren't even within the control of the parents.
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Yeah, I've lived in a children's home which you could consider an orphanage as well, and then several foster homes. The children's home was horrible, and so were many of the foster homes I was in. Only two of the foster homes I was in were decent. Then when I got tossed to another horrible foster home, I blew up and had enough and I told the social worker, I WANT OUT! I told her, either put me in an apartment or I will go live on the street, I told her I don't care that I didn't have a penny to my name. Within 6 weeks she put me in a halfway apartment house and I stayed there until I got my first SSI check, while the foster care agency paid my rent at the halfway house apartment, and then I ran out and got my own house once I got my first SSI check. Fuck foster care!
 
I lived in the orphanage for the first few years of my life, too, so I can totally relate, LuciaDisturbed.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Yeah, I've lived in a children's home which you could consider an orphanage as well, and then several foster homes. The children's home was horrible, and so were many of the foster homes I was in. Only two of the foster homes I was in were decent. Then when I got tossed to another horrible foster home, I blew up and had enough and I told the social worker, I WANT OUT! I told her, either put me in an apartment or I will go live on the street, I told her I don't care that I didn't have a penny to my name. Within 6 weeks she put me in a halfway apartment house and I stayed there until I got my first SSI check, while the foster care agency paid my rent at the halfway house apartment, and then I ran out and got my own house once I got my first SSI check. Fuck foster care!
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which is why I get pissed at people who preach about anti-abortion crap. They all say - just give it up for adoption or foster care. I have a huge distrust in our foster care system for general population of children (not the special case). I have heard enough horror stories about it. :mad2:

IMO - subjecting a child to broken foster system is possibly the worst thing you can do to human being.
 
Jiro said:
which is why I get pissed at people who preach about anti-abortion crap. They all say - just give it up for adoption or foster care. I have a huge distrust in our foster care system for general population of children (not the special case). I have heard enough horror stories about it. :mad2:

IMO - subjecting a child to broken foster system is possibly the worst thing you can do to human being.
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<good posting> I agree 100%
 
I think social services should do even lenghty long tests on foster carers. my mum's assessment took maybe 6 months to go through. I think it should be a year because there are lots of foster carers out there who shouldnt even be one
 
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