Wherever it is coming from, is somewhere I never want to go!
Rick
Just remember the forum rules. Just ignore. I had a comment left on my blog today that made me scratch my head and say - come on - move on.
Wherever it is coming from, is somewhere I never want to go!
Rick
Shel, it's not always professionals that are causing the misunderstanding. Much of it, imo, is just that people don't understand, period. A friend of Drew's who also has bilateral implants was covered in a radio story within the last year.
His parents talked to the person doing the interview for over an hour, and explained everything. They answered questions on the air, described his education and surgery, etc. Everything went well and I suppose the listeners learned a lot.
However, at the very end of the interview the host says "And this little boy will never know that he was deaf."
The parents wanted to strangle this host. Not only is it the dumbest remarks ever made, but it was directly contrary to things they mentioned, such as him asking for help putting the CI's on, etc.
This host just doesn't get it, I assume because she has never been around deaf and hoh people before. Sometimes people just don't hear what is said...so I don't think it is always the professional's fault.
Kind of like a couple of my "friends" who listened to everything about Drew for several months (evidently they didn't listen very closely) and then once they saw him with his CI's on asked "so will he have to wear those forever"?
That ticked me off partly because it's an idiotic question, secondly because he said it in a condescending voice, and third because if he really cared or was listening he would have known the answer. He just doesn't get it and probably tells people he knows that Drew is "cured", even though that has never come out of my mouth
I am a deaf person who was born deaf (not a "ex-hearing person" whom lost hearing after birth but pure born deaf) and I sign ASL PSE ASL and I hang out around deaf commuities also have many deaf friends.
I was implanted 4 year ago and CI is a cool device, I like it but it does not restore or fix my deafness or allow me back into hearing world or make me a better speaking person.
CI is much more powerful than a hearing aid and more crisp sound allowing me to get by in this world alittle better than before. CI is more easier for me to maintain than a hearing aids as well too.
I have met many pure deaf folks with CIs before I made a decision to be implanted and none of them claimed that "It will restore hearing and or allow them to be in hearing world like if they were a hearing person" so based on my experience .......
I am sorry to say your full of it.
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Seems you avoid all answer.. you don't want answer this..
officially you don't accept your child is DEAF.. you wanted solution the problem ci for your child and part of Hearing world.. why you're here part of Deaf Community? Doesn't make sense.. all you want push Deaf people out and take over this thread.. control..
you're gone too far brainwashed by agbell or doctor, aren't you?
Why can't you accept your child is DEAF?
you're cry your child is DEAF.. you want your child is "FIXED"
Whether a CI is a "miracle device" or whether CI's allow deaf persons to function or "be back" in the hearing world does not have anything to do with whether a person is deaf or not.
You can be deaf and not "in" the hearing world, and you can be deaf and be "in" the hearing world - or both. Cochlear implants help some people to be what they consider to be more "in" the hearing world.
You have it backward, CI folks are turn off by deaf people with an attuide acting high and mighty or "deaf pride" againist deaf people whom want a CI before they died to see what it like to hear more sound than they would had heard without or with a hearing aid.
I never though I was any better than a deaf person next to me growing up or after I gotten a CI but I do know I am better than a deaf person who insult CI'er with unsupported remarks or unsupported edvience or trying to spread false rumor among the deaf commuities like the #1 rumor I always see other deaf people tell me is "You can't take shower or swim anymore after CI" ..
That so sad that a person with deaf pride attuide can start any false rumor with ASL knowing that a hearing person will have a hard time to discredit rumors because they are not speaking in our native ASL langauge and it easier for me to sign in ASL to my deaf friends around me would be suprised wow they fell for a false rumor or swallow fish for nothing.
That why I have strong supportive among my ASL deaf friend because I can open thier mind with my ASL and they will understand more clearly than false rumor among deaf pride.
I am proud of my deafness and never been shame of my deafness but I will never showoff pride or challenage anyone my deafness.
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I've always maintained that it is the media that gives people the impression that the CIs are a cure and if I were the parents of that child, I'd want to strangle the host as well. Educating people is always an an endless job and so annoying. Sometimes, it seems like the info doesn't sink in at all.
My parent's maid said to me that my implants were a miracle and I had just worn it for a day and since she was missing a few teeth, I had trouble understanding her. This was the day after my activation. I hoped she wouldn't think it meant that my CI wasn't working. I dread people like her...
you're gone too far brainwashed by agbell or doctor, aren't you?
Why can't you accept your child is DEAF?
you're cry your child is DEAF.. you want your child is "FIXED"
agBAD doesn't approve an interpreter provide you CI users... reason want you LEARN and LISTEN AND TALK!!!
SAD!
By Identifying families whose cases can help establish law, ABAD seeks to raise public awareness that children with hearing loss should have the opportunity to LEARN TO LISTEN AND TALK, and that both are the early intervention and education systems should support family's choices. WHO SAY THAT??? it's frigg'n AGBAD!
It is the school's responsibility to provide access to the academic curriculum. They are not bound to reinforce communication choice, but communication choice must be considered when providing accommodation. Speech therapy is considered to be an adjunct service.
Sometimes there does not seem to be any need of a reason..
Just try to ignore the shouting & ranting..
Our children and not Deaf. They are deaf and they can hear.!
I am not sure about the special education laws that affect deaf children in other states but in California, it states that the school must respect and encourgae the child's preferred mode of communication. They are bounded by the parents choice of communication mode.
Im not yelling or ranting you.. excuse me. I'm here asking..
Can't you accept "DEAF" child?
That simple , reason to recognized "Big capital" word for DEAF. or you prefer tiny word "deaf".
That means your child is lost their identify..
I like to ask you, if suppose your child's ci broken.. will you dare have your child under the knife again and to replace it ?
You have to ask your child first before under the knife or.. you prefer decision not child's rights?
No they are bound to take the child's preferred mode of communication into account when determining accommodation. They are not bound to take the parent's preferred mode for the child into consideration. California is bound by the same federal laws as all the states.
But, does a person with a CI need an interperter?
It depends on the person some may need it and some may not.
No it does not sound like a radio, a hearing aide is like a radio. Adults who get implant some I have heard say that it sounds like donald duck under water and then with time it becomes more clearer, but each person is different.