Why oral language only because we need to focus on the implant first. If a parent is seeking an implant then they focus on developing oral language. Once a child has a strong oral base then I think adding signing like at the age my children did is a great tool for them.
Yes, but what about those kids who will be delayed b/c they haven't picked up speech? Yes, your way doesn't create severe spoken language delays, like in the old days.........but it still does create significent delays.
But you do have one thing right. The debate now is pretty much over which language should be a dhh kid's first language. Its very indivdual. Some kids with CIs can pick up speech only with minimal speech therapy or private AVT. Others need to attend specialized therapists or schools and so on.
Why can't someone send their kid to an oral program part time, and ALSO send their kid to a TC/ASL program? That way they'd get the best of both worlds.
And I think that oral first kids should learn ASL EARLY. Like most hoh kids can pick up speech really easily. They should be exposed to ASL so that they can use it as a helpful tool if they want it. Too many hoh kids have just been brushed off into the hearing world. I think most hoh kids could benifit from preschool and kindergarten instruction. I mean god.........we have parents lining up their kids to send them to upper crust schools where another language is used in insturction.
That is what you and rick and cloggy don't get whatsoever. The oral philosophy pathologizes Sign. It sees Sign as a "crutch" but not a honest to god full fledged language of its OWN!
Deaf kids (except for peri and post lingal) need to experiance agressive intervention in the form of BOTH ASL and speech so that they aren't behind at all! Imagine that............we could raise kids who are fluent in BOTH ASL and English (and yes, I mean SPOKEN language)
Despite what the oral experts tell you, VERY FEW Deafies are anti-speech.
Speech is a good tool to have. Its just like the tool of being fluent in English in South Africa or India is a good tool to have, even if your first language is Afrikaans or some Hindu dialect.