Puyo Piyo
BINGO!! what does that tell you?
it tells ME, the CI generally does NOT cause all the symptoms YOU experience. Therefore, the problem MIGHT be with you, not with the CI. Do you get what I am trying to say? again, that does NOT mean it's your FAULT in any way. like you said, it's just how your body reacted to CI, and nobody's to blame. when I wrote "the problem lies with you" - I was looking for explanation, not blame.
Exactly!!! maybe you were born super sensitive, and of course it's not your fault, nevertheless that is what has caused your severe reaction to the CI.
that is what I was saying all along.
As I've said. I don't BLAME you, but you have to accept the fact that thru no fault of your own you were not wearing CI as much as you should have, and not worked as much as you should have in order to receive the best benefits, okay? thru no fault of your own.
the fact is you didn't have chance to use it to its full potential - I think you will agree with this simple fact.
maybe if you weren't having these problems, you would by now hear more and better.
again, nobody's to blame. it just happened- you were implanted, your body didn't like the implant, so you couldn't use it as you could have. end of story...
Everyday wearing my CI? With numb inside my mouth, headaches attack every hour or two, feel irrogrant by my families, my nerves going up dramatically? Tsk tsk tsk I don't think so, I prefer to wear it when I am expecting the sounds to come up
As I've said- I am only stating facts about CI - how do you know what would happen if you could wear it everyday? that has nothing to do with your unfortunate symptoms, or family.
Sorry, my body is part of me, my brain and my body agree to reject wearing CI everyday.
That have completely NOTHING to do with what I wrote. I was writing about human speech and language development, not you.
It doesn't matter what situation - it is always the attitude and communication skills that play the role in relationship. If my son was sure this is what he needs and decided to change his gender, I would respect it.
Maria
I don't know if you are being stubborn, or you don't get what I mean. Let's drop it.
the only thing I still want to know is "How do you know HA works better for you than CI?" Please answer.
Liebling
It is not his daughter's fault that HA does not work, but it's not the HA fault either. But it is his daughter's hearing loss that cause HA to NOT work.
This is just the matter of English.
When I reffer to Puyo, a human, I use the word "problem", because obviously it's not his fault that his CI is causing these symptoms.
But at the same time, it's not CI's fault either. Other people use CI with no problems that Puyo have. So, if CI does not cause other people numbness in the nose and mouth, and headaches, then perhaps it's Puyo's problem, not CI. that of course does not mean it's Puyo's fault that it is like that.
Then, when I am talking about a CAR - it's obvious that whoever causes a car accident is at FAULT. (unless of course the car suddenly broke)
That doesn't mean just because Puyo "caused" a car accident, he also "caused CI accident".
I was just trying to demonstrate by this example that maybe it's not the problem with *whatever* but with the person. Hope you get it.
just the language matter.
I am sorry, but what are you talking about? I am talking about people who had NO USE for HA, but can now hear with CI.
No, I don't think so, and it's complicated matter.
CI is more advanced technologically than HA, period. It has nothing to do with parent's support and willingness to work.
If the boys are HEARING - no they rather don't miss because of the parents deafness. unless they are not exposed to any sound.
If the boys are born deaf- then even if the parents are hearing - yes they do miss hearing sounds thus learning to recognize them.
Don't confuse two things: language development and ability to hear and speak.
because they COULD HEAR. it only matters when the child is born deaf, not when the parents are deaf.
Cloggy
It IS frustrating, isn't it.
I don't get it either. Here we have a proof and an EASY, clear explanation like a graph right in our faces, and yet it seem like some people are blind to it. Why is that is beyond me.
I also don't understand why nobody is getting the clue from this:
The most intensive period of speech and language development for humans is during the first three years of life, a period when the brain is developing and maturing. These skills appear to develop best in a world that is rich with sounds, sights, and consistent exposure to the speech and language of others.
There is increasing evidence suggesting that there are "critical periods" for speech and language development in infants and young children.
The ability to learn a language will be more difficult, and perhaps less efficient or effective, if these critical periods are allowed to pass without early exposure to a language.
What more is needed to understand why these graphs show clearly why the best CI results show youngest children?
and what more than this and graph together is needed to explain why early implantation matters so much?
Fuzzy