I agree that that does happen, and has happened.
But I don't think it must continue to happen.[/QUOTE]
Then what would be your solution to prevent it happening? For all children.
Those who want to pursue oral only need to be early identified, early implanted, given proper support and services within weeks of identification. They need to be constantly followed by parents and professionals who understand both whole language development and value the child as a person, not just ears and mouth. If the child falls behind, they immediatly begin to supplement with a visual component, perhaps starting by adding lipreading and cued speech or ASL if so desired.
I don't think every child will be able to have the above, so that is why there should be many options for deaf kids.