BecLak
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I would like to say something Jillio about this 'Deaf Culture thing'. I have experience with interacting with many different cultures, I even married inter-culturally. I am a teacher of Cross-Cultural relations, in fact.
In regards to Deaf Culture. I would like to share my thoughts but before I do, I would also like to say I have very high respect for Deaf who come from several generations Deaf families, who are the founders of Deaf culture. I want to learn as much as I can from them.
With all the diversity of opinions here on AD, some see a clear dividing line between oral deaf and Deaf, some call oral-deaf who are new arrivals to the Deaf community - 'wannabes' but not really Deaf.
As I see 'culture'. It is a mindset, a set way of thinking that determines your thoughts and actions and how you interact with society around you. Some people are born into a culture, others adopt it from the outside, and then there are ones, like me, who discover their identity and come into it later in life. There is a clear-cut distinction between those who are not deaf, or late-deafened and adopt the Deaf culture and those (like me) who were born deaf, and for whatever reason, come into Deaf culture later in life.
The difference here is that since being born severely-deaf, and even raised orally and in a hearing environment, unbeknown to me until discovering Deaf culture, despite my not knowing sign language as my first language - visual communication was and is still very much a part of me, therefore I had the culture in me right from the start. Since discovering my true identity and making the decision to join AD to get to know the Deaf community, Deaf Culture has become alive in me, where before it had been laying dormant. Yes, I have to 'catch up' with sign language, but the mindset, knowledge and passion for Deaf Culture is already there. I take every opportunity I have to interact with other Deaf, I seek out other Deaf, wherever I am. I fit in culturally in whichever capacity even with my limited ability in sign language to date, learning new signs everyday and I am not shy to use it. I have found my identity: I am Deaf.
In regards to Deaf Culture. I would like to share my thoughts but before I do, I would also like to say I have very high respect for Deaf who come from several generations Deaf families, who are the founders of Deaf culture. I want to learn as much as I can from them.
With all the diversity of opinions here on AD, some see a clear dividing line between oral deaf and Deaf, some call oral-deaf who are new arrivals to the Deaf community - 'wannabes' but not really Deaf.
As I see 'culture'. It is a mindset, a set way of thinking that determines your thoughts and actions and how you interact with society around you. Some people are born into a culture, others adopt it from the outside, and then there are ones, like me, who discover their identity and come into it later in life. There is a clear-cut distinction between those who are not deaf, or late-deafened and adopt the Deaf culture and those (like me) who were born deaf, and for whatever reason, come into Deaf culture later in life.
The difference here is that since being born severely-deaf, and even raised orally and in a hearing environment, unbeknown to me until discovering Deaf culture, despite my not knowing sign language as my first language - visual communication was and is still very much a part of me, therefore I had the culture in me right from the start. Since discovering my true identity and making the decision to join AD to get to know the Deaf community, Deaf Culture has become alive in me, where before it had been laying dormant. Yes, I have to 'catch up' with sign language, but the mindset, knowledge and passion for Deaf Culture is already there. I take every opportunity I have to interact with other Deaf, I seek out other Deaf, wherever I am. I fit in culturally in whichever capacity even with my limited ability in sign language to date, learning new signs everyday and I am not shy to use it. I have found my identity: I am Deaf.