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Jolie77 said:
I understand where you're coming from on this, Shel. It may seem like in a sense it is 'bashing' but you know, sometime people say things that are sought out with emotion. That's one of the purpose where they use emotions in a controversial topic like this one. To say one is committing crime could set off a lot of numerous stuffs. In this case, I don't really think that was the OP's intention because as the OP stated, She copied and pasted it from another site.

Still, I do know what you mean by that when it can be viewed as if it were to be on a bashing manner.
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I posted it before the OP explained that it was copied and pasted from FB. I am glad she was able to return and explain where it came from cuz I wasnt sure what to make of it.
 
shel90 said:
I posted it before the OP explained that it was copied and pasted from FB. I am glad she was able to return and explain where it came from cuz I wasnt sure what to make of it.
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That's all right.

Even though, I'm glad things are cleared up as well. :)
 
Maria said:
I have a question here for some of you : If, you happen get pregnant by unexpect, would you go for partial birth abortion ?
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I used to wanted abortion because I didn't know which one father of 2. I feel so embarrassed to tell people so I planning to get abortion and told my mom and dad. My mom got pissed off and yelled at me, called me slut, etccc and said i throw baby in trash can and continue have sex. My dad agreed with me and said please abortion so I can successful in the future, first college, blah. That time I was senior and got pregnant on Sept 2005. So I asked people if they think I should abortion or not? half of them mad at me, other half said yes cuz those father won't be ready to be father. I was thinking for long time. I changed my mind and kept baby. I listen to my mom. My mom really want adopt my baby. I told her no, I am gonna keep it. So I become about 5 months pregnant. I got so excited that I keep baby after feel the baby moving inside. It was so amazing! I am glad I didn't abortion. After born baby, it made me wanted to cry and cannot believe that I didn't abortion it. My son is soooo beautiful!!! Glad to see what my son look like and he changed my life to better a lot now. I stopped go to party much etc. I stay home and be with son all the times. And take son out with me all the times. I lost the most friends but who care. Son is making me happy.

And then dna test proved who's father. And he become the GOOD father ever I seen. Those people are wrong about him that he's not ready to be father etcccc..But he's good with my kid. My kid love him so much. Always asked me for dad. I told him to wait till Friday. So he go stay with his dad for weekends only.

If I abortion. Then I would still go to party, might won't graduate school, live somewhere with roommate and having party etc. and would still think what my kid would be look like? And might gulity for abortion later..I don't know but I am so happy now. My life is mmuch better cuz of my kid.
 
damienmommy said:
I used to wanted abortion because I didn't know which one father of 2. I feel so embarrassed to tell people so I planning to get abortion and told my mom and dad. My mom got pissed off and yelled at me, called me slut, etccc and said i throw baby in trash can and continue have sex. My dad agreed with me and said please abortion so I can successful in the future, first college, blah. That time I was senior and got pregnant on Sept 2005. So I asked people if they think I should abortion or not? half of them mad at me, other half said yes cuz those father won't be ready to be father. I was thinking for long time. I changed my mind and kept baby. I listen to my mom. My mom really want adopt my baby. I told her no, I am gonna keep it. So I become about 5 months pregnant. I got so excited that I keep baby after feel the baby moving inside. It was so amazing! I am glad I didn't abortion. After born baby, it made me wanted to cry and cannot believe that I didn't abortion it. My son is soooo beautiful!!! Glad to see what my son look like and he changed my life to better a lot now. I stopped go to party much etc. I stay home and be with son all the times. And take son out with me all the times. I lost the most friends but who care. Son is making me happy.

And then dna test proved who's father. And he become the GOOD father ever I seen. Those people are wrong about him that he's not ready to be father etcccc..But he's good with my kid. My kid love him so much. Always asked me for dad. I told him to wait till Friday. So he go stay with his dad for weekends only.

If I abortion. Then I would still go to party, might won't graduate school, live somewhere with roommate and having party etc. and would still think what my kid would be look like? And might gulity for abortion later..I don't know but I am so happy now. My life is mmuch better cuz of my kid.
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Thanks for sharing your experience.
 
Maria said:
I just provided 2 articles, " Why NARAL Pro-Choice America Endorsed Barack Obama " and " The Unborn Do Feel Pain " with their links.

Obama didn't say if, Partial Birth Abortions are banned unless, if you have one to prove with a link that shows it is banned.
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Bans on 'Partial-Birth' Abortion

In its April 2007 decision in Gonzales v. Carhart, the Supreme Court upheld the federal Partial-Birth
Abortion Ban Act of 2003 and, in the process, set a major jurisprudential precedent. The federal law includes
no health exception. Moreover, although the law does not include a precise medical definition of what is
banned, the Court found the federal law’s definition sufficient to pass constitutional muster. The federal law is
currently in effect and the Supreme Court precedent may bring consistency to state laws, which are still
important as they allow for state and local law enforcement and, potentially, stiffer penalties.
 
jazzy said:
Even they forced their daughters to have an abortion or keep it against thier will. I still think it is their bodies not parents.
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Yes but the law doesn't look at it that way........

damienmommy said:
Yeah but I am pro-choice. My friend who got pregnant, she wanted to abortion it because of the father is bad person, long story but I do really understand how she feel, I do support her to abortion it nowww before 3 weeks. But after 3 weeks, I wouldn't like it if people get abortion but I can't do anything about it. :-( but myself I would never get abortion ever. Even if I am 15 yrs old and get preg, still won't get abortion. :)
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If you live at home with your parents, they have the final say if you will get an abortion or not.

damienmommy said:
I used to wanted abortion because I didn't know which one father of 2. I feel so embarrassed to tell people so I planning to get abortion and told my mom and dad. My mom got pissed off and yelled at me, called me slut, etccc and said i throw baby in trash can and continue have sex. My dad agreed with me and said please abortion so I can successful in the future, first college, blah. That time I was senior and got pregnant on Sept 2005. So I asked people if they think I should abortion or not? half of them mad at me, other half said yes cuz those father won't be ready to be father. I was thinking for long time. I changed my mind and kept baby. I listen to my mom. My mom really want adopt my baby. I told her no, I am gonna keep it. So I become about 5 months pregnant. I got so excited that I keep baby after feel the baby moving inside. It was so amazing! I am glad I didn't abortion. After born baby, it made me wanted to cry and cannot believe that I didn't abortion it. My son is soooo beautiful!!! Glad to see what my son look like and he changed my life to better a lot now. I stopped go to party much etc. I stay home and be with son all the times. And take son out with me all the times. I lost the most friends but who care. Son is making me happy.

And then dna test proved who's father. And he become the GOOD father ever I seen. Those people are wrong about him that he's not ready to be father etcccc..But he's good with my kid. My kid love him so much. Always asked me for dad. I told him to wait till Friday. So he go stay with his dad for weekends only.

If I abortion. Then I would still go to party, might won't graduate school, live somewhere with roommate and having party etc. and would still think what my kid would be look like? And might gulity for abortion later..I don't know but I am so happy now. My life is mmuch better cuz of my kid.
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Did you ever go to college to be successful?
 
I also wanted to add that if my daughter was a live today, a minor, and she came to me to tell me that she is pregnant--I would have her go and get an abortion.
 
Byrdie714 said:
I also wanted to add that if my daughter was a live today, a minor, and she came to me to tell me that she is pregnant--I would have her go and get an abortion.
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If my daughter gets pregnant in high school, I probably would want her to get an abortion. However, my ex hubby who is Catholic is against it so who gets the final say? I just hope it wont become a reality.
 
while i feel it's a woman's right to decide what she should do with her body, i can't say that i'd tell my daugther to get an abortion if she were pregnant.

instead, i'd prefer to see her raise her child on her own (provided she is not taking drugs) or put it up for adoption where it can be placed in a loving home.
 
Hear Again said:
while i feel it's a woman's right to decide what she should do with her body, i can't say that i'd tell my daugther to get an abortion if she were pregnant.

instead, i'd prefer to see her raise her child on her own (provided she is not taking drugs) or put it up for adoption where it can be placed in a loving home.
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If she was a minor--why should the parent be responsible for her mistake and financially support it?
 
shel90 said:
If my daughter gets pregnant in high school, I probably would want her to get an abortion. However, my ex hubby who is Catholic is against it so who gets the final say? I just hope it wont become a reality.
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I'm Cathollic as well--an AFCC ( American Free Catholic Church ). More liberal than the Vatican.
 
Byrdie714 said:
I'm Cathollic as well--an AFCC ( American Free Catholic Church ). More liberal than the Vatican.
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My ex husband is Hispanic...very very into the Catholic church. He wasnt like that when he was married to me but now he seems to take the religion very seriously. I know he would kick my daughter's ass big time if she ever says that she is pregnant and shoot the father. I just hope we wont have to face anything like that. If my daughter was 13, 14, 15, or 16...I would want her to get an abortion but if she is 17 or older, then I probably would let her make the decision but I would be constantly worried about her and the baby's quality of life as far as finances and etch go.
 
shel90 said:
My ex husband is Hispanic...very very into the Catholic church. He wasnt like that when he was married to me but now he seems to take the religion very seriously. I know he would kick my daughter's ass big time if she ever says that she is pregnant and shoot the father. I just hope we wont have to face anything like that. If my daughter was 13, 14, 15, or 16...I would want her to get an abortion but if she is 17 or older, then I probably would let her make the decision but I would be constantly worried about her and the baby's quality of life as far as finances and etch go.
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I wouldn't worry--she made the bed, she has to lie in it.

I know it sounds harsh but that is the reality of life......:)
 
Byrdie714 said:
If she was a minor--why should the parent be responsible for her mistake and financially support it?
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because it's the right thing to do and there's no reason to kill a baby when it can be taken care of or better yet, adopted.

it's a shame so many teenage girls think they can get pregnant willy-nilly and solve all their problems by having an abortion. that's wrong and totally irresponsible, imo.
 
I'm pro choice.

But! I do not believe it should be a birth control method.
Education and birth control is available! For free!
So the the woman wants to kept getting her uterus scraped as a birth control method has no regards for her body or for the embryo.

Again it is her choice. Sadly
 
Hear Again said:
because it's the right thing to do and there's no reason to kill a baby when it can be taken care of or better yet, adopted.

it's a shame so many teenage girls think they can get pregnant willy-nilly and solve all their problems by having an abortion. that's wrong and totally irresponsible, imo.
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I disagree as if the teenager realizes that they are unable to care for it and decide to have an abortion--shows responsibility on their part as well as giving it up for adoption.

Again--it's up to the parents of the minor to decide what's best for their child. Afterall--what does a child that's having a child know about raisiing a kid? Not much.
 
Byrdie714 said:
I disagree as if the teenager realizes that they are unable to care for it and decide to have an abortion--shows responsibility on their part as well as giving it up for adoption.

Again--it's up to the parents of the minor to decide what's best for their child. Afterall--what does a child that's having a child know about raisiing a kid? Not much.
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that doesn't mean it can't be done successfully. alot of young couples learn responsibility after having a child. if a mother or father cannot afford to take care of their child, that's what social service agencies are for.

i think giving up a child for adoption shows responsibility, but i don't think that's the case when it comes to abortion. that's too easy a solution for a problem they don't wish to solve.
 
Byrdie714 said:
I disagree as if the teenager realizes that they are unable to care for it and decide to have an abortion--shows responsibility on their part as well as giving it up for adoption.

Again--it's up to the parents of the minor to decide what's best for their child. Afterall--what does a child that's having a child know about raisiing a kid? Not much.
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Go to a parentin' class, or get a book from the library to learn how to raise a kid, parents can teach/or help and etc., etc. I am sure there are several options she could get help. It's what life is all about. Learn.
 
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