ecevit said:I'm sure you would get high benefit from a CI ,Angel.. Good luck
I hope so too, Thanks ecevit
ecevit said:I'm sure you would get high benefit from a CI ,Angel.. Good luck
^Angel^ said:I've noticed some deaf people are saying that cochlear implants hurt their deaf culture and I'm curious to know why they feel that way, please remember to keep an open mind on both sides, cause I'm willing to listen to everyone's view/opinions on this topic here...Please let's discuss in a civil manner without putting anyone down, Thanks
Why do some of you feel that cochlear implants hurt the deaf culture?....
jazzy said:Ur kidding. who said? I have many CI friends who are still living in deaf culture more than me. They call me hearing on my forehead even I do not have CI or wearing HA. I do not believe CI has not hurt their deaf culture as I do for one I married a hearing man.
but it is interest thread, thank u for point it out.
^Angel^ said:I said I heard stories on both sides ( deaf and CI users ), I believe you when you said you have many CI friends who still living in both worlds but I didn't even say ALL I said " some "...
I have friends who are CI users, and yet I haven't experiences anything as the others have, but that doesn't mean they're making this up, I would appreciate everyone to look at it from both sides please...
Thank you for sharing your view here, and I'm glad you feel that CI hasn't hurt the deaf culture as far as you see it
jazzy said:Knew few of my friends who were anti CI then now they wears CI. Interest about them, they attended CSDR, u know they are very deaf culturalists . I guess they grow up and changed their attiudes toward it and accept it. Maybe it comes with maturity as they grow older compare to young people who are still against CI.
As for me, I have no interest to getting one since I do not think I will be able to handle the noise after been deaf too long.
ecevit said:interesting.. I have severe and profound loss.. ( 86 DBL in the left, 95 DBL in the right )... but I'll try digital HAs first.. if they don't work well for me then I may think of getting a CI... I just want to communicate better with hearing world..
jazzy said:Ur kidding. who said? I have many CI friends who are still living in deaf culture more than me. They call me hearing on my forehead even I do not have CI or wearing HA. I do not believe CI has not hurt their deaf culture as I do for one I married a hearing man.
but it is interest thread, thank u for point it out.
^Angel^ said:I have no clue what I would hear if I was implanted with CI, but I don't think I would want to hear so much noises cause I have a habit of hearing nothing but silence, but I think I'm ready to give it a try, but part of me is still scared LOL
TrippLA said:It's obiviously that CI hurts deaf culture because some young children are hearing with no sign language, that highly influence from hearing parent. I would list some more if I have time.
jazzy said:Knew few of my friends who were anti CI then now they wears CI. Interest about them, they attended CSDR, u know they are very deaf culturalists . I guess they grow up and changed their attiudes toward it and accept it. Maybe it comes with maturity as they grow older compare to young people who are still against CI.
As for me, I have no interest to getting one since I do not think I will be able to handle the noise after been deaf too long.
R2D2 said:Another one for your list is immunization programs. The rubella vaccination has cut the number of deaf babies being born quite significantly, with a much greater impact than CIs being implanted on profoundly deaf children. That has to have an effect on deaf culture as well.
Research-Based Need for Guide-By-Your-Side Program
1. Essential Role Models Hearing parents of hearing children typically rely on models of parenting they've seen within their own circle of family and friends. When a baby is identified with hearing loss, a whole host of new considerations present themselves to parents . These parents will likely have no knowledge base from which to launch into the challenge of raising this child whose experience of life will be substantially different from his/her hearing parents. Indeed, 95% of all deaf or hard of hearing babies are born into hearing families with no prior experience with deafness or hearing loss. Families of deaf children often report that they did not have adequate resources for decision making (Eleweke & Rodda, 2000; Jackson, Becker, & Schmitendorf, 2002). Studies have reported that less than 10% of hearing parents of children who are deaf have frequent contacts with deaf adults (Hintermair, 2000). These studies suggest that parent-to-parent support encourages parents and provides parents with role models as they discover their capabilities as parents and families with a deaf/ hard of hearing child.
Cheri said:http://www.handsandvoices.org/services/guide.htm
Which is so true! I've even said that most hearing parents has no knowledge of how to raise a deaf child nor have no knowledge what to do. That's why most hearing parents rushed into getting implants for their deafness children. What a shame!
Cheri said:http://www.handsandvoices.org/services/guide.htm
Which is so true! I've even said that most hearing parents has no knowledge of how to raise a deaf child nor have no knowledge what to do. That's why most hearing parents rushed into getting implants for their deafness children. What a shame!
Gemtun said:We cannot judge these parents. You have to be in their shoes first before you can fully grasp the concept of their fear, guilt, shame, shock and confusion upon finding out that their child is deaf..
ButterflyGirl said:Don't like attention? My friend seemed to be embarrassed when I told the sales lady that we were deaf. Why are you preaching to me about my friend? You do not know her but I do. She was implanted with a CI 2 years ago at age 39 and then all of a sudden she decides to dump her deaf friends.
You are right you do not understand because you do not know me at all but you shoud be able to understand about how I felt when she pushed me away after being her friend for so long. By the way, I am not hurt anymore because I am glad to know that she wasn't my true friend at all.
Again, you do not know me and my friend. We are not you and your friend.
Gemtun said:We cannot judge these parents. You have to be in their shoes first before you can fully grasp the concept of their fear, guilt, shame, shock and confusion upon finding out that their child is deaf.
Granted, doctors are pushy because CI companies pay them for sponsoring CIs but there are many and many other programs who support bilingual or ASL or SEE, etc.
If I found out my child was blind, I would be confused too adn would rush to finding something because I want the best for my own child. Blind adults may judge me and scold me for not accepting their blindness in first place but it is my own decision. Being a parent is a damn tough job and dont need more guilt trips from others.
R2D2 said:Another one for your list is immunization programs. The rubella vaccination has cut the number of deaf babies being born quite significantly, with a much greater impact than CIs being implanted on profoundly deaf children. That has to have an effect on deaf culture as well.
IceCream said:Tell me you're being sarcastic.