Yes i know what you mean . Cloggy just wont to quit it till he get the answer he want ..
Please I wanted to explain something.
Please do not think Cloggy is 'bad' and out there to get you "deafies" or humiliate you who oppose CI in children, or CI in general.
Cloggy is a hearie, he does not understand all the language that some deaf pple use - an ASL English version.
Also he is Dutch (I think) and English is his second language - that's another problem.
He does not understand well the degree of difficulty some of you might have of understanding him.
At least it looks like to me.
You CLOGGY please remember pple here does not understand everything you say very well for the same reason - some don't understand " hearie" version of English. Is not that they ignore you or put you down or don't believe you.
To add to the confusion when it comes to CI subject there is strong psychological aspect of being proud as deaf person,
and equating having CI as being " fixed" thus "better" than deaf (which is not).
Some pple happened to be misinformed as to what excatly is CI, how does it work and how it is implanted,
and some does not know about how important are early years in developing language, so it all further adds to confusion.
Cloggy, please remember these pple are not being stubborn but there is a bit of language barrier for some,
andmore over it is likely that you as a hearing person probably do not understand the fact that one can actually choose to be totally deaf, and happy with it.
That's what my late brother did - he threw away his HA despite having the same degree of hearing loss as me, because he said they only give him unneccessary problems. He was functioning better as "totally deaf". So he choose "deaf ways only".
And that part too confuses general subject of CI further because while it is separate subject (the psychological part) it is introduced over and over into any CI pros and cons topics.
Try to remember that Cloggy, and please try patiently and not only politely but also warmly to get back on track everytime when we stray, and when you try to convey what you want to say again and again.
I'll try my best too.
It is not the deaf pple's fault when they can't always "get" what you try to say.
So let's be patient, everybody
Fuzzy