this post.. i felt offended. Because you sound like you "DONT care" how I feel about
my "near-death" while I explained how I was almost aborted. That made me to think anyone do not care about adoptees, survivors of abortion, children of rapists, and etc.. Your post made me a little bit of depressing.. thats why i ask you to leave...
As in bold above.. but mine is different, 20 years ago, when I was born, before that, I was in emerency operation, because the doctors discovered that I was choked with the tube from my belly button around my neck twice, as it was a risk of killing the baby, so they sent my mother at midnight for emercency crescan (can't spell that) operation, and you know Jessie, I am a lucky man to be alive today.
Oooo... you said her children are terrible and then
are they worthless thaat should throw their lives away like a toliet? I'm sure that children have both dark & bright sides. It could not be one side they have.. actually,
I grew up in deaf school and was bullied brutelly by some students for some years but I turned out okay. I have a harder life, just like her children, so my life should be killed off?
You see, i'm tried of unwanted *bastard* children have no value as people claim, and do we have no value of lives if we are not wanted? One time, I was asked by a child asked, "what if I am not wanted, can I be killed?" That's so depressing... COS... her parent always told her that they wish they should abort her while they still loved her. Right front of me, I'm not joking.. What's a kind of love is that?
In the fact, the girl is a threatren (sp) survivor of abortion.. (to see what is an abortion survivor -
TEN DIFFERENT TYPES OF "ABORTION SURVIVORS") That website is similar to that child's life, the 10 years old girl.
AND, I'm very sorry about your sister and her children too.. I truly do.
But, I dont believe that her children's lives should throw away.
PLUS, I feel still offended by your post some more... This is for pro-lifers only to share with their opinions... You are not helpful since you are definitely pro-choice and I want you to leave here. Please? Thank you.
PS- You can create your own thread for pro-choice. That's cool
I am glad that you turned it out Okay, keep that way and enjoy your life to the fulllest - there is plenty of things you can do to experience
As highlighted in bold above, about the bullied part - Mann_K05 has mentioned that she attended deaf school, bur for me, I went to mainstream high school (middle school/highschool) in the first years of high schooling ( grade 7 to 9) I was bullied so much and I was invovled in a lot of fights with my friends and other people in the school, it was terrible. I hated that - but in middle of grade 9, I realized and they stopped bullying me and I turned into a new leaf and that bullying and fighting hasn't happened ever since. During my bad years, I even had trouble with my family too. But life for me at the moment, is much much better now for me
I am pro life.
May I tell you little from my experence. I am all against abortions, and all the things you name in this thread. I have two children, one girl-20 and a son-11. I taught them valve of life and the importance of life, and from rights and wrongs. We wont allow weapons or anything illegal in our home period. If anyone don't like our rule, they can take it outside, not here.
My mother had me when she was 15 and she made a right choice to keep me- my dad was 13 years older than my mother and he is the best father in the world and loves us all no matter what the costs, even my grandmother and my mother were not very very close back then just because my grandfather raped my mother when she was 9 years old that my grandmother refused to believe it or hear of it. Later on after I was born, my grandmother fell in love with me dearly and asked my mother if she could forgive my grandmother for turning her back from her. Of course my grandmother had to divorce my grandfather. Later when I was pregant with my daughter, he commited suicide.
I ended up meeting a wrong abusive man and got pregnant when I was nineteen-the father of my daughter wanted a aborton--Lord, I flipped out big time and I hated him even more and kicked him out of my life for good right on this spot...and there as for my mother to protect me and said to me if he choose to kill my baby, she will take it if I had no choice. I told my mom this, "No, mother I will keep the baby and love the baby for the rest of my life and not a damn thing anyone can do about it. I wont allow anyone to take my own unborn child." My mother loved me for it and my parents supported me all the way a hundred percent. Later when my daughter was 3, my ex-husband adopted her because her real dad wanted nothing to do with her. He had raise her and loved her since she was 7 months old. His ex-girlfriend killed his unborn baby without his knowledge, he was so devasted and he left her right then.
And for my daughter, she was 17 when she was pregnant with my grandson-her boyfriend was 29 at the time. I wasn't proud of her dating a guy who is 29, but it is her choice that she choose to live her own life by running away and made mistakes, like we all made mistakes when we were young and still, we shouldn't felt burden to it as pushiments bec of our mistakes, we take one day at a time and learn from it. And to be sure not to make the same mistakes twice. I supported her all the way and ever since she was 18 and we couldn't stop her or her decision that she wanted to stay with her boyfriend. She have kept our grandson, he is gift from God. Now they were together almost three years and they are married and well.
We all don't believe such thing as abortions, it is very very wrong to kill unborn child. My heart goes out to you Mann_K05 and support you all the way!!! Add me to your pro-life thread.
restless_heart I am very overwealmed with your story of your expreiences with your daughter, parents and your parenting to your children. In bold above, about your daugther, I have a friend who I have known for more than 10 years, I am very very very, pissed with her, as she went on dating with a 34 year old man, who she fell pregnant with her son, at 17, (the son is now 3 years old) and that man, who she went together for more than 5 years, was very very abusive to my friend, she has scarred a lot to herself for life, inside her she said that she felt so bad about it. Me and my friend has told her a million times to leave him but the absuive thngs has continued to happen, until this year she realised it was time to leave him and once for all. BUt still her life was ruined. I feel sorry for her. But still she is my friend. I won't let anyone or her to go the same like this. It is not right. People should be in the correct age group.. abusing people is stupid. The man who she was with was alcholic for the most of the time, it was terrible. Now he's gone and I never want to see him near us ever again.
Sorry for blurting everthing about this, but it would be interesting for you all to hear about it.