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I might add "knowledgeable" to "good" parents. From what I have seen in 35 years in an educational setting (not as a teacher, tho), those knowledgeable parents are pretty rare. Therefore, "the teachers are the experts" will more than hold sway because it is what they do for a living. Good teachers who got their degrees 25 years ago, attend ongoing workshops, classes, etc to keep abreast of what's best for the students.
This is no means to indicate that the parents are ignored; in fact, the parents are the ones who have all the power in an IEP meeting but if they are not knowledgeable, they pretty much defer to a team of teachers' recommendations for their sons and daughters. In a nutshell.....
I agree...it is not that I dont want nor value parents' input...after all I rely on them heavily to know what's happening with their children so I can understand why their children have bad days or whatever. However, they dont understand how to teach a classroom full of diverse learners until they have experienced it themselves.