faire_jour
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Oh look! I know someone who was raised orally and is doing perfectly fine.
Oh look! I know someone who was raised with ASL, can speak also, and does perfectly fine.
Oh look! I know someone who was raised with ASL, even though s/he has bad oral skills, s/he does perfectly fine.
What can we conclude from that? Nothing!
I'll be blunt here. Just because I'm in a devil-ish mood today.
Faire_jour, I am on your side, but it's becoming glaringly obvious that you're a little emotional when someone merely mentions your child (which is understandable) and also I think you want to get some confirmation/support from the deaf community for your possible plan of putting Miss Kat in a mainstream school.
Others, it's obvious that you're tired of faire constantly trying to get even one person to approve of the idea that oral only may not be a bad idea, and I suspect that some of you are bringing faire's daughter into the topic because you know it would irritate her.
Also, am I the only one who finds it incredibly ironic that the ones who are the most outspoken about subjects like this are those who are oral only who learned ASL or going to learn ASL later? Where are the native ASL users? Isn't there a difference between "I wish I had" and "I am so happy that I had"????
HINDSIGHT.....
She won't be in a mainstream school for a very long time. I am simply trying to defend the parents and hearing people who get bashed here every single day.
I find it ironic that yes, there are very very very few native ASL users here to talk about the effects of growing up with ASL as opposed to without. But honestly, most ironic is that the person who posts the research and is the most informed, is HEARING!