Sex Offender Just Moved Into My Neighborhood

LuciaDisturbed said:
How the fuck did this nasty sex offender get away with having sex with a 12 year old and then having a baby with her and then marrying her?!
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this is why I avoid hearing/reading the stories as much as I can.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
How the fuck did this nasty sex offender get away with having sex with a 12 year old and then having a baby with her and then marrying her?!
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she got pregnant at age 12 while he was molesting her. he got out of jail about the time she turned 18. she was at legal age to marry so she married him. :ugh:



they claim there was never any molesting, they say that they fell in love. her 12, him near 60. :sure:
 
The poor girl probably believed his lies and allowed him to wash her brain into thinking that what they did was 'love'. PFFFTT! AS IF! I'm surprised the judge did not place a no-contact order on him given the circumstances so that when he was released from prison he would not be allowed to have any contact with her in any shape or form or he would return to prison.
 
:shrug: the whole thing baffles me. their son is a really nice kid.

his father is on the list of people that are not allowed on school premises ever. :thumb:
 
probably has his wife or someone video taping all of his sons school events for him so he can "be there" without actually having to be there.

But if he is a sex offender - why is his son living with him? I thought if a sex offender is living in the home the child is often removed or the sex offender is told to leave. This doesn't add up. The child and sex offender cannot share the same living quarters.
 
Dixie said:
probably has his wife or someone video taping all of his sons school events for him so he can "be there" without actually having to be there.

But if he is a sex offender - why is his son living with him? I thought if a sex offender is living in the home the child is often removed or the sex offender is told to leave. This doesn't add up. The child and sex offender cannot share the same living quarters.
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the court system is crazy :shrug:


the whole situation is totally screwed up!


Is this the face that a 12 year old would fall in love with?
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C.C.Sinned said:
the court system is crazy :shrug:


the whole situation is totally screwed up!


Is this the face that a 12 year old would fall in love with?
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Hell NO!...He looks like a dirty, old, filthy man! Probably got a 2-inch pecker.
 
C.C.Sinned said:
the court system is crazy :shrug:


the whole situation is totally screwed up!


Is this the face that a 12 year old would fall in love with?
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What a sick loser!
 
This is something you may want to ask the Police about, address your concerns as you do have to the right to be concerned about the safety of the children. The cops cannot ignore that right.

Ask. It's not that hard.

Yiz
 
C.C.Sinned said:
she got pregnant at age 12 while he was molesting her. he got out of jail about the time she turned 18. she was at legal age to marry so she married him. :ugh:



they claim there was never any molesting, they say that they fell in love. her 12, him near 60. :sure:
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That's sick, man....he's sick. A 12 year old can be easily brainwashed or convinced to think that she was in love with a 60 year old guy. It does happen...it's something that a 12 year old girl would not understand fully what was happening and thought it was true love. A 12 year old is still developing and still figuring things out about boys and sex and stuff. The 60 year old guy used that to his advantage. And even 18 years old girls are still figuring stuff out, too...I was still figuring stuff out when I turned 18, having just gotten out of foster care and stuff. There would be a lot of psychological articles about this kind of stuff, and even my foster mom who is a school psychologist would agree. When I left foster care I was still depending on her as a "second mom" for a lot of stuff and questions and stuff, there was a lot of shit I still did not understand, even at 18 years old.
 
yizuman said:
If you asked me, 90 days is too long.

They can disappear and never be found again. It's not that hard to go completely off the grid.

Yiz
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I agree.

If I had things my way, the sex offenders would be reporting to their parole officers at least once a day. If the government feels that's a bit much, then at least every other day. Gotta keep their toes in line so they don't offend again and not enough time to go off the grid completely...keep them scared about the thought of going back to prison...90 days is too long....they can do a LOT in 90 days without anybody knowing anything. And I would make them wear electronic bracelets with GPS in it, that once attached to their ankles (or better yet, necks or wrists where they can be easily seen - very noticeable, makes for a good warning sign), would be very hard to remove or break, and blinks a lots so when people see them they would know that the person is a criminal and stay away from them and protect their children. Kinda like wearing an orange shirt that says "I'M A SEX OFFENDER, KEEP YOUR KIDS AWAY FROM ME!" only not removable. Too bad if that is humiliating for the offender, but well, he's gotta pay for what he has done to innocent children. He gotta own up to what he did. He humiliated the children by molesting and raping them, so now it's his turn.

Or stick them on an island far in the middle of the ocean with fences that will shock them if they try to escape, and leave them to fend for themselves. No, not Gitmo bay - too close - I'm talking a lone deserted island with no one else on it, stick all the sex offenders on the island and leave them to their own devices....with lots of surveillance and fences that have 9283723862807 volts running through them so no one can even try to climb the fences and escape, if they touch them they die immediately from the voltage. And no technology on the island such as internet, cell phones, landlines, and stuff, no internet, no TV, no nothing. Stick them back in the stone age, let them fend for themselves.

Just some ideas. Maybe you think they're not feasible ideas but well...that's just me.
 
What really bothers me about debates like these have you ever really thought about the other side to this story? My son is considered a sex offender although he DOES NOT have to register but this happened to him when he was 12 years old. Now imagine if we had to register him and everyone was trying to run us out of our house and neighborhood. I ask you where are we to live? Don't forget these people have paid their debt to society and should have a right to live in peace. What is wrong with just being aware and then watching your kids more closely, if you are that worried?

Some people are registered sex offenders simply because you have a 17 year old sleeping with his 15 year old girl friend and yes this does happen. Not everyone on that sex offender registery is a pedophile. Not everyone on that registry will re offend.

I just wish more people would be more open minded and remember these things. Kids as young as 14 do have to register. Do you want to run a kid and their parents out of their home? This is what is happening. I say live and let live. We all got along fine before the registery, and we should all get along fine after the registery.

Sorry, *steps off my soapbox* but its topics like these that gets my blood boiling.
 
Bottesini said:
I have never gotten a notice or anything, but when the link was put up last night I checked it.

I found out a registered sex offender lives next door to me.

I also read that his crime was in 1988 and involved an adult. He is just an average grandfather.

I wonder do these people stay on the registry for life?
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Some do have to stay on the registry for life and others have to be on it for 20 years, some have to be on it for 10 years. The minimum is 10 years. I know a lot about this because when I was researching about juvenile justice and alot of the injustices done in that system, I came across the fact that even kids as young as 14 are made to register sometimes.
 
Bear said:
What really bothers me about debates like these have you ever really thought about the other side to this story? My son is considered a sex offender although he DOES NOT have to register but this happened to him when he was 12 years old. Now imagine if we had to register him and everyone was trying to run us out of our house and neighborhood. I ask you where are we to live? Don't forget these people have paid their debt to society and should have a right to live in peace. What is wrong with just being aware and then watching your kids more closely, if you are that worried?

Some people are registered sex offenders simply because you have a 17 year old sleeping with his 15 year old girl friend and yes this does happen. Not everyone on that sex offender registery is a pedophile. Not everyone on that registry will re offend.

I just wish more people would be more open minded and remember these things. Kids as young as 14 do have to register. Do you want to run a kid and their parents out of their home? This is what is happening. I say live and let live. We all got along fine before the registery, and we should all get along fine after the registery.

Sorry, *steps off my soapbox* but its topics like these that gets my blood boiling.
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Innocent children who have been violated like me have to with this for the rest of our lives. So I don't think sex offenders have paid their debt to society by living in prison and I don't think they should ever get to live in peace. We have been violated so our minds do not get to live in peace. Why should they live in peace? They should suffer for the rest of their lives for what they have done to children like us.

Anyway, what exactly did your son do when he was 12? And did you witness it?

And, I refuse to be open minded to the idea of having sex offenders in our neighborhoods living near children. I care more about children than I care about sex offenders. Sex offenders have no heart except the biological organ that beats in their chest, and that doesn't count.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Innocent children who have been violated like me have to with this for the rest of our lives. So I don't think sex offenders have paid their debt to society by living in prison and I don't think they should ever get to live in peace. We have been violated so our minds do not get to live in peace. Why should they live in peace? They should suffer for the rest of their lives for what they have done to children like us.

Anyway, what exactly did your son do when he was 12? And did you witness it?
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His story is here in AD. And I too have been on the other side of this debate. I too was molested from the age of 5 until I was 14 by our so-called landlord. Did he ever see a day in jail for this. NO! But yet, I can look at this objectively and not hate from it. There is no 100% fool proof way of protecting your kids, not even when your asleep. All you can do is the best you can do.

I wish they would do away with this registry. Only the cops and courts should know where they live. It is not our business to know and so far it is proven that this is not working. All it is doing is causing people to do things that they normally would not do. I have heard of sex offenders being killed by their neighbors, have their homes vandalized, and not allowed to live in peace at all. They get harrassed more than they harrass us usually.

My son is not dangerous. In fact he should never have even been prosecuted, but this town being what it is, they went ahead with it and got away with it.

Lucia,

Just because you hear that someone has been prosecuted of it and convicted does not actually make them guilty no matter what. Many, many, many accused sex offenders have now been released because the DNA does not match up. Once accused it follows them for the rest of their lives, even if they are later found NOT to have done it. On top of that, there have been stories where kids will make things up to get *revenge* alot of good teachers have lost their jobs over this. Yet, were later found to NOT have done anything. After the accusations their lives were destroyed and their careers in the dumpster. Once accused they couldnt go back to teaching, regardless if they DIDNT do it and was PROVED not to have done it.

There are MANY stories out there that is proven to be lies and the justice system used for revenge. But once accused too many people do NOT care about the outcome, only that they were accused.

That is why I push and push for stricter laws when it comes to sex offenses. I believe we SHOULD not be able to prosecute WITHOUT DNA proving that that person did it. Otherwise, it is a he said, she said situation. With no real proof.

What if there was a gf that got dumped by her bf? She could EASILY go to the cops and say he raped her, just out of revenge for being dumped. Then that boyfriend is branded for life.

The way people think today scares me more than the sex offenders do.

With the way people think today the safest thing is to NEVER have sex with ANYONE.

Even a wife can accuse her husband of rape and put him in jail! Think about that!

This is not a black and white issue. There are many of shades of grey in this issue.

There is two cases that I know of, one is personal and one is someone I dont know.

My husband's ex gf and the mother of his other daughter accused her brother of raping her. He was sentenced to jail for 20 years, he killed himself while in jail and maintained his innocence the whole time he was in jail. Later, this woman turned around and admitted she lied about the whole thing, and that it never happened. After her brother had killed himself! So you tell me, is this worth it?

Some of you may say oh a few innocents lost are worth it, simply because it does get the bad ones away from us and off the streets. Is it? What if that innocent one is someday you or someone very close to you?

Another man, this person I dont know, he was arrested for raping a woman. He looked alot like the man in the description. He spent many years in jail before DNA testing came along. They were finally able to test the DNA from the crime. It was found it was not HIM that did it!!! They finally released him, but only after his whole life was ruined.

I personally think, that no matter what was done to me in the past, that this is not about me. There is a bigger picture here. Regardless of how mad I am about what happened to me, it isnt worth someone not being able to live their lives, it isnt worth an innocent person having their whole lives destroyed over, and it isnt worth making it so that a person cannot at least have the possibility of finally making a decent and law abiding life for themselves.
 
Bear said:
His story is here in AD. And I too have been on the other side of this debate. I too was molested from the age of 5 until I was 14 by our so-called landlord. Did he ever see a day in jail for this. NO! But yet, I can look at this objectively and not hate from it. There is no 100% fool proof way of protecting your kids, not even when your asleep. All you can do is the best you can do.
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Could I have a link to his story please? There are too many threads on sex offenders for me to find his story.

I am sorry you were molested by your landlord, he should have been put in prison for the rest of his life. Too many sex offenders get away with this kind of thing.

I wish they would do away with this registry. Only the cops and courts should know where they live. It is not our business to know and so far it is proven that this is not working. All it is doing is causing people to do things that they normally would not do. I have heard of sex offenders being killed by their neighbors, have their homes vandalized, and not allowed to live in peace at all. They get harrassed more than they harrass us usually.
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I disagree. I like to have the sex offender registry so I can keep track of the person who hurt me, and the other persons who have hurt my family and friends, so that we can stay informed of their whereabouts and protect ourselves. They deserve to be harassed, but we cannot harass them. The registry in my home state has a disclaimer agreement at the bottom of the website that says that we are not to use the registry to harass the sex offender, only to warn/inform others that he exists and is in the area, and to track him (as in knowing where he lives so we can make sure our kids don't go over to his house) and we have to click on the "yes" button to agree to the disclaimer. If we don't click "yes" we cannot view his information.

My son is not dangerous. In fact he should never have even been prosecuted, but this town being what it is, they went ahead with it and got away with it.
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When I read your son's story, I'll let you know what I think. Until then, I can't go and say, "yeah your son was innocent" just because you said so. Especially if you did not witness the situation itself.

Lucia,

Just because you hear that someone has been prosecuted of it and convicted does not actually make them guilty no matter what.
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The person who molested me is guilty of all his crimes and deserves to rot in prison. I am his first victim but I am not his only victim. He raped another victim who I actually know at the same school, then later on he molested a little one, and was convicted for that one this time. He's a repeat offender, and I want him back in the slammer pronto. All of it is true, I have already confirmed it with the second victim. I don't want him to touch another victim. I worry that another innocent child will have to live with what happened in his or her little head for the rest of his or her life because of what this person has done to this child. And since it has at least been the third time he has offended, the odds of him doing it again are VERY high. 3 times is a lot of times to offend. He belongs in prison for life, in a tiny cell, never to see the sun ever again. HE IS GUILTY, period.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Could I have a link to his story please? There are too many threads on sex offenders for me to find his story.

I am sorry you were molested by your landlord, he should have been put in prison for the rest of his life. Too many sex offenders get away with this kind of thing.



I disagree. I like to have the sex offender registry so I can keep track of the person who hurt me, and the other persons who have hurt my family and friends, so that we can stay informed of their whereabouts and protect ourselves. They deserve to be harassed, but we cannot harass them. The registry in my home state has a disclaimer agreement at the bottom of the website that says that we are not to use the registry to harass the sex offender, only to warn/inform others that he exists and is in the area, and to track him (as in knowing where he lives so we can make sure our kids don't go over to his house) and we have to click on the "yes" button to agree to the disclaimer. If we don't click "yes" we cannot view his information.



When I read your son's story, I'll let you know what I think. Until then, I can't go and say, "yeah your son was innocent" just because you said so. Especially if you did not witness the situation itself.




The person who molested me is guilty of all his crimes and deserves to rot in prison. I am his first victim but I am not his only victim. He raped another victim who I actually know at the same school, then later on he molested a little one, and was convicted for that one this time. He's a repeat offender, and I want him back in the slammer pronto. All of it is true, I have already confirmed it with the second victim. I don't want him to touch another victim. I worry that another innocent child will have to live with what happened in his or her little head for the rest of his or her life because of what this person has done to this child. And since it has at least been the third time he has offended, the odds of him doing it again are VERY high. 3 times is a lot of times to offend. He belongs in prison for life, in a tiny cell, never to see the sun ever again. HE IS GUILTY, period.
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Hope she proves the link....I, too, want to read it.
 
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