I understand your views but let me tell you something...
1.) I have a friend who is sex offender, he only did it once by accidently, he only looked at that 6 years old girl's private area when that girl's parents walked in and called the police on him, he just don't understand and being so native and many things, he just don't know how to stand up and everything like that so he got that. I read his papers along with everybody's words and etc like that so it's only once he did it, it was in 1998.
He had no business looking at a little girl's private area in the first place, so I would consider him a sex offender. Men knows not to look at a little girl's private area, it's called common sense. Doesn't matter if he doesn't know how to stand up for himself...he still should have known NOT to look at a little girl's private part. I don't care if it's only once.
2.) My cousin, he's married to a woman and having three kids together even he's sex offender for just having sex with his ex girlfriend who was 16 years old when WHEN he was 18 years old. Somehow, his ex's parents called the polices and mentioned that he raped their daughter so he became sex offender for that.
He should have known better not to have sex with a 16 year old girl when he was an 18 years old adult. It's called
statutory rape, simple as that. So he did rape him, technically.
3.) A man lived in my old area, he was my dad's friend. He is sex offender for just peeing outside in the morning, he didn't know that there was kids in the backyard. He just drunk and peed outside unexpectly. So kids' mother called the police on him also.
He did a stupid thing, he is an adult and knows it is inappropriate to pee in public so he deserves to be labeled as sex offender. He peed in front of kids. It's so inappropriate, simple as that. He should have known better, common sense, he should have gone to a gas station or a store or a bar with a bathroom and gone in there to pee instead of outside in front of children who are not supposed to see men's penises at their ages.
So I have my words because I know that there's half of people who got crimes which they are innocent. NOt just sex offender include felony for something, or whatever you name it. That's why I just keep their words in my mind to making sure that they don't change the story or anything like that. Plus, I have been watching many things on the tv about people, crimes and etc include tv shows called NCIS, CSI, etc. I learned alot and understood that people, half in that, could be innocent but can't prove anything or whatever like that. So... That's why I said something in first place to remind you guys plus, it's better way to just remember that people could be innocent but at same time, just keep an eye on back, front and sides that's simple to do which I am doing right now. So sorry everybody
You seem to support a lot of sex offenders. And you have a baby daughter yourself. I won't be surprised if CPS shows up at your house because you seem to be fine being friends with sex offenders. Do you even invite them over to your house? I hope not.
I don't even have kids myself and I still refuse to associate with sex offenders, no matter what and I always look out for other kids. I am a victim of a sex offender (I was molested at age 8) and he has recently been let out of prison and I am not happy because he sexually molested a child (his last victim)....it's why he went to prison, he was supposed to do 12 years in prison but he didn't complete his full sentence for some reason and now he is out and I am afraid for all children that lives in his area. He has offended at least three times in his life, and I was his FIRST victim...I even know who the SECOND victim was....and I know there was one or two more victims....I don't know the total of many victims he has hurt but he has hurt at LEAST three so far. He belongs in prison for the rest of his life.
You seem so supportive of sex offenders and you like to come up with lame excuses for sex offenders. Think about it...if you had been right there, you actually witnessed what happened, then you would think differently, you would be singing a different tune. People who support sex offenders and come up with lame excuses for what they've done makes me very uncomfortable and scares me, yes it really does scare me. I always worry about children and sex offenders.
Please be careful and keep an eye on your little baby girl. I don't want her to be harmed by any sex offenders that you are friends with. I hope you don't invite those sex offenders to your house where your daughter lives and where your daughter could become victims to these sex offenders' possible actions now and in the future, you just never know. Don't ever let your baby girl out of your sight. Please. This is my advice to you, because I always worry about all children, especially your precious little girl.
I am not saying this to be rude to you, but to warn you and I want you to wake up and realize that it is NOT a good idea to be friends with sex offenders especially when you have a small baby daughter to take care of that could get hurt by your sex offender friends. If you let the sex offenders visit your house they could gain access to your little baby girl's private parts and possibly abuse her sexually while you are not looking, and that scares me. Please be careful. Sex offenders are really good at being very sneaky while sexually abusing little children...they can sneak around and molest a child and then teach the child not to tell anything and even threaten the child not to tell or the child would be killed, and then all is said and done the sex offender acts like nothing ever happened. I am saying this because I am a victim of a sex offender and I really do not want your precious baby girl to become a victim too, because I care very much about your baby daughter and you, and I don't want both of you to get hurt because one of your sex offender friends decides to touch your baby girl inappropriately....you just never know. I'm just letting you know that this can happen...wake up and realize and be careful, ok? I know you are a good mother but even all good mothers can fall into a false sense of security and then their precious small children ends up being victims of a sex offender friend because you think your child is safe because the sex offender claims that all he did was pee in public when the truth is that he had done much more but is denying it because he knows his name has been blackened. He needs to own up to what he has done and accept that his name has been blackened and stay away from all children from age 0 to 18. I am saying all this because I CARE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER and ALL OTHER CHILDREN. I don't want anyone to experience what I have experienced, okay? My advice to you would be to sever all ties to all sex offender friends, to all people who have been labeled as sex offender, no matter how innocent they claim to be, out of caution and for safety reasons...you just never know...you weren't there when it happened, therefore the sex offender can claim that all he did was pee in public when the truth is that he harmed someone. You didn't see it, so you didn't know what really happen. I think you should just sever all ties to all sex offender friends and sever all ties to all people labeled as sex offenders just for safety reasons, ok? That is what I would do.
I am not saying this to insult you...just to give you a "nudge" and get you to open your eyes and be more cautious and be more careful, even if they are your friends or relatives or whatever. Just be careful. This stuff is really scary.
I only say this because I CARE, ok? Not because I am being rude...I honestly am not being rude. I just CARE very much about every single child. Ok? If you feel upset, angry, you feel insulted, whatever, I apologize, and you can PM me...my inbox is always open and you can tell me how you feel, ok? I just care too much, ok?
Oh BTW, I would not rely on TV shows as education on sex crimes and whatnot...all of those shows are fictional. I suggest that you read psychological articles about sex offenders and how they have affected children victims and teenage victims. Those are better sources, and also visit the sex offender registry websites as well. There are also government-owned websites with articles regarding sex offenders, information, and stuff. Google this stuff and you will learn a lot.
Take care.