Sex Offender Just Moved Into My Neighborhood

May I remind you one thing...

HALF of them could be so innocent or fraud for what they did which it is so wrong or lying or fake or whatever like that. Just please remember that, you just can't blame them because of you just never know if they are ACTUALLY innocent but just got in the jail because of evience or someone lying about or someone in the jury just wanted to just rush up to finish with that case. Just please remember but best idea is keep an eye on your back, sides and front that's it.

Thank you very much.

Yes I second that.

Check this link of some threads including links of innocent sex offenders.

http://www.alldeaf.com/general-chat/43498-do-you-consider-18-years-old-child-molester-if.html


Check ADer´s story over her 12 years old innocent son in few pages after 5 or 6 pages thread.

Her 12 years old son of ADer stamped as sex offender. :( 12 years old?

http://www.alldeaf.com/topic-debate...ex-offender-parents-pose-dilemma-schools.html
 
Isn't it a well-known fact that the majority of victims were molested/raped by a relative/family friend/friend? Even if there is a sex offender living in your area, you are highly unlikely to be victimized. Unless he is a serial rapist.

People have to be realistic, there is a large, and I mean large number of sex offenders and potential sex offenders out there. They can't all be accounted for because many has not been convicted of such a crime or even accused of to start with.

The important thing is, be aware of that person and make sure your children are safe. However, I strongly advise against rallying and making the sex offender's life a living hell because you may end up regretting your actions.

Your emotions can get the best of you if you let it take control of you.

:gpost:

I understand your views but let me tell you something...

1.) I have a friend who is sex offender, he only did it once by accidently, he only looked at that 6 years old girl's private area when that girl's parents walked in and called the police on him, he just don't understand and being so native and many things, he just don't know how to stand up and everything like that so he got that. I read his papers along with everybody's words and etc like that so it's only once he did it, it was in 1998.

2.) My cousin, he's married to a woman and having three kids together even he's sex offender for just having sex with his ex girlfriend who was 16 years old when WHEN he was 18 years old. Somehow, his ex's parents called the polices and mentioned that he raped their daughter so he became sex offender for that.

3.) A man lived in my old area, he was my dad's friend. He is sex offender for just peeing outside in the morning, he didn't know that there was kids in the backyard. He just drunk and peed outside unexpectly. So kids' mother called the police on him also.

So I have my words because I know that there's half of people who got crimes which they are innocent. NOt just sex offender include felony for something, or whatever you name it. That's why I just keep their words in my mind to making sure that they don't change the story or anything like that. Plus, I have been watching many things on the tv about people, crimes and etc include tv shows called NCIS, CSI, etc. I learned alot and understood that people, half in that, could be innocent but can't prove anything or whatever like that. So... That's why I said something in first place to remind you guys plus, it's better way to just remember that people could be innocent but at same time, just keep an eye on back, front and sides that's simple to do which I am doing right now. So sorry everybody



Accord your pos. 1 & 3 - WHAT! :shock:

and pos 2. - Yes, I am well aware of it. We debated about this at several threads... (check 2 links, I provided to reponse your 1st post).



My ex-girlfriend lived near to Ted Bundy in Tacoma, Wa. Just two blocks away.

My former worker was Captain of Nazi U-Boat. I am jewish. We got along. When I learned that he was Nazi made me upset but accept that past is over!!!

near Ted Bundy is scary... goosebumps.

May I correct your post about Nazi? Not all Germans were Nazi.



My friend was looking at 6 years old girl's private area because she was crying and said it's hrut there it's hurt there! as she pointed down at her private area and he was babysitting her for that parents.

And my cousin had sex with his EX GIRLFRIEND who was 16 years old which they was planning to having sex together but somehow his ex's parents found out and got all pissed off since they are christian and believe that should have sex after marriage. Her parents did love him alot before they had sex, somehow they did then they hate him for that

Yep, sex offender label can be placed on them for the rest of their natural life.

I have a friend who was labeled a sex offender for blowing raspberry on an infant's stomach at a day care, she was 18 during that time, and she is now 37 and still register as a sex offender.. She is not allow to work at a day care ever.

Oh my dear... :(
 
Nope, it's not rare. The females kill especially the children or their husbands/boyfriends.

You're talking about a whole different ball game, women rarely kill a stranger because women do not typically commit violent crimes.
 
You're talking about a whole different ball game, women rarely kill a stranger because women do not typically commit violent crimes.

When did I say that females kill strangers was not rare?
 
another offender around here: guy was in his late 50's,(59 i think) the girl was 12 when he started molesting her. they had a child. they are now married and the child they had together is now 13...

Yike, if that's true then I hope he's not doing the same to his child.
 
I wonder do these people stay on the registry for life?

Last I checked most level 1 offenders stay on register for 10 years (Michigan is strict require 25 years). Seroius, very serious Level 3 offenders stay on register for life and must report every 90 days to the cops.
 
Last I checked most level 1 offenders stay on register for 10 years (Michigan is strict require 25 years). Seroius, very serious Level 3 offenders stay on register for life and must report every 90 days to the cops.

If you asked me, 90 days is too long.

They can disappear and never be found again. It's not that hard to go completely off the grid.

Yiz
 
Today I asked my mom if she knew if there were any sex offenders near us, and she said she didn't know. However, she did say that at the daycare she works at they built low-income housing across from it and there is a sex offender living there. :shock: I wonder if Canada's sex offender laws are as strict or are less strict than the US's, because if I understand correctly most sex offenders aren't allowed within a certain distance of schools and daycares (and both are within a short distance). Something seems wrong...
 
Typically? Depends on the context and cultural value!

I do in matter of fact would have to disagree with you because most violent crimes have been committed against women and children.
 
I think the point of this thread is that we need to be vigilant and not let our guard go down just because we live in a "nice neighborhood" or "we are miles from anyone else". As mentioned, most offenders are a person the child knows such as a coach, a family member in some cases, as well as a neighbor that allows all the neighborhood kids to come over. Sometimes it could even be a minister.

You just have to watch for signs of changed behavior in your child. Don't think just because your child is a teen means they can take care of themselves. A teen may feel too ashamed or embarrassed about the incident to tell anyone about it and so they live with it for months, maybe even years, before they break down from the emotional stress.

I agree!
 
I understand your views but let me tell you something...

1.) I have a friend who is sex offender, he only did it once by accidently, he only looked at that 6 years old girl's private area when that girl's parents walked in and called the police on him, he just don't understand and being so native and many things, he just don't know how to stand up and everything like that so he got that. I read his papers along with everybody's words and etc like that so it's only once he did it, it was in 1998.

He had no business looking at a little girl's private area in the first place, so I would consider him a sex offender. Men knows not to look at a little girl's private area, it's called common sense. Doesn't matter if he doesn't know how to stand up for himself...he still should have known NOT to look at a little girl's private part. I don't care if it's only once.

2.) My cousin, he's married to a woman and having three kids together even he's sex offender for just having sex with his ex girlfriend who was 16 years old when WHEN he was 18 years old. Somehow, his ex's parents called the polices and mentioned that he raped their daughter so he became sex offender for that.

He should have known better not to have sex with a 16 year old girl when he was an 18 years old adult. It's called statutory rape, simple as that. So he did rape him, technically.

3.) A man lived in my old area, he was my dad's friend. He is sex offender for just peeing outside in the morning, he didn't know that there was kids in the backyard. He just drunk and peed outside unexpectly. So kids' mother called the police on him also.

He did a stupid thing, he is an adult and knows it is inappropriate to pee in public so he deserves to be labeled as sex offender. He peed in front of kids. It's so inappropriate, simple as that. He should have known better, common sense, he should have gone to a gas station or a store or a bar with a bathroom and gone in there to pee instead of outside in front of children who are not supposed to see men's penises at their ages.

So I have my words because I know that there's half of people who got crimes which they are innocent. NOt just sex offender include felony for something, or whatever you name it. That's why I just keep their words in my mind to making sure that they don't change the story or anything like that. Plus, I have been watching many things on the tv about people, crimes and etc include tv shows called NCIS, CSI, etc. I learned alot and understood that people, half in that, could be innocent but can't prove anything or whatever like that. So... That's why I said something in first place to remind you guys plus, it's better way to just remember that people could be innocent but at same time, just keep an eye on back, front and sides that's simple to do which I am doing right now. So sorry everybody

You seem to support a lot of sex offenders. And you have a baby daughter yourself. I won't be surprised if CPS shows up at your house because you seem to be fine being friends with sex offenders. Do you even invite them over to your house? I hope not.

I don't even have kids myself and I still refuse to associate with sex offenders, no matter what and I always look out for other kids. I am a victim of a sex offender (I was molested at age 8) and he has recently been let out of prison and I am not happy because he sexually molested a child (his last victim)....it's why he went to prison, he was supposed to do 12 years in prison but he didn't complete his full sentence for some reason and now he is out and I am afraid for all children that lives in his area. He has offended at least three times in his life, and I was his FIRST victim...I even know who the SECOND victim was....and I know there was one or two more victims....I don't know the total of many victims he has hurt but he has hurt at LEAST three so far. He belongs in prison for the rest of his life.

You seem so supportive of sex offenders and you like to come up with lame excuses for sex offenders. Think about it...if you had been right there, you actually witnessed what happened, then you would think differently, you would be singing a different tune. People who support sex offenders and come up with lame excuses for what they've done makes me very uncomfortable and scares me, yes it really does scare me. I always worry about children and sex offenders.

Please be careful and keep an eye on your little baby girl. I don't want her to be harmed by any sex offenders that you are friends with. I hope you don't invite those sex offenders to your house where your daughter lives and where your daughter could become victims to these sex offenders' possible actions now and in the future, you just never know. Don't ever let your baby girl out of your sight. Please. This is my advice to you, because I always worry about all children, especially your precious little girl.

I am not saying this to be rude to you, but to warn you and I want you to wake up and realize that it is NOT a good idea to be friends with sex offenders especially when you have a small baby daughter to take care of that could get hurt by your sex offender friends. If you let the sex offenders visit your house they could gain access to your little baby girl's private parts and possibly abuse her sexually while you are not looking, and that scares me. Please be careful. Sex offenders are really good at being very sneaky while sexually abusing little children...they can sneak around and molest a child and then teach the child not to tell anything and even threaten the child not to tell or the child would be killed, and then all is said and done the sex offender acts like nothing ever happened. I am saying this because I am a victim of a sex offender and I really do not want your precious baby girl to become a victim too, because I care very much about your baby daughter and you, and I don't want both of you to get hurt because one of your sex offender friends decides to touch your baby girl inappropriately....you just never know. I'm just letting you know that this can happen...wake up and realize and be careful, ok? I know you are a good mother but even all good mothers can fall into a false sense of security and then their precious small children ends up being victims of a sex offender friend because you think your child is safe because the sex offender claims that all he did was pee in public when the truth is that he had done much more but is denying it because he knows his name has been blackened. He needs to own up to what he has done and accept that his name has been blackened and stay away from all children from age 0 to 18. I am saying all this because I CARE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER and ALL OTHER CHILDREN. I don't want anyone to experience what I have experienced, okay? My advice to you would be to sever all ties to all sex offender friends, to all people who have been labeled as sex offender, no matter how innocent they claim to be, out of caution and for safety reasons...you just never know...you weren't there when it happened, therefore the sex offender can claim that all he did was pee in public when the truth is that he harmed someone. You didn't see it, so you didn't know what really happen. I think you should just sever all ties to all sex offender friends and sever all ties to all people labeled as sex offenders just for safety reasons, ok? That is what I would do.

I am not saying this to insult you...just to give you a "nudge" and get you to open your eyes and be more cautious and be more careful, even if they are your friends or relatives or whatever. Just be careful. This stuff is really scary.

I only say this because I CARE, ok? Not because I am being rude...I honestly am not being rude. I just CARE very much about every single child. Ok? If you feel upset, angry, you feel insulted, whatever, I apologize, and you can PM me...my inbox is always open and you can tell me how you feel, ok? I just care too much, ok?

Oh BTW, I would not rely on TV shows as education on sex crimes and whatnot...all of those shows are fictional. I suggest that you read psychological articles about sex offenders and how they have affected children victims and teenage victims. Those are better sources, and also visit the sex offender registry websites as well. There are also government-owned websites with articles regarding sex offenders, information, and stuff. Google this stuff and you will learn a lot.

Take care. :)
 
Originally Posted by WhisperHorse View Post
My friend was looking at 6 years old girl's private area because she was crying and said it's hrut there it's hurt there! as she pointed down at her private area and he was babysitting her for that parents.

If I was a guy and I was in this situation I would NOT look...I would have instantly left the room and go find the child's mother or aunt or a female adult and have the female adult go and handle this situation. It's common sense.

A couple of week ago I was at the community pool and this mother let her 3 year old daughter run around completely NAKED, no clothes on...then she let her young son (maybe 7 years old, not sure) take off his swimming shorts and run around totally naked too!...my fiance did not want to look...he did not want to be labeled as a sex offender so he actually covered his eyes and asked me to tell him when it is safe to uncover his eyes and waited for me to tell him when it is safe to uncover his eyes and go straight to changing room to change and leave the pool...I led him to the changing room so he wouldn't see the naked kids and then I told him to go to the truck when he is dressed and then I went to women's changing room and changed and then found a piece of paper and wrote on it "You should be aware that there are many sex offenders in this neighborhood" and gave the paper to the mother and then simply walked away (I don't do confrontations) and then joined my fiance in the truck and we left. We thought the whole situation was quite inappropriate...there were MANY men at the pool! Next time I see this happen I will call CPS on this woman. There are women's and men's changing room with stalls for this purpose...so people can change in private! Common sense!
 
Last I checked most level 1 offenders stay on register for 10 years (Michigan is strict require 25 years). Seroius, very serious Level 3 offenders stay on register for life and must report every 90 days to the cops.

That's right...I was sexually abused/molested at age 8 (he actually began abusing me when I was 6 years but I did not understand what he was doing to me and he was caught when I was 8 years old)...the same guy who hurt me, had gone on to rape a second victim (I actually know this victim), and then molested at least one more victim...he is now on the sex offender registry for LIFE. He is supposed to be incarcerated but I found out from a deaf friend from back home that he has recently been released from prison and I am NOT happy. I am pissed. He was supposed to be doing 12 years but he has only done about 7 years. I am NOT happy. I worry about other children that might become his future victims.
 
If I was a guy and I was in this situation I would NOT look...I would have instantly left the room and go find the child's mother or aunt or a female adult and have the female adult go and handle this situation. It's common sense.

To be honest, there are a lot of guys, even girls, that are that daft. Especially if they are not used to being around people. I have heard stories about these, and they usually involve people who are naive and don't really catch on social rules easily because they spend most of their time alone. You have to remember, '90s and '00s is the "age of social disconnection."

I remember I got a reputation for being called a pervert because as a blind person, I go inside most people's social bubbles. I didn't know that it was unacceptable for a person to step closer than 2'-3' apart from most people until someone explained that to me when I was 19 about the unwritten do's and don't's that sighted people have established.

I am lucky I only been slapped once, and that was with an ex- who thought I was looking at her in a suggestive way, when I was actually looking at the clock beside her and trying to figure out the time.
 
Originally Posted by C.C.Sinned View Post
another offender around here: guy was in his late 50's,(59 i think) the girl was 12 when he started molesting her. they had a child. they are now married and the child they had together is now 13...

How the fuck did this nasty sex offender get away with having sex with a 12 year old and then having a baby with her and then marrying her?!
 
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