Self-Esteem vs low self-esteem

Please don´t spoil my good thread... :tears:

Can you go back and stick my good thread for me please... ?:tears:
 
You're gonna make Baby Jesus weep with such dirt you reveal! :cry:

DD, you're the best, babe! :ily:
 
Hi,:)

I'm very sorry that some of you are really sad and angry. I didn't know that many deaf people have low self-esteem which is really sad.

I hope some of you work things out real soon PRIVATELY - not on this public forum.

Good luck!:)

Momoftwo:)
 
Momoftwo said:
I'm very sorry that some of you are really sad and angry. I didn't know that many deaf people have low self-esteem which is really sad. I hope some of you work things out real soon PRIVATELY - not on this public forum.
Momoftwo:)
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*sigh*

*shrugs*

Hope that the posts that do not have anything to do with Liebling's orginal intent are completely deleted...and life can go on.
 
Hey hey .........everyone needs to chill. From now on everyone needs to use PM instead of writing it all down in here where it is all out in the open. Like I said in my earlier post about there is no need to write down personal stories for us to read. If someone is angry at someone then use PM.
 
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Well, I am going to admit my wrong doing, and for that reason I am more mature enough to even admit it, I was wrong for bringing personal conflicts in open public forum, And I know I was breaking the rules of AllDeaf. I apology for my action here from the bottom of my heart. Moderators are free to remove any posts that was uncall for by me. I do understand the rules that applied here in AD, And I know I was bashing on an member of AD. Now, Instead of finger-pointing all this blame on me, Step back and take a good look at yourself here, You're no better than me. Now that I've admit my wrong doing, Alex nor the moderators can give me 12 hours banned or a warning I'll be more than glad to take it, because I deserved it, as such as some of you here deserved it too.

That's all I wanted to say. Peace. ;)
 
Cheri :hug:

I love your post to knowledge about your mistake... Your post make me like you more and more... I alway know that you are a good person. I admire you to stand what you know . :hug:

I :applause: you :hug:


CyberRed, I hope you also make your post here to stand your mistake, too and then forget what we made our posts here and go back to stick my thread. :thumb:
 
That was big of you, Cheri to admit you did wrong. How about burying the hatchet, Cyberred with Cheri, Angel and Roadrunner? This was old feud that was going on for years. None of us like it and all of us need to forget and forgive. Life is way too short to stay mad at each other. Please?? I love allll of you! Once all of you bury hatchet, promise not to backstab here or anywhere else, everyone will be happy for it.
 
This is Chris

After I read this thread, I can image three pews, left, middle, and right in a church. The attendants on left pews got disagreed with others on right pew over personal things in the past which we didn't interest to hear in the house of God. Remember God watch over, couldn't jump and help others why? of course God expects us to struggle themselves to prove God that we had to learn to accompany our goals to fullfill God. Oh yes I do know that pray so hard will get God's blessing to show that you never give up. Self Esteem, oh boy is the part of the flesh, mind, and heart. You know Self Esteem is one thing on the world we have to struggle to accept. God created us what he chose so the fact that he expects you all to accept what you are now, no matter how is your look, weight, color, and intelligence. You know I watch on tv program like PBN ( I forget what how to spell, you know religious brodcast), eekkkk!!!! a aging lady with pink hairdo, very thick make up, look like a clone of Tammy Faye. You see that channel is which I ain't fond of.... because they show the attendants that being beautiful to represent themselves as "divine." I remember once in past my old pastor told that demons are everywhere, their duties are to make humans losing the faith on God, you see why some of us failing to fillfull to appericate God.

Sadly, look at this thread, that is sign of failure... on faith and understanding.
 
^Angel^ said:
...YOU don't know what it like to be in their shoes, it may be easy for you to say all those things above yet you don't know what it like....
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How do you know that? You really don't know everything that I have experienced or felt.

...Maybe you don't have much of a pity for those who do so, but to me I DO and I wanted to help them in any way I can....
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Again I say, you don't know how I feel about real people in my life. What makes you think that I don't want to help people? There are many real people I have cared about and helped. Caring means more than mushy feelings. It means actually doing something to help someone, even if it is painful in the process.

....I've done it b4 myself when I was younger and It wasn't like what you've said above not caring about others etc...
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But you didn't go thru with it. See, that is the difference.

Anyway, back to the topic of self-esteem. The definition from www.dictionary.com is:

self-es·teem (slf-stm)
n.
Pride in oneself; self-respect.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company.
Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.


self-esteem

n 1: a feeling of pride in yourself [syn: self-pride]


Using the above definition, I don't understand how the death of a child would effect someone's "feeling of pride" or "pride in oneself". Deep sorrow shouldn't be about pride.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Should I pray God and Jesus EVERYTIME to beg them to give me anything what I need? No, because I know Jesus is DEAD and live in heaven....
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Jesus is not dead. He was dead for three days and nights only. He has been alive since then.


...and watch us proud how/what we cope our life without their help/support. They would not like us to do EVERYTHING for them and their favor but worry our family life and cope our life.
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That contradicts what the Bible says. Jesus wants us to humble ourselves and praise Him for giving us His strength and grace. He doesn't like us to brag about ourselves. Jesus said for us to put ALL our worries on Him.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
... because they don't care about themselves - kill themselves to have their peaceful and no suffer pain.
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That is the point. They care too much about themselves; that is why their pain is magnified because they focus on it.

Would you consider my friend as selfish person who suffer depression, tempt sucide... I told her to promise me to not tempt to kill herself but consider her 19 years old son.
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Exactly. If she focuses on other people (her promise to you and for her son) then she will not kill herself. If she focuses on her own pain and loss she will want to kill herself.

Your post sound that you has no feeling and have no pity fot them or what?
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Pity is not enough. Pity doesn't help anyone. Action helps. Your friend is grateful to you, not for your pity, but for the help that you gave her.
 
*off-Mod status*

First and foremost: I harbor no favoritism, nor do I resort to taking sides yet remain nuetral here in AD....

With that in mind--the things that have been mentioned here or stated about my past as relationship goes, statements directed at either of the twins, the finger-pointing towards other members NEEDS to stop, here...and now. Personal feelings over something that took place several years ago needs to be done away with and put behind ALL of us and move forward.

If this will help cease (stop) the on-going nonsense once for all, something which did take place about 4 yrs. ago, I'll say this and then forever hold my peace while treasuring my love for the one I'm about to marry....If there was someone to be blamed, or to place fault upon, it's me--no one else is to be blamed, not ^Angel^, not Cheri...surely, I regret it, watching over the years, the pain, the frustrations of something that simply could have been done away with long ago...each one of us had some part in it, but most of us have found a way to forgive and at least try to move on, yet, despite the on-going nonsense which drew more and more ppls. into it, creating more finger-pointing, bashing, group against group, placing blame on this person or that person, etc etc. All I ever wish and desire for is that this would cease and the things personal kept out of AD...I am fully aware that there are other on-line forums that do cater or resort to that, but as for Alldeaf, we adhere to standards of respect, diligently and striving to maintain an overall image that everyone can identify themselves with and truly enjoy being a part of....Once again, I'll say, for whatever did happen long ago, it's my fault and at the same time, being forgiving and asking for it likewise. So, bearing this in mind, all the finger-pointing, bickering, etc...needs to end now during which all this time I've kept quiet and hoping one day harmony will be restored and now is the time for it.

Cheri, for as long as you've kept your peace and letting out some steam recently, THEN apologizing to the point of accepting whatever action you felt you might deserve...that does take a bit of guts and a will to admit something done wrong....As for you, and everyone else that matters, with Christmas steadily approaching, it's a time to 'forgive', to be filled with wonderous joy during this holiday season...the excitement of 'our' children, the small wonders of miracles that does and can spread throughout among us...let there be 'PEACE' in AD as well as 'PEACE' on Earth.

Lastly, let's forever HOLD our peace and put behind this...the least we can do is simply 'ignore' those you cannot hold peace with, otherwise, find some place else to be in as AD will not tolerate this whatsoever, whether it's about me or any member!

Thank you--

~RR aka 'Peacemaker'
 
Reba said:
God is the author of the Bible. Psychology is the study of the human mind and the way it works. God doesn't need to study the human mind. He created it! He knows the way it works.



As I wrote above, God created the human mind, so He knows more than every psychologist in the world.



My confidence is in Jesus Christ and His Word. My confidence is not in my self.
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Technically, God isn't the author of the Bible. The Bible is written by a bunch of different people who write down in their own words what they supposedly witnessed.
 
Cookie Monster said:
I respect your opinions but I have my opinions about "Bible-thumpers" and religious zealots. If one wishes to reach divinity by quoting Bible passages and contradicting him/herself, I've no issue with that at all because I'm not answering to the fingerpointing at all.

It's really interesting how one masks Bible quotes when one forgets that dogmas/deities are everywhere. One quotes God was for this person all throughout life, was God there for me when I was going through my separation and divorce? Was this part of his twisted or elaborate plan for self-esteem?

Now before you justify his plan, think before you respond. You can only think of your life, your self esteem and not anyone else. That's exactly what I have been doing in this thread, reading your posts and it doesn't mean I agree with you all.
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I agree with you there.

I don't understand what the Bible has to do with our lives. It's something people read and look up to. However, it doesn't mean that people have to refer to the Bible for dependable information.

It's like I said in another previous post. Quoting the Bible is just another excuse to get out of having to confront the problem yourself. In reality, this only makes the self-esteem problem worse.
 
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Peachy Lady said:
That was big of you, Cheri to admit you did wrong. How about burying the hatchet, Cyberred with Cheri, Angel and Roadrunner? This was old feud that was going on for years. None of us like it and all of us need to forget and forgive. Life is way too short to stay mad at each other. Please?? I love allll of you! Once all of you bury hatchet, promise not to backstab here or anywhere else, everyone will be happy for it.
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Nice thought, Peachy Lady. Is there somethin' that I will get "exchange" from them to promise me not to do this again ?

Supposedly, if I decide wantin' to make an avatar or banner for each one ( Cheri, Angel and Roadrunner ) of them to show my "forgiveness" ... will that do any good for them ?
 
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Thank you for remove personal posts instead of remove my good thread. I appreciate it very much :thumb:



Don't worry, Roadrunner - remember that everyone made mistakes... Why should we worry about your past as we still love you what you are... :hug: All what I can't see the sense why someone throw 4 years old subjects to bash on my good thread here, that's all what I said, not worry about how/what you or others made mistakes in the past... because I know everyone mades mistakes - nobody are prefect.

Hi Roadrunner

You marry Angel?

Momoftwo
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Yes
 
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