Parents are divorced, mom's bf won't accept me or my gf

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gnulinuxman said:
This is what they say: "GO HOME! Your mothers know what they're doing!"
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I tried my best. I hope everything will work out with you.
 
Sweetheart said:
Nope, she ran away from Michigan to Wisconsin, she lived with her ex boyfriend and his family for awhile then moved into their friend's apt to living there for awhile until finally, they lived on their own. That helped them
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The only friend we have with an apartment is under Housing Authority and cannot accept guests.
 
gnulinuxman said:
The only friend we have with an apartment is under Housing Authority and cannot accept guests.
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*puzzled* thats weird. We have a friend who have an townhouse is under Housing Authority and it's accept guests anytime or roommates for awhile.
 
money issue and running away

I have a job and I am trying to get an apartment plus I am also trying to make sure that I can get out be4 my parents kill me because if I can get out I want to try to help my fiance and he knows this

Deaflinuxgeek
 
Sweetheart said:
*puzzled* thats weird. We have a friend who have an townhouse is under Housing Authority and it's accept guests anytime or roommates for awhile.
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Besides, it's my MOM's car, I can't walk there, and my bike's broken (My mom's boyfriend once said that since my fiancee and I live 20 miles apart we should break up). It's 20 miles to the nearest city and I can't get anywhere with my mom's van (and my mom's boyfriend has EMPHASIZED THAT HEAVILY and laughed about it)
 
Im very sorry abt the problems that you have right now, gnulinuxman and deaflinuxgeek. I hope everything will work out for you guys soon. :grouphug:
 
deaflinuxgeek said:
I have a job and I am trying to get an apartment plus I am also trying to make sure that I can get out be4 my parents kill me because if I can get out I want to try to help my fiance and he knows this

Deaflinuxgeek
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Oh my goodness, please be careful. You should report it to the police. We don't want to see you getting killed or hurt. You will be in our prayers :hug:
 
ButterflyGirl said:
Oh my goodness, please be careful. You should report it to the police. We don't want to see you getting killed or hurt. You will be in our prayers :hug:
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That's right, I agreed with you. :dunno: I don't know why they dont report the polices quickly.
 
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gnulinuxman said:
Besides, it's my MOM's car, I can't walk there, and my bike's broken (My mom's boyfriend once said that since my fiancee and I live 20 miles apart we should break up). It's 20 miles to the nearest city and I can't get anywhere with my mom's van (and my mom's boyfriend has EMPHASIZED THAT HEAVILY and laughed about it)
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I dont drive and we once be4 had friends help us but it never worked.

Sadly, I know life is hard. I will never break up with my fiance no matter what.

Deaflinuxgeek
 
ur mother's b/f reminds me SO much like my ex-step father! :mad: He always controlled me, abused me, threatened me, and treats me more like a hearing person than a deaf person and never even bothered trying to do any kind of simple communication with me and he is the most selfish fucker I ever met!

Hey listen to me...there is always a way to get out of this. who cares if your mother and her b/f keeps threatening you while you arent even in the same house with them?

If you need proof to show how he beat you, you can put a small camera somewhere to tape it live to see how he beat you and shit like that. just find a spot where he would usually beat you up. make sure the camera is well hidden and not too easy to be seen by anybody expect you. Then show it to anyone who didnt belive you should believe you by now.
Or, use a small tape recorder in your pocket to record the voices of your mother's b/f's threatening you and shit like that.

If you were just beaten up and you have any cuts or bruises, IMMEDIATELY take a picture of it to show proof.

However, there are certain ways to survive the violence if your mother's b/f still wont stop hurting you, use a knife and stab him in the keens under the knee caps and it would slow them down...and when I say stab, I mean stab it REAL fast and deep.

You can take your stuff before you run away, make sure you take plenty of meds with you, plenty of clothes with you, and plenty of food when ur mother and her b/f arent home then call ur g/f (or anyone else)to come pick you up and ignore anymore threats from ur relatives because the most important thing is that you are still alive and safe.
 
Sweetheart said:
That's right, I agreed with you. :dunno: I don't know why they dont report the polices quickly.
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BECAUSE THE POLICE DON'T BELIEVE US!! My fiancee's mom is a very good liar (and is the abuser) and has told the police that my fiancee was just lying, and that she "fell down" or "painted bruises on herself", and the stupid cops actually believed her. Me, I've never been hit by him yet, so the cops won't do a damn thing about it (they say "Get a job and move out." and then leave) THAT'S WHY!
 
Abusive and calling police

ButterflyGirl said:
Oh my goodness, please be careful. You should report it to the police. We don't want to see you getting killed or hurt. You will be in our prayers :hug:
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I have tried the police but my parents always manage to ly and get away with it, plus my scar marks to them mean nothing.

Deaflinuxgeek
 
gnulinuxman said:
BECAUSE THE POLICE DON'T BELIEVE US!! My fiancee's mom is a very good liar (and is the abuser) and has told the police that my fiancee was just lying, and that she "fell down" or "painted bruises on herself", and the stupid cops actually believed her. Me, I've never been hit by him yet, so the cops won't do a damn thing about it (they say "Get a job and move out." and then leave) THAT'S WHY!
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those cops has got to be a bunch of faggots beliving the shit like that.
 
Steel X said:
ur mother's b/f reminds me SO much like my ex-step father! :mad: He always controlled me, abused me, threatened me, and treats me more like a hearing person than a deaf person and never even bothered trying to do any kind of simple communication with me and he is the most selfish fucker I ever met!

Hey listen to me...there is always a way to get out of this. who cares if your mother and her b/f keeps threatening you while you arent even in the same house with them?

If you need proof to show how he beat you, you can put a small camera somewhere to tape it live to see how he beat you and shit like that. just find a spot where he would usually beat you up. make sure the camera is well hidden and not too easy to be seen by anybody expect you. Then show it to anyone who didnt belive you should believe you by now.
Or, use a small tape recorder in your pocket to record the voices of your mother's b/f's threatening you and shit like that.

If you were just beaten up and you have any cuts or bruises, IMMEDIATELY take a picture of it to show proof.

However, there are certain ways to survive the violence if your mother's b/f still wont stop hurting you, use a knife and stab him in the keens under the knee caps and it would slow them down...and when I say stab, I mean stab it REAL fast and deep.

You can take your stuff before you run away, make sure you take plenty of meds with you, plenty of clothes with you, and plenty of food when ur mother and her b/f arent home then call ur g/f (or anyone else)to come pick you up and ignore anymore threats from ur relatives because the most important thing is that you are still alive and safe.
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Problems:
1. My fiancee can't drive (no license due to seizure problems)
2. I have nowhere to go
3. I haven't actually been hit yet, but he threatened.

and I'm hearing but he is mad that I don't act like a normal hearing man. (I'm 60% in Deaf Culture and about 85% feminine, so I have mostly female friends, and half are deaf)
 
deaflinuxgeek said:
I have tried the police but my parents always manage to ly and get away with it, plus my scar marks to them mean nothing.

Deaflinuxgeek
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Hmmm the police should believe you no matter what. I am sure there is someone out there who can help you. Have you tried to go to a shelter?
 
gnulinuxman,

Since you go to college etc, have you asked college for help? like an counselor help and even ask if they got an safe house or something like that, for you and your fiancee to live in.
 
ButterflyGirl said:
Hmmm the police should believe you no matter what. I am sure there is someone out there who can help you. Have you tried to go to a shelter?
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Yeah..didn't help. They only took us for 3 days and then told us everything would be fine at home.

Damn it, I'm sick of being treated like I'm normal! I have autism (NOT audism...) and ADHD and the state dept. of vocational rehab isn't letting me move out. Just because my ears work, they expect me to be normal...

My fiancee's mom convinces people that my fiancee is incompetant and is only pretending to be deaf for attention (by getting a quack psychologist who didn't allow an interpreter).
 
~SG~ said:
gnulinuxman,

Since you go to college etc, have you asked college for help? like an counselor help and even ask if they got an safe house or something like that, for you and your fiancee to live in.
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Yes. They say I'm being stupid and that I should just go home after class.

Oh and the college interpreters scheme with my fiancee's mom and believe her, so they treat her like she's stupid too (obviously in violation of the ADA), so they're not helping her either. (And I caught these interpreters lying to my fiancee on every meeting with her involved on this.)
 
they sound like one of the worst people ever lived on Earth.
 
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