this is what I see - you've come to understand that Chad is a bully and Reeves is a frail old man... and you are analyzing and slanting the situations solely based on that.
Not exactly. I am
trying to see it that way. I am making an attempt to see if there are any holes ... any logical fallacies.
Sometimes, nothing makes sense. For one thing, Curtis Reeves does not appear to be a frail old man. He looks like a tough guy. I am sure with the job he had, he demanded respect. Being disrespected by some young "punk" probably got him pissed off.
Chad probably thought it was ridiculous to be told to turn off his cellphone by a complete stranger. During the previews??? OMG!!! What gall!!! he was texting his daughter's daycare too ... really important stuff!!! (just adding for emphasis).
To a retired police officer used to doing things by the book, it didn't matter that it was during the previews ... rules are rules ... and rules apply to everybody (which they do). And, having enforced the law during his career, seeing someone "breaking the rules" no matter how slight the infraction, was like a nail head sticking out that just needed to be hammered into place. It irked him. Probably instinctively irked him. It was completely natural for Curtis Reeves to "correct" that rule breaking punk. He was, after all, breaking the rules. All cellphones were supposed to be off. Serious business. He couldn't let it slide. If he did, then someone else would break the rules, and he couldn't have that. It would be chaos in Curtis Reeves little part of the universe. All these ungrateful young rule breaking punks with their fancy schmancy cellphones and doo dads, breaking the rules.
So, he did what was completely natural for a retired cop to do. And when he did it, he imposed his little tiny part of his universe onto Chad's unassuming peaceful and tranquil text convo with his 3 year old's babysitter - thereby, disturbing Chad's fragile inner peace and harmony. Chad didn't take kindly to this ... he didn't care that the rules were the rules. He didn't care that minor tiny little infractions that annoyed the crap out of Curtis Reeves (like breaking rules) applied to him. Chad felt that he was somehow, above that pettiness. This only exacerbated and irked Curtis even more - he was starting to see the true colors emerge from this perfect stranger, and began to see him as a "rabble rouser'.
And it escalated from there ..
That is how I try to put things together - but I actually do it much faster than I can type ...
What happened was two guys got into an argument over who was right and neither could walk away from it. Walking away is the absolute best option when arguing with a senior ... just an FYI