Non Health Related Off Topic Issues

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since you having nothing to say about him anymore I choose not to quote you..

But for other people to understand..he does have family members that deal with mental issues. So maybe he was on these post to find out more about the issue and maybe one day give insight to what it's like to be on the other side of the fence.

Anyways about Non Health Related Off Topic issues..I think we all need to use caution when posting..no because of others but this is a public forum and you don't want too much info out.
 
chris' mom said:
But for other people to understand..he does have family members that deal with mental issues. So maybe he was on these post to find out more about the issue and maybe one day give insight to what it's like to be on the other side of the fence.
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yeah. i can see where secretblend was trying to gleam more information about mental illness from this thread by taking the opportunity to agree with reba about my rapid cycling. :roll: funny how that was the only post he made -- aside from the others in which he was argumentative.
 
aye naisho i read those and see your point. looks kinda childish to me.

i think some kinda of subforum under the health/lifestyle main forum (or create another main forum on the homepage for it) would be beneficial for those to discuss mental health issues but think it should be private somehow like has already been stated but not entirely closed as someone may need advice or a question about the subject and want to ask it there. and keep the topic of mental health and related to that particular forum so it wont take over the other threads like it has been. and if the name psych ward or some other name used, have the mods or members brainstorm and come up with different names for it with a deadline for submissions and after that deadline take all the suggested names for it and put into a polled thread and let the users decide. anyways just a couple thoughts i had.
 
Jiro said:
i suppose jillio could be a moderator for pysch ward thread and she's good at detecting malingerer so she can issue access for those who requests for it and banish the troublemakers.

:dunno:
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I also think that "room" could use a spiritual advisor as well.
 
Hear Again said:
i also think those who admittedly feign suicidal ideations and psychosis ought to be permanently banned from ad.
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I agree.

People who malinger or feign suicidal ideations, psychosis, and any other mental health issues/problems/illnesses annoy the fuck out of me and I have absolutely ZERO respect for them except hope that they will get psychiatric help for their malingering issues so that they can stop malingering and feigning.
 
Mrs Bucket said:
I am not judging anyone at all. I have always believed personal responsibility was each person's own.

When I get upset, I leave too. Today I actually typed "STFU" when I normally keep my cool.

I prefer not to use ignore because how can we deal with reality if we use the ignore button. In reality, there's no ignore button.

I've yet to judge a person here in AD and why would I want to?

Honestly, it's tiring to go through this. Reba just said it all for me.

We feel we aren't able to meet anyone halfway at all if anyone accuses us of judging, or any other action.
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Yeah, and I typed STFU right back at you because you absolutely have NO idea what it is like to have PTSD or any other psychiatric issues.
 
Good thread, I'm glad that you created a thread, Jolie_77. Yes that's exact what I feel and think the same way.
 
Secretblend said:
Told ya my charm was too powerful for you to put me on ignore list. :giggle:
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You sound like a 80 year old grandmother who shows her charm by pinching the cheeks of her grandchildren who are already too old for that kind of affection (such as a 14 year old grandson) and saying, "wow, you have gotten so big and so adorable!"
 
i am with MRS.Bucket. she didn't twist her words and her statement coms from her own feeling. I do feel that way too.

if there is an addition private section and then it needs to add "disclamier" at your own risk since AD has NO license for doctor or counselor. Psych ward can be either related with several subs of mental health issues as serious, and other sub can be silly threads on our own thoughts and anything.
 
I don't give a shit about your personal issue.

Alldeaf.com isn't a place where people blah blah about personal issue, seek for healing that something we aren’t fully aware of physically or mentally health. Personal issue belong to home because neither internet nor we solve your issue anyway.

I can't help noticing some people don't know how to do the "discussion" to educate each other. Most of them tend to say you don't know our personal issue, because you never been there, so what! I don't give a SHIT! Period...

Remember Internet is just entertainment, nothing personal. Internet offers you unlimited options but always have to be careful. Hackers and demoralizers are waiting out there in Internet. Also don’t forget, Internet could make you lonely, having imaginative friends, having fantasy, withdrawing from society, and words that didn't exist in daily life. I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome. If you come to Internet for healing or seek help then you come to wrong place.

Emotional vampire is what I seen in Alldeaf.com.

Where is your motivation? Where is your personal touch?

I see a thread… Hugs Thread, what happen to hug like real person, I can feel warm, soft, and arms around my neck, wow what a good feeling. But Hugs on Internet will not help at all.

I see a person crying, I cry. I see a person sad, I offer hug. I see a person frustating, I offer help. I see a person lonely, I offer companyship.

Unfortunately, Alldeaf only offer is… words, words didn’t express any emotions at all because words spoken from Internet are basically carry the codes that we don’t understand. You see why human feeling, touching are much stronger than languages. If I see a person speaking different language but same emotion as us, then we offer same thing.

Sometimes I seen a person typing angry message on his/her blog similar to angry letter because they use their blogs or letters to express out their angry and frustrating but they do come back anytime soon. Why? Of course we are humans.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
You sound like a 80 year old grandmother who shows her charm by pinching the cheeks of her grandchildren who are already too old for that kind of affection (such as a 14 year old grandson) and saying, "wow, you have gotten so big and so adorable!"
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:laugh2:
 
Aghori said:
I don't give a shit about your personal issue.

Alldeaf.com isn't a place where people blah blah about personal issue, seek for healing that something we aren’t fully aware of physically or mentally health. Personal issue belong to home because neither internet nor we solve your issue anyway.

I can't help noticing some people don't know how to do the "discussion" to educate each other. Most of them tend to say you don't know our personal issue, because you never been there, so what! I don't give a SHIT! Period...

Remember Internet is just entertainment, nothing personal. Internet offers you unlimited options but always have to be careful. Hackers and demoralizers are waiting out there in Internet. Also don’t forget, Internet could make you lonely, having imaginative friends, having fantasy, withdrawing from society, and words that didn't exist in daily life. I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome. If you come to Internet for healing or seek help then you come to wrong place.

Emotional vampire is what I seen in Alldeaf.com.

Where is your motivation? Where is your personal touch?

I see a thread… Hugs Thread, what happen to hug like real person, I can feel warm, soft, and arms around my neck, wow what a good feeling. But Hugs on Internet will not help at all.

I see a person crying, I cry. I see a person sad, I offer hug. I see a person frustating, I offer help. I see a person lonely, I offer companyship.

Unfortunately, Alldeaf only offer is… words, words didn’t express any emotions at all because words spoken from Internet are basically carry the codes that we don’t understand. You see why human feeling, touching are much stronger than languages. If I see a person speaking different language but same emotion as us, then we offer same thing.

Sometimes I seen a person typing angry message on his/her blog similar to angry letter because they use their blogs or letters to express out their angry and frustrating but they do come back anytime soon. Why? Of course we are humans.
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since when was teasing another person something that makes them feel welcome?

aghori, if you haven't noticed, there are message boards designed to support others, so the internet is a place where we can receive and provide encouragement.

furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.
 
Aghori said:
I don't give a shit about your personal issue.

Alldeaf.com isn't a place where people blah blah about personal issue, seek for healing that something we aren’t fully aware of physically or mentally health. Personal issue belong to home because neither internet nor we solve your issue anyway.

I can't help noticing some people don't know how to do the "discussion" to educate each other. Most of them tend to say you don't know our personal issue, because you never been there, so what! I don't give a SHIT! Period...

Remember Internet is just entertainment, nothing personal. Internet offers you unlimited options but always have to be careful. Hackers and demoralizers are waiting out there in Internet. Also don’t forget, Internet could make you lonely, having imaginative friends, having fantasy, withdrawing from society, and words that didn't exist in daily life. I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome. If you come to Internet for healing or seek help then you come to wrong place.

Emotional vampire is what I seen in Alldeaf.com.

Where is your motivation? Where is your personal touch?

I see a thread… Hugs Thread, what happen to hug like real person, I can feel warm, soft, and arms around my neck, wow what a good feeling. But Hugs on Internet will not help at all.

I see a person crying, I cry. I see a person sad, I offer hug. I see a person frustating, I offer help. I see a person lonely, I offer companyship.

Unfortunately, Alldeaf only offer is… words, words didn’t express any emotions at all because words spoken from Internet are basically carry the codes that we don’t understand. You see why human feeling, touching are much stronger than languages. If I see a person speaking different language but same emotion as us, then we offer same thing.

Sometimes I seen a person typing angry message on his/her blog similar to angry letter because they use their blogs or letters to express out their angry and frustrating but they do come back anytime soon. Why? Of course we are humans.
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:gpost:


For me, aghori's -->
I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome.
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I rather be having crazy wild fun on interent since it is ONLY interent. it is all ABOUT SHOW.
 
Hear Again said:
furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.
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Aghori has always been like this and I can appreciate it. He doesn't care about fantasy. He separates fantasy from reality.

Internet is fantasy. Real life is reality.

He has a wife and that's me.

We support each other and we have family and friends that helps and listen to each other.

This is where we draw the line at fantasy and reality.
 
I see nothing wrong that Mrs Bucket express her view alone on this thread since the thread creator asked us for our feedback or discuss openly with respect.


I do not see anything that Mrs Bucket quote to judge direct you but express her own POV she see what she beleive in?
 
Mrs Bucket said:
Aghori has always been like this and I can appreciate it. He doesn't care about fantasy. He separates fantasy from reality.

Internet is fantasy. Real life is reality.

He has a wife and that's me.

We support each other and we have family and friends that helps and listen to each other.

This is where we draw the line at fantasy and reality.
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you just don't get it, mrs bucket, do you?

supporting others here on ad is real.

in fact, i peruse a bipolar and schizophrenia board in which i've made many close friends who truly do understand what i am going through. tell me, how is that not reality?

your reality and my reality are completely different. you do not have a mental illness. i do.

until which time you have mental illness, please do not tell the rest of us what is real and what isn't.

i'm happy for you and aghori about the fact that you have family and friends to talk to, but some of us aren't that fortunate. some of us only have the company of internet friends because we are estranged from our families, have been abused by them or have other issues that explain why we don't have the support of family or friends.

one more thing. please don't tell me about reality vs. fantasy. i live two realities called bipolar and ptsd every day of my life, thank you very much. i don't need someone like you telling me the difference between what is real and what isn't.
 
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furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.
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Yes, we see no problem to help each other if you want to rant/vent or any problem to ask us for our feedback, support or whatever then create your own thread instead of post middle of debate threads to make :topic: over health issues which it doesn't relate to the title of threads. That's what we are trying to tell you...


 
Frisky Feline said:
I rather be having crazy wild fun on interent since it is ONLY interent. it is all ABOUT SHOW.
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if you'd like to have "crazy, wild fun" on the internet, perhaps you shouldn't read sensitive threads. if i'm expected not to read threads that trigger my rapid cycling, then you should be expected not to read threads that may be upsetting in nature.
 
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