faire_jour
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I did read her post, and her eye rolling, ie:
...started when they told her there was someone who knew sign, and FJ (with her optimistic attitude!) was apparently 'psychic' enough to know that whoever knew sign was just a lame finger-speller.
Here's where "You are completely missing the point", there is a right way and a wrong way to respond to certain situations. If FJ felt that the mother could handle the situation, and kudos for thinking that, then she should have told the employee in a better, less condescending manner than "uhh, yeah, write it on the board and she'll answer you"
I know a lot of you are friends with FJ but you're doing her a big disfavor by telling her she's "right" when clearly she comes across as a 'you know what' in these situations.
Bebonang seems to understand how to handle this situation kindly, FJ is a big girl...and she should take notes.
What does studying ASL and handling situations in public have to do with eachother? Is that suppose to, somehow, invalidate what I'd said? Does it help to let you know that I speak 3 other languages?
The whole point is that the employees were lloking for every opportunity to NOT communicate with the Deaf family. First they didn't want to write back and forth so they tried to pass it off to an employee who might know some sign (oh, and it was the mom who insisted on continuing to write because she knew the person wouldn't know sign, not me). And then when they discovered I was hearing, they AGAIN tried to avoid the Deaf family and talk to me, I wasn't having it.