Inappropriate Signatures/Avatars - THE POLL

Should sexually explicit material (pics/words) be permitted in avatars/signatures?

  • No, such material should stay in the PENISARIUM only

    Votes: 15 28.3%
  • No, sexual content should not be in open forum

    Votes: 16 30.2%
  • Yes, my right to free speech is more important than offending others

    Votes: 20 37.7%
  • Just do away with the PENISARIUM all together

    Votes: 2 3.8%

  • Total voters
    53
  • Poll closed .
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When I was first looking for a Deaf forum that discussed Deaf culture, Deaf viewpoints, sign language, interpreting topics, etc., I checked out AllDeaf. I "lurked" for a while before deciding to join. I almost didn't join because it seemed that no matter which thread I opened up to read, it was full of bad language and nasty emoticons. It was a real turn off. I was thinking, "wow, are all Deaf/HOH people potty mouths and obsessed with sex?" I'm glad that I overcame that impression, and decided to try AllDeaf. There are many wonderful people here with a lively exchange of ideas.

It is just a shame that we have to dig thru the muck to find the treasure at AD. :( I hope other potential new members aren't turned off the same way I almost was.
 
1purple_panda said:
Unless you want to find alldeaf.com all over the news about porn & etc like myspace.com already is. .

I'd prefer not to see those kind of junk and giving alldeaf.com a bad name. .

I already made a suggestion to one of the moderators to see if can create a level system somehow for generally ok to controversial topics so that we can control how much we want to see. . I've seen it on another message board that I already mentioned to go take a look over there see if can figure out and how like it etc. .

There's plenty of people who's going to lie about their age because of the security to be behind computer. .

But for those with kids and parents also. . I'm sure some would like to show their kids something neat they found on alldeaf.com instead of have to keep looking over our shoulders make sure no kids around or find another better way to keep up with alldeaf.com

I'd like to see alldeaf.com be more family-friendly and even good enough for kids to say "I found it on alldeaf.com" & teachers and parents are aware that alldeaf.com isnt known for pictures, porn, & smiley icons they dont want their kids to be exposed to. .

I already see several times on news about parents now in paranoid about their kids with myspace.com with its negativity comments and dangers of it. .

So we can break that cycle and stick to those kind of junk in private messages where it is between you and that person instead of in public where people of all ages can see it. .

It's just all about keeping a good name for alldeaf.com before it becomes labeled with "a deaf website with stuff I rather not have my kids be exposed to"

E-X-A-C-T-L-Y!!!

Thank you, purple panda for broadening our reasons why we good and clean people want it cleaned up for the sake.

:gpost:
 
EyesBlueDeaf said:
Cheri, web730 wants "The Closet" and 'The Penisarium' be removed.
I disagree about removing "The Closet"!

Web730, Why don't you suggest any bookstore business to remove gay and porn sections? Give me a break.

Just ingnore any porn articles and gay books as much as you can ingnore "The Closet" and "The Penisarium" threads. Or Go to "Jesus" Bookstore peroid for the rest of your life...

Don't you love Dr. Ruth? She will be happly to assist you how to improve "relationship" with your wife/mistress or domestic partner.

I may be sorry if your secret is out...
 
Reba said:
When I was first looking for a Deaf forum that discussed Deaf culture, Deaf viewpoints, sign language, interpreting topics, etc., I checked out AllDeaf. I "lurked" for a while before deciding to join. I almost didn't join because it seemed that no matter which thread I opened up to read, it was full of bad language and nasty emoticons. It was a real turn off. I was thinking, "wow, are all Deaf/HOH people potty mouths and obsessed with sex?" I'm glad that I overcame that impression, and decided to try AllDeaf. There are many wonderful people here with a lively exchange of ideas.

It is just a shame that we have to dig thru the muck to find the treasure at AD. :( I hope other potential new members aren't turned off the same way I almost was.

Same here .. just think how many more poeple may have signed in if not for these dirties in the forum infecting around. Yeah.
 
I voted no - AD is a public forum and kids of all ages can access it. Even if they don't post, they can still see the stray avatars and/or signatures. If it's an image, then it's best saved for Penisarium...this way, if they're under 18, they cannot access it and they'll be spared any content that may be offensive.

I think it'd make AD a more respectable forum to visit...we wouldn't want to tarnish the reputation of such a fine community, now, would we?
 
Mookie said:
Web730, Why don't you suggest any bookstore business to remove gay and porn sections? Give me a break.

Just ingnore any porn articles and gay books as much as you can ingnore "The Closet" and "The Penisarium" threads. Or Go to "Jesus" Bookstore peroid for the rest of your life...

Don't you love Dr. Ruth? She will be happly to assist you how to improve "relationship" with your wife/mistress or domestic partner.

I may be sorry if your secret is out...

I can ignore these 2 forums but there are dirty avatars and signatures everywhere .. that remains the problem.

Good and Evil don't gel well, hmm?

How do you know about my wife and mine relationship? Nah, you don't. I don't even know of yours either. Stay our personal lives alone, mookie ok.
 
Reba said:
When I was first looking for a Deaf forum that discussed Deaf culture, Deaf viewpoints, sign language, interpreting topics, etc., I checked out AllDeaf. I "lurked" for a while before deciding to join. I almost didn't join because it seemed that no matter which thread I opened up to read, it was full of bad language and nasty emoticons. It was a real turn off. I was thinking, "wow, are all Deaf/HOH people potty mouths and obsessed with sex?" I'm glad that I overcame that impression, and decided to try AllDeaf. There are many wonderful people here with a lively exchange of ideas.

It is just a shame that we have to dig thru the muck to find the treasure at AD. :( I hope other potential new members aren't turned off the same way I almost was.
Not only Deaf/HoH people but also hearing people :doh:
 
CyberRed said:
Well, for your information - I don't use " dirty " or " nasty " or whatever that is not appropriate to be seen in avatar/signature images. Not in the open forum like you were usin' a bare butt in your avatar earlier.


This forum is open to the public eyes, so what if the kids go by your post and see your dirty foul mouth, isn't it the same way as you looking at someone's avatar and signature? Yes, it is the same. There is no differences. Same thing goes for dirty smilies emoticons.
 
Originally Posted by Reba
BTW, we live in the 21st century, not the 21th, unless you are speaking with a lisp.
:thumbd: I see this as an insult. You have made a proof of what you think of the way Deaf people speak.
 
The majority of members, lurkers, visitors are adults--
Does that mean we should totally disregard those who aren’t??? Does that mean that those of us with different morals should be subjected to offensive material on a daily basis? Common courtesy, please!

I find it interesting how some of us here have changed our tunes in the past two years regarding children. Have we lost so much respect for the younger generation? How about the older generation? Would you want your grandmother to see what some of us are posting????

Not to be splitting hairs, but to hear that one is "doing this for the kids" is rather amusing.
I mean, they are, or should be, in bed by now, right?
My kids are awake at least 16 hours of the day, do those hours not count?

Could you explain more or be more specific? This sounds a bit vague.
I think it is pretty simple….do we want sexually explicit avatars and signatures, or NO?

well well unforuantely, blame those movies, television, and real-action sexuality exposures,. kids already know what's really happening in this world. there's nothing we can to keep it on censorships since sex ed 101 is already in academy system.
who says we have to add to the problem?

Kids in school shouldn't even be in this forum or any other forum in the first place. If they're going to be on the computer, they're going to be typing up a paper or doing research on official websites... not forums. Forums are not official or appropriate references for papers.
They may not SHOULD, but they DO.
Also, the school can't really touch AllDeaf for these kind of pictures. If they could, they would have to shut down Google, Yahoo, MSN, and many other forums.
The schools can’t do anything to AllDeaf but cut back on the use of the site by students, which incidentally are future members.

I don't like the way the poll questions were worded. I think Alex should have strarted the poll
But he didn’t.

As for signature with memory to honor people who death anniversary as the membership's wishes. It does not bother me at all. As for the sexuality in the avatars or signatures bother me alot. I am very fond of Princess Diana. I used to be put save screen on my computer every year. It is almost 9 years ago. Princess Diana passed away. Now, I stopped to doing this.
This poll is only regarding avatars/signatures with sexual content, not memorial sigs.

As for the emoticons, I am more concerned with the avatars and signatures because they are posted each time an individual posts, whereas the emoticons are not.

You are correct! Self restraint is a sign of maturity and consideration for others.
Yes, and some here have proven that they are not capable of acting in a mature and considerate fashion. That is why society at large, has laws we must follow and consequences when we do not. AD needs some governing policies in effect for those unable to govern themselves, as well.

well I ain't gonna to say which I vote. this is really up to ALEX since this is his form and his decision to make!!
Alex asked us to vote.

Why don't you found your new clean forum with Reba, Cybered, Eve, Heath, Tousis,...
Don't forget to inform Alex for closing your AD accounts...
As I just stated, Alex wants and values our opinions and suggested the poll. And, since the MAJORITY of us seem to prefer the idea of boundaries, maybe you might reconsider where you would prefer to post.. I highly recommend the Penisarium, as it seems to be right up your ally.

Then I don't see how my avatar will cause sexual arousal.... fer chrissake, we cannot keep the kids from seeing the anatomy because they have already seen elsewhere! I've seen mommies breast-feeding their babies and changing babies' and kids' diapers in public. Babies and kids go swimming naked. Lighten up, will ya?
Maybe I should have clarified my options here, because many of us are offended by such varying degrees. I started this whole topic because I was offended by one individuals need to share her bedroom experiences on a constant basis through her signature. I really do NOT want to know how your husband pleasures you and how horny it makes you AND I am not interested in seeing an animated contracting sphincter either. This is a far cry from some silly butt avatar.

Let somebody else create a new forum for teens & family-friendly forum and leave alldeaf.com alone!!
As I stated in the other topic area, people come to alldeaf as their first glimpse into deaf culture. Is this really what we want them to see?
 
It's funni hearing this coming from those who said all for the kids, yet bad language, using nasty emoticons isn't the same thing as using nasty image in member's avatar or signature?....I mean what the difference...
 
I've seen mommies breast-feeding their babies and changing babies' and kids' diapers in public. Babies and kids go swimming naked. Lighten up, will ya?

Dont u ever seen the natural thing about being positive into a art form that is a real thing that we normally do? ur icon picture is worst than that. Thats offensive picture, it turns me off. I feel it s very low class for anybody to post a nasty pictures because it doesnt exit in a real life. Most of them are faked that men are going for it. What a grip!

There are many sexual molestor or rapist or sicko pevert who are getting sexual arouse. So you dont realized many people are destroying a good thing about sex itself that we are not appreciate for having the kind of nasty misbehavior in a real life.

Sex is the most beautiful thing for two people to share with. I would love to see many positive issues about sex itself. I can see many men doesnt appreciate to have women or children in this society.

Sighs! Some people dont get it or have their own respect in themselves.

yea Freedom of speech with R E S P E C T that we are asking for.

Thank you! ;)
Sweetmind
 
They who use sickening avatars and who won't admit or change for the respect's sake are the disease that infect our society.

We don't want them in this great and wonderful forum becoming infected by them. So here they and we give it a battle. But good shall prevail in time due.
 
Eve said:
snip, snip..

Maybe I should have clarified my options here, because many of us are offended by such varying degrees. I started this whole topic because I was offended by one individuals need to share her bedroom experiences on a constant basis through her signature. I really do NOT want to know how your husband pleasures you and how horny it makes you AND I am not interested in seeing an animated contracting sphincter either. This is a far cry from some silly butt avatar.As I stated in the other topic area, people come to alldeaf as their first glimpse into deaf culture. Is this really what we want them to see?
Thank you! Because I do see my atavar harmless. I mean we all have seen buttocks! Teenagers wearing low riders - can see their belly buttons and buttock cracks... also skimpy shirts, too.
 
Cant protect kids from everything. .

Anybody can view the forum without even being a member or even bothering to sign in. . .

Yea we are supposed to raise our kids in good way. . But if we cant set an example for them by our own personal choices, what are they going to learn from us?

Our actions are much more louder than words. . So is a picture worth a thousand words. . .

It's funny how you can show them 2 different pix and they'll still be scar with the picture that's improper much more longer than a picture that's purely innocent and good. .

The world's already getting bad enough and worse everyday. . We all know that by comparing today's world with the world our grandparents lived in. . If they're saying "oh my gosh!" to today's world, imagine what we'll be saying to our grandchildren's world in the future. . Or who knows. . maybe we might not even be alive to see it. .

Small things can lead to big things. . So better to stop it before it gets worse and worse then it'll be on the news stating, "Next on news at 11 pm, alldeaf.com leads to _____________" You fill the blank, it could happen. .

Just as a small stone thrown in middle of lake will keep going until it reaches the entire like - - so can a small problem on alldeaf.com do the same. . .
 
Eve said:
Maybe I should have clarified my options here, because many of us are offended by such varying degrees. I started this whole topic because I was offended by one individuals need to share her bedroom experiences on a constant basis through her signature. I really do NOT want to know how your husband pleasures you and how horny it makes you AND I am not interested in seeing an animated contracting sphincter either. This is a far cry from some silly butt avatar.

As I stated in the other topic area, people come to alldeaf as their first glimpse into deaf culture. Is this really what we want them to see?

Right! Let me also add something here. The person in question is a wife and Mother, who should know better than to put something like that in her signature. As for the silly cartoonish type avatars, that's been brought up from time to time, that's a bit over the line, too. However, the two can't be compared. One was questionably offensive; while the other was blantantly obscene. A line must be drawn, and if members of this forum can't police themselves, then somebody must do it for them, and, set forth guidelines for them to follow.
 
I DISAGREE with EVE and others because many d/Deaf children couldnt post it in this Deaf forum because of too much overrated sexual pictures here they do not allowed those children to feel free to speak. We do need d/Deaf children to be part of this to get their system out of their chest.

You are stopping them from speaking their own mind about the deafness in here because School or parents will not accept this kind of nasty and fifthy posts to let them see it that it s okay. I dont blame them but at the same time it s so sad for not having any d/Deaf children to speak it out for their rights.

It is okay for you to do this in the court to show the dirty nasty icon to those children in school. You are giving the wrong impression and very disrespectful attitude :nono: it shouldnt be this way.
 
okay.. let's make indiviual forum for different preferences like...

alldeaf_deaf.com
alldeaf_hardofhearing.com
alldeaf_hearing.com
alldeaf_oralism.com
alldeaf_CI.com
alldeaf_youngpeople.com
alldeaf_middleagedpeople.com
alldeaf_oldpeople.com
alldeaf_gay.com
alldeaf_lesbian.com
alldeaf_openmindedpeople.com
slldeaf_closeminded.com
alldeaf_dirtyminded.com
alldeaf_prudent.com
alldeaf_goody-goody.com
alldeaf_interpreters.com
alldeaf_coda.com
alldeaf_wannabedeaf.com
alldeaf_seekingforlove.com
alldeaf_africanamerican.com
alldeaf_caucasian.com
alldeaf_asian.com
alldeaf_nerds.com
alldeaf_teens.com
alldeaf_lurkers.com
alldeaf_religiouspeople.com

come on.. give Alex a break. We have all kinds of people here.. just like U.S.A. .. a melting pot with all kind of diversities!
 
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