Heath's dating situation ? Help please ? Advice ?

[Sugar Addict]

I find it interesting that not one person mentioned finding a girl at church. I'm not into church myself, but if you are Heath, then look there. I know how small towns are so if there is no one in your church then try a similar faith or go to a nearby bigger town. I'm sorry that so many people in here would rather attack you than try to help. Leave the internet alone it's full of loonies. My brother is really into church and wanted a christian wife and there was a girl I had gone to school with that was looking for a christian man. I ran into her dad at my office and we hooked them up. They've been together for years and have 2 kids. Start with some sane friends and have them help you look. Good luck.

bingo! good suggestion

find a girl at church heath

 

[IslandGal]

It is not even an opinion when you insult somebody and there can be no honesty in an insult meant to harm one another. You know that and you should be ashamed of yourself.

Well, if I was single I would have told you why I wouldn't date you and I know that there are a lot of women out there who doesn't want to date you all because of your negative criticisms toward several people. You got to improve on your attitude and personality if you want a woman to be interested in you.

 

[WhisperHorse]

Hello Heath,

I do understand how you feel with women who is become mental problems(not always, depends on what kind, it might be serious or not, etc like that). But just remember that everybody include you and I aren't that perfect. You know that I will say that, of course. Also, everybody have GREAT personality on their own and have BEAUTIFUL inside and outside on their own, no matter about size, shapes, color, everything. Also, yo usound like that you MUST have a perfect wife. I felt like that way. And, look at me and you already met me on the webcam of course. Im a large woman and it hurt my feeling when I saw what you said to my boyfriend, Sequoias. It's not right for you to saying that because women can be LARGE anytime, like.. Depression to eating, pregnant, everything like that. Would you stay with her if she's a large woman? And, I saw what you said to CoolieFroggie that you would divorce with your wife for her best friend who is lebsian. I was like, CoolieFroggie MEANS her best friend is lesian but your wife is STRAIGHT and is in love with you so much, jsut being friend with her because of her personality and everything like that but don't care if she's lesbian or not. I don't understand why you can't accept it?

Normal and calm

She has a good mind

She is not crazy, violent or angry or suicidal

She should not be deseprate for love

Loves to go to church

Good with the kids

She is very conservative, traditional

She is a woman of honor

And, your list sounds not bad. But remember, that woman can't have ALL of them in once. Also, I think it's good idea to looking for a woman with great personality, smart, sense of humor, have good common sense, love family and you, love going to church, being christan like you are, etc like that. It could be happen but ALL OF THEM, it would be very tough to find that kind of woman you know what I mean? But I hope you will find that, but just remember what I told you about tough to find that... And, I know that you are smart man but I know you could be hard head(no offense if you feel that's insult, I just said that becuase you like to do your own way sometime, sorry). And, I would help you with that situation if you want me to. I wouldn't judge on you or order you to do or whatever like that, I DON'T CARE what you want in woman as long as she do make you happy period. That's what I like about... And I wish you a good luck to find a woman like that way or mostly of things that you want what kind in a woman...

 

[DeafMommy0407]

I never said children are mistakes. I said the mother made the mistake herself. You need to start paying closer attention to what I am saying.

Oh I sure was paying attention to every word of what you said. PERFECTLY CLEAR.

You just said that women are punished for having sex and getting pregnant. Guess what? It is a beautiful thing. and God will never punish his own children. So I am leaving this behind and Good night, Heath.

God bless ya.

 

[Heath]

Oh I sure was paying attention to every word of what you said. PERFECTLY CLEAR.

You just said that women are punished for having sex and getting pregnant. Guess what? It is a beautiful thing. and God will never punish his own children. So I am leaving this behind and Good night, Heath.

God bless ya.

I did not say she was being punished. I said there are conquensces for example, she is on welfare with her baby in a stroller and she is very alone then she sees a good man with his wife and a baby in a stroller and 3 or 4 kids clinging to the mom.The husband has a very nice shiny family van that God blessed them with and you only have one baby and you are on welfare and you have no husband to love and help you and you have a car that barely works and the auto mechanic guy always rips you off with money instead of your husband fixing the car at home and saving you alots of money. That is what I meant by the conquensces. There always is a good blessing in obeying God and it does pay to obey God for this is right. Of course God will look after unwed mothers and her baby, just that there are some blessings that were held back that should have rightfully be reserved for you once you had married a good man then proceeded to start a family together like God intended it to be. What happens in the physical world also happens in the spiritual world.

 

[DeafMommy0407]

I did not say she was being punished. I said there are conquensces for example, she is on welfare with her baby in a stroller and she is very alone then she sees a good man with his wife and a baby in a stroller and 3 or 4 kids clinging to the mom.The husband has a very nice shiny family van that God blessed them with and you only have one baby and you are on welfare and you have no husband to love and help you and you have a car that barely works and the auto mechanic guy always rips you off with money instead of your husband fixing the car at home and saving you alots of money. That is what I meant by the conquensces. There always is a good blessing in obeying God and it does pay to obey God for this is right. Of course God will look after unwed mothers and her baby, just that there are some blessings that were held back that should have rightfully be reserved for you once you had married a good man then proceeded to start a family together like God intended it to be. What happens in the physical world also happens in the spiritual world.

Oh lordy lordy here we go again.

I see many married couples having more plms than single moms/fathers. Trust me, I have seen it so many times. So like I said, I am leaving this behind and pls do not say anymore than it already is. Thank you.

 

[Heath]

Oh lordy lordy here we go again.

I see many married couples having more plms than single moms/fathers. Trust me, I have seen it so many times. So like I said, I am leaving this behind and pls do not say anymore than it already is. Thank you.

I have seen it the another way around and yeah I will say no more. I hope you feel better and please just know that I was telling you the hard hitting truth.

 

[lilylover72]

Heath, You control over ladies that you dated and you caused them psycho. You cannot make them what you want them to be. Noone are perfect! You cannot expect that you have a perfect wife, life, job with wealth. God want see if you can accept that no perfect lady, low pay job, etc then god will bless you.

I have to warn you about If your wife get preg, then she might gain her weight. She cannot help it. If you didnt like it, she might leave you and give you a divorce. Please accept your future wife if she gain weight after birth or whatever.

Look I married my husband for 10 years. He never force me do something what he like. He accept who am I. He is a hearing and I am deaf. I accept who is he. We are much different but we respect each other so much. Our love become very very strong. I was little chucky when I met him before got married.

 

[Heath]

Hello Heath,

I do understand how you feel with women who is become mental problems(not always, depends on what kind, it might be serious or not, etc like that). But just remember that everybody include you and I aren't that perfect. You know that I will say that, of course. Also, everybody have GREAT personality on their own and have BEAUTIFUL inside and outside on their own, no matter about size, shapes, color, everything. Also, yo usound like that you MUST have a perfect wife. I felt like that way. And, look at me and you already met me on the webcam of course. Im a large woman and it hurt my feeling when I saw what you said to my boyfriend, Sequoias. It's not right for you to saying that because women can be LARGE anytime, like.. Depression to eating, pregnant, everything like that. Would you stay with her if she's a large woman? And, I saw what you said to CoolieFroggie that you would divorce with your wife for her best friend who is lebsian. I was like, CoolieFroggie MEANS her best friend is lesian but your wife is STRAIGHT and is in love with you so much, jsut being friend with her because of her personality and everything like that but don't care if she's lesbian or not. I don't understand why you can't accept it?

Okay I can explain, when I marry my wife and she clearly is a normal woman then we get married then go through life together the good , the bad and the ugly and along the way let's say her grandmother died, that is fine, normal grief and then she recovers and she can move on with life. That is what I want in a wife, I do not want to marry a woman who is very unstable , crazy, suicidal and is a danger to my kids then when she loses her grandmother then she expresses bizarre behavior . I will not stand for that, that is very unacceptable. As to hurting your feelings, I said no offense and this is my preference. If she gets large due to getting done having a baby, that is fine, if she is depressed then I will help her through it as long as she is not overeating or throwing up bulima which is a mental disorder and she can follow the doctor's instructions to excersice and eat properly and she has a rational mind. Believe me, I have dealt with so many crazy women that I want nothing to do with them. As for lesbianism, I personally find it digusting the same way a woman would find it digusting for another woman to come onto her just like me if a guy came onto me I will mess him up for sure. I don't see how people can find it acceptable because it is really digusting and very loathesome, my gut reaction is to either fight or puke which I have puked on several occassions from learning that some one was gay or lesbian. I just find it too digusting and I find homosexuality very evil too.

And, your list sounds not bad. But remember, that woman can't have ALL of them in once. Also, I think it's good idea to looking for a woman with great personality, smart, sense of humor, have good common sense, love family and you, love going to church, being christan like you are, etc like that. It could be happen but ALL OF THEM, it would be very tough to find that kind of woman you know what I mean? But I hope you will find that, but just remember what I told you about tough to find that... And, I know that you are smart man but I know you could be hard head(no offense if you feel that's insult, I just said that becuase you like to do your own way sometime, sorry). And, I would help you with that situation if you want me to. I wouldn't judge on you or order you to do or whatever like that, I DON'T CARE what you want in woman as long as she do make you happy period. That's what I like about... And I wish you a good luck to find a woman like that way or mostly of things that you want what kind in a woman...

Thank you and I will not settle for less which I have seen way too many people settle for less and I am not going to have that. Sure it may be harder to find a woman like what I want but it will be worth it and I pray to God for a very good woman who fits my description and much more to a .... " T " and God can provide that and I have seen God provide that for another people before so why not ?

 

[diehardbiker]

Find a perfect mate is really a fantasy more than reality! Wake up!

 

[WhisperHorse]

Okay I can explain, when I marry my wife and she clearly is a normal woman then we get married then go through life together the good , the bad and the ugly and along the way let's say her grandmother died, that is fine, normal grief and then she recovers and can move on with life. That is what I want in a wife, I do not want to marry a woman who is very unstable , crazy, suicidal and is a danger to my kids then when she loses her grandmother then she expresses bizarre behavior . I will not stand for that, that is very unacceptable. As to hurting your feelings, I said no offense and this is my preference. If she gets large due to getting done having a baby, that is fine, if she is depressed then I will help her through it as long as she is not overeating or throwing up bulima which is a mental disorder and she can follow the doctor's instructions to excersice and eat properly and she has a rational mind. Believe me, I have dealt with so many crazy women that I want nothing to do with them. As for lesbianism, I personally find it digusting the same way a woman would find it digusting for another woman to come onto her just like me if a guy came onto me I will mess him up for sure. I don't see how people can find it acceptable because it is really digusting and very loathesome, my gut reaction is to either fight or puke which I have puked on several occassions from learning that some one was gay or lesbian. I just find it too digusting and I find homosexuality very evil too.

I do understand clearly but about Lesiban and Gay, I do understand how you feel. But, Im curious would you accept if your wife see her family OR friends who is gay or lebsian? NOTHING SERIOUS about your wife and them to being together, just hang out and catch the news up?

Thank you and I will not settle for less which I have seen way too many people settle for less and I am not going to have that. Sure it may be harder to find a woman like what I want but it will be worth it and I pray to God for a very good woman who fits my description and much more to a .... " T " and God can provide that and I have seen God provide that for another people before so why not ?

That's good, just pray and work hard on your life and focus on your life that you want to do with. So you will find her which that what you want or mostly of things in her that you want... Good luck

 

[Dino65]

Normal and calm

She has a good mind

She is not crazy, violent or angry or suicidal

She should not be deseprate for love

Loves to go to church

Good with the kids

She is very conservative, traditional

She is a woman of honor

Glad that I had never met Heath -- to Heath? NOT!

 

[Heath]

I do understand clearly but about Lesiban and Gay, I do understand how you feel. But, Im curious would you accept if your wife see her family OR friends who is gay or lebsian? NOTHING SERIOUS about your wife and them to being together, just hang out and catch the news up?

She can see her family. That is fine and as for friends, I will have to be there so that the another woman cannot come onto my wife at all and I protect the honor and the sancity of the married bedroom with my wife and only her alone. No one, male or female can touch my wife at all.

That's good, just pray and work hard on your life and focus on your life that you want to do with. So you will find her which that what you want or mostly of things in her that you want... Good luck

Thank you and I will. God Bless you and hope your life changes for the better.

 

[WhisperHorse]

Thank you and I will not settle for less which I have seen way too many people settle for less and I am not going to have that. Sure it may be harder to find a woman like what I want but it will be worth it and I pray to God for a very good woman who fits my description and much more to a .... " T " and God can provide that and I have seen God provide that for another people before so why not ?

Thank you and I will. God Bless you and hope your life changes for the better.

Thank you for explain. I now understand clearly.

You're welcome. Thanks

 

[CoolieFroggie]

Thank you and I will. God Bless you and hope your life changes for the better.

Ok i got your message, if you allow your wife to see friends who is a gay or lesbian.. what if wife said to you * do you like my friends, they are so cool*

what you will say?

 

[Heath]

Ok i got your message, if you allow your wife to see friends who is a gay or lesbian.. what if wife said to you * do you like my friends, they are so cool*

what you will say?

I will tell her the truth that I can see they do have good qualities, if they honestly do that I can see in a friend but I do not like the homosexual behavior itself. That is it then At home, we both will pray for her salvation, repentenance and turning away from her homosexual sin to the Power of The Lord Jesus Christ and we will continue to evangelize together and never alone, lest her friend tempts or commits a wicked act against my wife. We will pray for her to find a good man who will be his wife.

 

[lilylover72]

I will tell her the truth that I can see they do have good qualities, if they honestly do that I can see in a friend but I do not like the homosexual behavior itself. That is it then At home, we both will pray for her salvation, repentenance and turning away from her homosexual sin to the Power of The Lord Jesus Christ and we will continue to evangelize together and never alone, lest her friend tempts or commits a wicked act against my wife. We will pray for her to find a good man who will be his wife.

Huh? You cannot make them change for you if you dont like the homosexual. Dont even tell them about god, etc or they will lost respect about you. Just say nothing to them period. If your wife really want be friend with them, then dont say anything about homosexual.

 

[diehardbiker]

I will tell her the truth that I can see they do have good qualities, if they honestly do that I can see in a friend but I do not like the homosexual behavior itself. That is it then At home, we both will pray for her salvation, repentenance and turning away from her homosexual sin to the Power of The Lord Jesus Christ and we will continue to evangelize together and never alone, lest her friend tempts or commits a wicked act against my wife. We will pray for her to find a good man who will be his wife.

 

[Heath]

Huh? You cannot make them change for you if you dont like the homosexual. Dont even tell them about god, etc or they will lost respect about you. Just say nothing to them period. If your wife really want be friend with them, then dont say anything about homosexual.

What !!!! and let them go to hell because I am a Christian and I withheld the truth from her friend. No Thanks ..... A real friend tells the person the truth regardless of what the person thinks because the person knows that is the truth.

Perphaps this will open your eyes to what I am talking about .....

When you open this link and slide to the right where it says ... ( more ) then click on that and read it before watching the video clip then you will see what I am talking about. There is supposed to be a man there as God intended and this is a clean video clip okay ?

Here it is .....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFs02TPpkXs

 

[lilylover72]

What !!!! and let them go to hell because I am a Christian and I withheld the truth from her friend. No Thanks ..... A real friend tells the person the truth regardless of what the person thinks because the person knows that is the truth.

Perphaps this will open your eyes to what I am talking about .....

When you open this link and click to the right where it says ... ( more ) then click on that and read it before watching the video clip then you will see what I am talking about. There is supposed to be a man there as God intended and this is a clean video clip okay ?

Here it is .....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFs02TPpkXs

Whatever! I am not going argue with you anymore.