Heath's dating situation ? Help please ? Advice ?

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Heath said:
I think she said some where that she is 62 years old. I could be wrong but if she is 62 years old then she is old enough to be my grandmother. Yes, she is loyal to God so am I too. I am looking for a woman who is between 21 to 30 years old.
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No... it is me i am 62.. not SmileyGin
 
Sunshine1 said:
Wow you kept bring negatives about your past over and over.

I am not bringing up my past at all. It is the women who are the problem. It seems everytime I date a girl she seems normal at first and I find out whoa she has serious mental health issues.

This is not an issue we are trying to help you. I would say to move on in postive way for a better understanding. You can't control your woman 100% YOUR way. That would be abusal.

I never said anything about controlling a woman 100 % in fact, you are not even paying attention to what I am saying.

No one is interesting. Women are human beings as men do!!! Well I'm done on this thread because I realize you aren't opened minded about positive way and understanding and respect what's going on. It's really wasted. So long
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Of course women are human, from Adam's rib to form a woman. You would be surprised to see I am open minded as long as it makes sense and lines up with the Holy Bible. I do respect and understand what is going on and it is you who do not understand nor respect what is going on.
 
DeafGeorgiaLady said:
Heath,

I have a question so pls do not bash on me, I am already having a hard week. Thanks.

So am I here too.

Now, the question is: if you are dating a gal and you find out that she has a sister that is pregnant and unmarried. What do you have to say about it? You just stop dating your gal and give her sister a long lecture about God and this and that?

No, unless she was aiding and abetting an abortion then I would have told her no way !!!!! She can talk to her about God and what the KJV Holy Bible says and if she wants to ask me questions then that is fine. If she does not like my answer, just remember it is not my answer. It is God's answer from the Scriptures.

Please be honest and do not bash on me. I am just curious, that all. Thank you.
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I have given you a honest answer and you are very welcome.
 
Heath said:
I have given you a honest answer and you are very welcome.
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I wasnt talking about abortion. tsk tsk. I was talking about would you stop dating her if she has a sister who is pregnant and unmarried. BUT Thank you for answering my question. You have a good week and pray that we have a better week this week.

God bless.
 
DeafGeorgiaLady said:
I wasnt talking about abortion. tsk tsk. I was talking about would you stop dating her if she has a sister who is pregnant and unmarried. BUT Thank you for answering my question. You have a good week and pray that we have a better week this week.

God bless.
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Well, I can still answer your question. If she is pregnant and a unwed mother. That is a mistake she made and of course, God will still provide for her baby and for her too. I am not going to divorce her because her sister is pregnant and a unwed mother.

Yes I hope and pray the same for you to have a good week as well as for myself too. Thak you and God Bless !!!!! :angel:
 
Heath said:
Well I can still answer your question. If she is pregnant and a unwed mother. That is a mistake she made and of course, God will still provide for her baby and for her too. I am not going to divorce her because her sister is pregnant and a unwed mother.

Yes I hope and pray the same for you to have a good week as well as for myself too. Thak you and God Bless !!!!! :angel:
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Why is that a mistake that she made? what if it was her choice to become pregnant? even by accident? Children are never mistakes. God made us and he wants us to have children in one way or other. It is our choice to be pregnant if we want to, because of loneliness and sadness in our lives. God always love us no matter what. That is why He made women to have children for whatsoever. I love children and I support women when that happens to them. It is THEIR choice and they can always look up to GOD and ask for help in any way.

Again, Children are never mistakes in no matter what. Thank you.
 
Heath said:
Normal and calm

She has a good mind

She is not crazy, violent or angry or suicidal

She should not be deseprate for love

Loves to go to church

Good with the kids

She is very conservative, traditional

She is a woman of honor
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LMAO -- What if your future wife or girlfriend that you deeply in love become depressed and suicidal .. would you be there for her? It could be a post traumatic depression, Death of her one of her beloved family and many more.

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DeafGeorgiaLady said:
Why is that a mistake that she made? what if it was her choice to become pregnant? even by accident? Children are never mistakes. God made us and he wants us to have children in one way or other. It is our choice to be pregnant if we want to, because of loneliness and sadness in our lives. God always love us no matter what. That is why He made women to have children for whatsoever. I love children and I support women when that happens to them. It is THEIR choice and they can always look up to GOD and ask for help in any way.

Again, Children are never mistakes in no matter what. Thank you.
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I agree with you! :h5:
 
ghsh1996 said:
I agree with you! :h5:
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Thanks. I just support women no matter what. not because I am one. Just because God made us this way. Why are we women for a reason? To have babies and make themselves and God happy. To be more independent, to be strong-willed. To be happy and have a good life.
 
I was mistake and did not blame my ex wife for our babies and love children God gave me wonderful spending time with them. I see my children still grow and was married for 15 years and my ex wife said I am good man to care them because they love me as I love them so much. I am divorced and have joint custody of my kids. I see my son who is tall as me
 
Reba said:
Maybe God hasn't yet sent the right woman to you because He's still working on you so that you will be the right man for your future wife.

No nice Christian woman wants to marry a man who reads porn, even a tiny bit. Also, there is no such thing as "a good moral point" to a porn story. That sounds like the flimsy excuse men use when they say, "I just subscribe to Playboy magazine for the articles." Ha! Also, if a Christian woman finds out that you read and post in a forum called "Penisarium" she will run for the hills.



They might be hard working and honest but they aren't honoring Christ by drinking beer, cold or otherwise.

I don't know what church you attend but your Pastor should be preaching against drinking alcohol if he is a strong Bible preacher.

Anyway, it's up to you. If you can't surrender your porn and beer for the sake of finding a good woman, then maybe you aren't serious enough yet for the search.

One more point. Women need security. If a man doesn't have a strong career goal, it makes a woman feel insecure. I'm not saying you have to be rich or type-A workaholic. But at your age, you do need to have a definite education/work plan established, and you need to show that you are actually striving towards that goal.
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DeafGeorgiaLady said:
Why is that a mistake that she made? what if it was her choice to become pregnant? even by accident? Children are never mistakes. God made us and he wants us to have children in one way or other. It is our choice to be pregnant if we want to,

There is a right way and a wrong way to do that. It is better to get married first then have a baby and be greatly blessed by God for obeying God to wait until marriage first. The another way is wrong to be unwed and pregnant and it always causes pain and grief. I never said children are mistakes. I said she made the mistake.


because of loneliness and sadness in our lives. God always love us no matter what. That is why He made women to have children for whatsoever.

There is a right way and a wrong way to be alone and sad. The right way gives life and the wrong way gives death because of loneliness and sadness.

I love children and I support women when that happens to them. It is THEIR choice and they can always look up to GOD and ask for help in any way.

Of course !!!!! The question is how are you pleasing God, I am sure God does nto appreciate the fact that a woman is pregnant and a unwed mother and God still will look after the baby and you but God will give even more greater blessings when you obey God and wait until marriage first then start a beautiful family together as God intended it to be.

Again, Children are never mistakes in no matter what. Thank you.
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I never said children are mistakes. I said the mother made the mistake herself. You need to start paying closer attention to what I am saying.
 
ButterflyGirl said:
At least I gave him my honest answer of what I think of him :D
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It is not even an opinion when you insult somebody and there can be no honesty in an insult meant to harm one another. You know that and you should be ashamed of yourself and your opinion holds no merits on its own when you hurl insults. It is not even an opinion period.
 
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Dino65 said:
LMAO -- What if your future wife or girlfriend that you deeply in love become depressed and suicidal .. would you be there for her? It could be a post traumatic depression, Death of her one of her beloved family and many more.

:crazy:
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If these things happen in the normal course of life. That is fine .... but to have somebody who is truly seriously a mental case then I do not want to marry her. No way, There is no future in a woman who is depressed, suicidal and is never there for her kids when I am supposed to be working hard at my job and providing for my family. There just ins't a future in that at all.
 
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