neecy
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The earlier one is implanted with the CI, the more time they have to work with the device. It is not like flipping on a switch three weeks after the surgery. CI's have more success rates if they are given as soon as possible. It's not a rush to make the child more "normal" but it's a rush to make sure the child/adult has the most out of their device.
People can be successful without CI's, that is true. However, you do not know her son like she, his MOTHER does, and you would not go to the ends of the earth for this child. When parents choose CI's for their babies/children/teens, they do not "force." I was 17 when I was considered a candidate. My parents did NOT force me. It took them fifteen years to be comfortable with the idea of a CI. It was my choice, and they supported me wholeheartedly, even giving up most of their retirement money for MY benefit because they love me. My parents and whole family are hearing and never had any contact with the deaf world. It's ridiculous, are parents torturing their children when they give them glasses at the age of two if their vision is extremely impaired? Is it torture to give your blind baby new retinas? Blind people are just as capable as deafies to be successful because we are all intelligent creatures. If you are going to use the argument that deaf people are just as good as everybody else (which, THEY ARE), then every other disability/problem that doesn't limit one's mental abilities has to be under that category.
What about that child in India that was born with 8 legs? Were her parents taking away her "identity" by having them removed?
Deafness is not an identity for everyone. I accept and am fine with my being deaf, it is a part of who I am, but it is not WHO I am.
Trying to define a baby's identity is just as bad as accusing parents of trying to make their baby's identity with a CI.
Stop attacking deaf and hearing parents who implant their babies. They are doing what they feel is best for their child! It isn't an easy decision, ever. The reality is that this world is mostly run on the basis that anybody you pass on the street can hear. It's sad, but it's the truth.
Wonderful posting!