For example, I've got a severe hearing loss and know a little asl. I also am very oral, but yet, the deaf people in my community (note I didn't say "deaf community"?) don't want to have anything to do with me or my hearing dog. The reason is because I'm too oral. Well, excuse me, but from what I've been told by a friend here in town that lives in D.C., (she's also hoh), she has to order her deaf friends' food when they go out to eat. I told her not to, as did her own mother.
welcome to the club. i have the same/different experience. oralists and ciers in my mainstream school told me to get fucking lost because i'm too deaf for them. i'm not kidding. but they went too far on me -- stealing, pushing, kicking, slandering, making up some lies about me and so on and so on -- before i finally stood up to them and beat the shit out of them.
what's ironic about them is that hearing students and i got along very well but yet oralists and ciers themselves did everything in their power to drive me away from the school or my friends away from me.