I would love to discuss this answer but it's not allowed here.
What do you know? Dreams are often memories played back to us. You even get dreams that fortell things that happen in the future. Although I haven't experienced those sort of dreams personally but I've heard about it happening.
Dreams don't necessarily reveal real life experiences. They can reveal anxieties, desires, and indigestion. They are wide open to interpretation. Dreams aren't reliable mental diaries of past events.
No that's not true because I drempt about being beheaded before I read the book.
1. there is no way to prove that you weren't exposed to a story, TV program, picture, etc., about a beheading prior to your dream
2. there is no way to prove that your dream about a beheading means that you personally experienced one
Your later reading about beheadings provides details for your brain that it didn't have to experience but become part of a false memory. Our brains do that all the time, especially with sensory experiences, even conscious ones. Our brains fill in missing letters to words, missing features to portrait, etc.
... I tend to like books I can identify so why would I identify with a story set in another century if I hadn't been there?
Because it feeds your fantasy, that's why.
Why would I read a book about someone on death row and identify with it if it hasn't ever happened to me ever?
Because you are a sensitive person, very introspective, with an active and rich imagination.
Plus why would I, as a little kid, freak when I saw a head on it's own.
Kids freak out at a variety of things that don't make sense. It's common. Some kids freak at clowns, some freak at dogs, some freak at brussel sprouts.
Even a head like those where kids practice being hair dressers. I didn't know about beheadings. I just didn't like to see heads not attached to bodies.
Disembodied heads are basically creepy anyway. One doesn't need to be a reincarnated beheading victim to be grossed out by heads. Some of those mannequin heads and Barbie hairdresser heads are pretty spooky looking. I don't blame kids for being scared of them.
This was before I could even read so my memories there were definately not tainted with what I'd read.
You could have seen a picture on TV, or maybe someone teased you cruelly with a toy "head". Or maybe the beheading represents something totally different. Objects in dreams are often symbolic of something else.
There is one other possibility too, but I'm not free to discuss it in this forum.
BTW, I'm not unfamiliar with reincarnation theories, pre-birth regression, and the people involved in it. Let's just say it's something I studied a few decades ago.