Lotte doesn't know... but then again, the definition of "being deaf" is vague..
She realises she cannot hear without CI's and she's fine with that.. but she really wants to hear when around other people. Alone, waking up early in the morning, she can play for hours being "deaf" but even then I suspect her brain still "hears"...
My brain still "hears" despite being very profoundly deaf but I still had deaf needs that werent being met. That is what I feel that many people dont really understand about deaf children.
Dont know if that makes sense but anyone feel free to elaborate on that because I am having a series of brain farts right now after forgetting that children with CIs can recall what it is like to be deaf once their devices are turned off.
Cloggy, (added to this)
and all parents of deaf children with CI and HA
What I think Shel is wanting you to undertand is that even tho Lotte can hear with help of CI and I'm glad about that!
What she wants you to understand is that even tho she has CI, she cannot and never will hear like normal hearing can. Those with hearing aids are in same boat, we cannot and will not hear like hearing people can..
Other thing to be aware of is that even tho we "hear", it is not same as hearing a noise ( and hearing a voice is same as noise to us) and understanding what the noise is.. (understanding speech) that is part that takes alot of effort for us.. I'm sure it's the same with Lotte.. it will take more effort on her part to follow conversation than it would for you..
It can get very frustrating for us to try to follow converstaion and when we are lost, we are only told "ohh never mind or I'll tell you later" that is very frustrating cause they tell us to try harder to follow converstaion but yet when we need little help, they will not give us the help!
What Shel is wanting is to not let your daughter go through that frustration that we all went through and still go through..
Just try to understand that she doesn't hear like you hear.. I think that is whole point we are trying to tell you.. I hope this makes it clear..
I wish you well on your raising of your daughter and I'm sure she is happy young girl and we want her to continue to be happy as she grows up..
Even tho you want her to have speech and I have no problem wth that.. They just want her to have equal peers that understands her position like no hearing person can and can learn sign language..
for all we know,, technology may not always be there and what if ( i know that is a big if but still is a big if ) CI broke and is not replaceable or repairable or etc.. Think of where she would be if she wasn't able to sign then.
Best thing to do is continue with path you are on with teaching her speech and how to listen, only add sign language now instead of future or waiting for her to want to sign. Now is best time for her to learn! Learning sign language will only add to her list of language.. not diminish them.