So basically Berry, You're blaming me for what you "ASLers" went through just because I've learned SEE sign language?
That question is so layered you have to be very good at English in order to present it. It also has a couple of presuppositions that are not correct. Please slow down. Relax, no one here is against Cheri, even those who are the most radically anti SEE.
You are not the language you speak.
Also every language, including ASL and English, has some incongruities in it that make both native speakers and foriegners sit back and blink.
You are certainly not to blame for something you were not even alive to experience. It is only part of my personal experience because I am old and first learned to sign when sign language was socially castrated. But I learned it and used it any way because it was one of the most fun things I had ever done and my best friend's parents were deaf. We signed everywhere all the time, and enjoyed the consternation we caused, but my friends parents would not allow us to sign openly in public when they were around unless we absolutely had too -- Because it caused undo attention. Back then some hearing people thought that deaf people "talking with their hands" was an urban myth. Only those who had close contact with deaf people were even aware of it let alone use it.
You are not to blame for that.
On the other hand if you sign, and if you are American: Then this is part of YOUR history whether you are deaf or not -- Regardless what kind of sign language you use.
There is no "universal sign language" Sign languages develop specific to their communities and is not universal, It's the same as there isn't a universal spoken language if you think ASL is the universal sign language, then you are wrong, When you meet a Deaf person from another country their signs will not be ASL either, their signs would matched up what community they're in. Even though ASL is the most commonly used of sign language in the USA by the deaf culture, it doesn't mean we all uses ASL, It's the same as what method we grew up in, we don't all go to deaf schools, share the same program. There's many and many communication tools for the deaf, parents choose one tool for us or maybe just maybe they'll chosen them all.
This is true. In fact there are areas in Canada that are really insane; my friend told me in Quebic she ran into signers of ASL, BSL, and FSL (American, Brittish, and French). I'm surprized they don't come up with their own QSL.
The problem with SEE, from an ASL, BSL, or Auslan (Australian sign language) point of view is that it is not a "language" in the same sense. SEE; like the words you see printed here; is manually coded English: Which in and of itself is not a bad idea. SEE used ASL signs: Which is actually a very good idea; it should allow most deaf American signers easy access to it.
But then the inventors of SEE took a bad turn. They were hearing people "doing something for the deaf" and their innate egotistical belief in the superiority of English caused them to mutilate ASL at any and every point where compromise between the two languages was possible. Suddenly an excellent idea that should have given ASL signers easier access to English and give hearing people easier access to ASL became just one more problem to over come.
Please note I am disparaging those who created SEE, not those who use it.
Of course as a native SEE signer you don't have these problems until you confuse an ASLer by using a familier sign in a manner that appears nonsensical to them. (Such as a nose that runs on legs like a person or an animal rather than flows like a liquid, which by the way is just as stupid in English as it is in sign, but is used so commonly no one thinks about it).
We are all deaf, does it matter what signs we uses? Why can't we just all get along and learned from each others signs.
Well that places me firmly as an outsider who has no right to speak about deaf issues. I'm not only hearing but my signing ability has fallen unused for so long it is pathetic. The signers in my family (all hearing) seem to all be busy nowadays and the hoh peeps I've met in the past few years reject sign language in toto.
But I see myself as part of the signing community and all deaf sign language issues as issues that concern the entire signing community. I want the right to sit in a restuarant and sign with my family just as much as you do. I want the right to go to the principal's office of my grand daughter's school and sign to her without being told "We don't allow that here" just as much as you do. The fact that my family and grand daughter are hearing is not the issue.
The right to sign and be proud of it is.
I would like to end on this note: Can't we have differing points of view on the merits the language we are discussing without disrespecting the person who uses the language?
Some Mexicans have told me that Germans sound like horses and Americans sound like geese.
Should I be mad at them?
I don't think so: They love me and we laugh at each other.