Let us go back a bit to when I first learned to sign: This would be when I was about 9 or 10 years old; over 50 years ago. Back then hearing people who were pro deaf, or at least neutral, referred to deaf people as "deaf and dumb" and referred to sign language as "talking with your hands." Hearing people who were unsympathetic to deaf called them "dummies" and called sign language "dummy talk", and if you signed in school you were suspended for three days. Deaf people did NOT sign in public. Oralism was the Holy Grail of those great souls who chose to spend their lives helping deaf to rise above the limits God had imposed upon them.
My best friend was CODA and we spent a lot of time out. His parents were chastized for teaching us that crap. Sign language was viewed at best as a bunch of garbled up gestures that served as a sort of makeshift substitue for English.
Then along came a guy named
William Stokoe who proved deaf signers had a real language that was not just a bunch of gestures serving as a substitute English: ASL was born and people, including deaf people, started signing proudly, right out in public.
But wait a minute, some educators were not happy with this so someone came up with SEE, which
is a makeshift substitute for English, and now ASL signers are supposed to give up their language for this wonderful improvement.
SEE users got the right to sign proudly in public from the fact ASL is a real language in its own right, even though SEE is not. Riding on our linguistic coat tails, so to speak.
It is sort of like being knocked down, kicked around, then somebody comes along, helps you back on your feet, dusts you off, and as soon as they walk off here comes somebody new who tries to knock you down all over again.
Enough is enough.
That is why ASL users, hearing and deaf alike, are very defensive when they feel the language they love is under attack.[/QUOTE]
I feel you. I didnt grow up with ASL but when I learned it, I felt that was the language I should have grown up with and my rights to have that language were taken away by the Holy Grail oralists.
Yes, I love ASL and I do become defensive when I feel it is under attack especially by the oralists blaming it for poor literacy skills.
Back to your experience...I still reel whenever I read the experiences of deaf people from that time when they were punished for using ASL. That is another reason why I am very opposed to the oralist philosophy. Its history is just too ugly.