A Question For Homosexuals

rolling7, I am trying to follow your train of thought...what was your point exactly on this thread? I'm lost.
 
DeafCaroline said:
rolling7, I am trying to follow your train of thought...what was your point exactly on this thread? I'm lost.
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Ahem...

In my best rolling7 impression:

All I can say is start at post #1 and read all of them, everything I have to say makes sense when you start from the beginning and read everything. If you don't get it, then you're probably just confused because you didn't read this as long as me, just go back and read it again and you'll understand.

My point is that everyone is acting like responsibility and consequences don't happen and for the gays they have them just like straight people, and everyone who has sex has consequences like cheating and getting pregnant and getting aids and then I have to pay for it you think we don't?

If people would just be responsible and only have sex with their one true love soulmate and never any other time, then we wouldn't have all these problems, but I'm sure people will tell me I'm being ridiculous for demanding that so we'll keep having these problems.
 
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jillio said:
Not impossible, but highly unlikely. And extremely unreasonable. What of those whose partners have died at a young age? They are to remain celibate for the remainder of their years?

And I know of many homosexuals who are involved in long term, monogamous relationships. More so, as a matter of fact, than heterosexuals.
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You answered you own question where you sdaid: "died at a young age."
So where do you, and many others, get confused?????
One person with one person for life is just that...the life of one is over when it is over....congradulations to them for being faithful until the end.....now the person still living can go find another partner.
Very simple but, for some reason, confusing to you and many others.
 
rolling7 said:
You answered you own question where you sdaid: "died at a young age."
So where do you, and many others, get confused?????
One person with one person for life is just that...the life of one is over when it is over....congradulations to them for being faithful until the end.....now the person still living can go find another partner.
Very simple but, for some reason, confusing to you and many others.
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What about if someone is in an abusive relationship? Once they're able to get out, should they then stay celibate, too? (Or I suppose we could go a round in a game of "Blame the Victim", if you'd prefer.)
 
rolling7 said:
You answered you own question where you sdaid: "died at a young age."
So where do you, and many others, get confused?????
One person with one person for life is just that...the life of one is over when it is over....congradulations to them for being faithful until the end.....now the person still living can go find another partner.
Very simple but, for some reason, confusing to you and many others.
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I'm glad even you don't think you should follow Queen Victoria's example.
 
StSapphire said:
What about if someone is in an abusive relationship? Once they're able to get out, should they then stay celibate, too? (Or I suppose we could go a round in a game of "Blame the Victim", if you'd prefer.)
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Nope, dont want to play games with you. Especially not "blame the victim"
Yes, do want to educate you. Abusives relationships happen to people who get into a relationship before they know the person fully well. All preventable by waiting a little longer to find out about the persons real character.
This lesson will be on your end-of-the-year test, don't forget it.
 
rolling7 said:
Nope, dont want to play games with you. Especially not "blame the victim"
Yes, do want to educate you. Abusives relationships happen to people who get into a relationship before they know the person fully well. All preventable by waiting a little longer to find out about the persons real character.
This lesson will be on your end-of-the-year test, don't forget it.
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Ahhh... now I just got a bit more of an understanding of your inner workings by this single post. Funny said that you don't want to play "blame the victim." because it seems like you DO tend to blame the victim. You just blamed the abused person because s/he didn't spend enough time getting to know their partner.

A lot of people get divorced after 15-20 years of marriage. You're gonna tell them "well it's your fault because you didn't get to know your partner better before yall got married."? Hmmm......

Are you male or female? Are you married? Are you younger or older? Or are those too personal?
 
Male...divorced since '97..a 29 year marriage... and not in a relationship....63

And you???
 
Daredevel7 said:
Ahhh... now I just got a bit more of an understanding of your inner workings by this single post. Funny said that you don't want to play "blame the victim." because it seems like you DO tend to blame the victim. You just blamed the abused person because s/he didn't spend enough time getting to know their partner.

A lot of people get divorced after 15-20 years of marriage. You're gonna tell them "well it's your fault because you didn't get to know your partner better before yall got married."? Hmmm......

Are you male or female? Are you married? Are you younger or older? Or are those too personal?
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My bad! I should have hit the "enter" key 2 or more times for two separate issues.

The first was, I don't play the game.

And the second should have began with a question: "How do abusive relations come about?" Of course, my post above gives my opinion but everyone is welcome to share their thoughts......eventhough (again) we'll be off-topic.
 
Jiro said:
look away. look away. :mad2:
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28....and in a serious relationship.........that is the best thing I've heard in a long, long, long time. She is really serious about getting to know her partner before taking the next step. Every ADer should be so proud of her.
 
Daredevel7 said:
Female... Never married...in a serious relationship.... 28. Nice to meet ya! :)
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Heh, this reads the same as mine, with the gender flipped, and you equipped the +2 Gauntlets of... actually, no, deafskeptic would be the one with gauntlets. We'll go with +2 Cloak of the Ages. (I was gonna go with Helm of Wisdom and then remembered that I don't correlate wisdom with age. :lol:)

rolling7 said:
My bad! I should have hit the "enter" key 2 or more times for two separate issues.

The first was, I don't play the game.
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It was a figure of speech. I called it a game, because those who accuse victims of causing their own abuse don't deserve an ounce of serious attention.

rolling7 said:
And the second should have began with a question: "How do abusive relations come about?" Of course, my post above gives my opinion but everyone is welcome to share their thoughts......eventhough (again) we'll be off-topic.
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I'm sure psychologist jillio will chime in here with her experience on abusive relationships, since I've personally never known anyone while they were in one (only seen the effects it has had afterwards), but you did exactly as predicted, and blamed the victim.
 
Jillo has obviously taught you well.........deflect......deflect....deflect

Second chance for you to express your opinion to the above question.
 
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