A Question For Homosexuals

rolling7 said:
Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
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Somehow.... I think you going out and having responsible sex would actually be a service to YOU. Sex does work wonders... ;)
 
Daredevel7 said:
This made me LOL.....

I assumed that by "next step", he meant marriage. But.. who knows?!

Thanks for being proud of me even if I shacked up with my partner on the very first night we met! ;)
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But the question on everyone's* mind still is... did you hook up with her on your first date? :P

rolling7 said:
In the legal world, a contract between two people is in force until one dies.
In my statement of post #245, the relationship between two people having sexual activity with only each other ends with the death of one of the partners. The surviving partner is then released of the obligation of faithfulness and free, if wanted, to seek out a new partner.
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Or until all signators agree that the contract is no longer in force. Of course, this is merely talking about marriages, and there's an entire branch of the law created specifically for handling breaches of marriage contracts (divorce law). So that aspect actually is a part of the legal world, and doesn't especially need any new advice. People are always gonna be people, after all.

rolling7 said:
By doing so, irresponsible sex, and the consequences of irresponsible sex, is avoided. Now get your head out of the sand and quit being a disservice to everyone.
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Ahahahahahaha...

*ahem*

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Seriously? The #1 largest consequence to "irresponsible sex" is "having babies". It costs the most (both to the parents and the public). And guess what? Getting married doesn't change that in any way! If I get my girlfriend pregnant and she has a child... that would be no different whatsoever than if I first went down to the courthouse and got a piece of paper saying that we're legally bound together. Because that paper isn't magic. It doesn't do anything. And it sure as hell doesn't magically give me money for raising a child properly.

rolling7 said:
Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
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How's that irresponsible? People who have more casual sex are less stressed and generally happier with life in general than those who don't.

But that's okay, don't let those cold, hard facts penetrate your warm fuzzy blanket of prudish misconceptions.

missywinks said:
EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage. :giggle:

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)? :hmm:
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Oh, pleeeeease tell me s/he says yes. Please please please. (I doubt he will, but still). That would make everything else so much more amusing.

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*Okay, so maybe not anyone's. Whatever.
 
StSapphire said:
But the question on everyone's* mind still is... did you hook up with her on your first date? :P
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*Okay, so maybe not anyone's. Whatever.
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The answer is...... nope. I'm actually a bit of a prude. I'm sure rolling7 would be proud of me. ;)
 
missywinks said:
EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage. :giggle:

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)? :hmm:
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Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventurous..
And many more
 
rolling7 said:
Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventurous..
And many more
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A few things:

About half of these can be gleaned from reviewing someone's profile on an online dating site or from their Facebook. Another half of the remaining ones can be determined from a very small handful of dates (assuming you don't suck at dating, that is).

Additionally, you've yet to give a good (valid) reason* as to why someone should abstain either while learning about a person, or after they've learned a decent amount (but not everything) about them.

* Valid reasons don't include "she might try to trick you into getting pregnant by claiming she's on the pill but isn't really" (because that's the kind of shit that maybe happens once or twice a year in the ghetto, but mostly just on TV) or "he might secretly have aids and won't tell you because he just wants to get laid" or any number of other fanciful scenarios. I'm talking about reasons that actually hold for two mutually consenting, responsible adults.
 
StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
 
rolling7 said:
You seriously need to dug your head out of the sand by going back and re-reading my #245 post.
I quote YOU: One person with one person for life means never, ever have sex with anyone else no matter what happens until you die. Those are YOUR words, I did not say any such thing. So you need to quit trying to put words in my mouth.

In the legal world, a contract between two people is in force until one dies.
In my statement of post #245, the relationship between two people having sexual activity with only each other ends with the death of one of the partners. The surviving partner is then released of the obligation of faithfulness and free, if wanted, to seek out a new partner.

By doing so, irresponsible sex, and the consequences of irresponsible sex, is avoided. Now get your head out of the sand and quit being a disservice to everyone.
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But, there are numerous cases of legal contract where when one dies, the contract falls to the heirs. So unless you are saying that when one partner dies, the other partner becomes the chattel of the heirs, your comparison is moot.
 
rolling7 said:
StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
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You keep it real? :laugh2: In what fictional world??:lol:
 
rolling7 said:
Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
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Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
 
missywinks said:
EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage. :giggle:

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)? :hmm:
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No doubt! Who wants to get stuck in a lifetime committment to horrible sex?:P
 
rolling7 said:
One good valid reason...........You can't unrung the bell
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What the fuck does this even mean?

rolling7 said:
StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
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I was talking about personal opinion stuff, for that. I.e: liberal/conservative, religious/not, friendliness, etc. It's prolly different for your generation, since I think the "early adopters" for the 40-50+ range have mostly tended to be peoples' parents and grandparents wanting to keep in touch with kids, rather than people wanting to get to know new people.

In other words, keep up with the times, Jethro!

jillio said:
Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
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I doubt it. Sex-negative attitudes won't be cured with prostitution, because it'll merely enhance already prevalent attitudes that "women who have sex before marriage are all slutty whores" and similar attitudes. I'd imagine he'd merely end up feeling dirty afterwards.
 
StSapphire said:
What the fuck does this even mean?



I was talking about personal opinion stuff, for that. I.e: liberal/conservative, religious/not, friendliness, etc. It's prolly different for your generation, since I think the "early adopters" for the 40-50+ range have mostly tended to be peoples' parents and grandparents wanting to keep in touch with kids, rather than people wanting to get to know new people.

In other words, keep up with the times, Jethro!



I doubt it. Sex-negative attitudes won't be cured with prostitution, because it'll merely enhance already prevalent attitudes that "women who have sex before marriage are all slutty whores" and similar attitudes. I'd imagine he'd merely end up feeling dirty afterwards.
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At least it would be a change from lily white and puritanical.:giggle:
 
rolling7 said:
Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventurous..
And many more
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

:69: this is adventurous enough for me!
 
missywinks said:
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

:69: this is adventurous enough for me!
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Bah. That's not all that adventurous. This is:
tandem-skydive.jpg


(Side note - that was one of my first 10 dates with my girlfriend.)


Or if you're going with the other form of "adventurous" then there's always :3some:
 
jillio said:
Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
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So now you are telling people....."Go out and break the LAW"

You are seriously a disservice here and it is up to the MOD. to get you off.
 
rolling7 said:
So now you are telling people....."Go out and break the LAW"

You are seriously a disservice here and it is up to the MOD. to get you off.
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Prostitution isn't illegal everywhere, mate.

And I figured it was either up to jillio or a partner of her choosing to get her off. :giggle:
 
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