On any forum, when you are using words that needs to be looked up in a dictionairy.. you are in the wrong place...
Just use the language anyone can understand. And in the rare occaision it is needed, then it is only natural to explain the word. That way one learns.
But it is sad that there is a need to use these words in order to prove something... Does it make her feel superior... and if so, is there a need for it.?
Or, is it to show the other person is stupid? in that case, she is telling everyone that does not know the word that they are stupid...
Some message...
I use the technical terms I use in order to clarify, not confuse. Far too often, ont his forum, posters use language that does not explaint he concept in the proper way, and over simplify an issue that is actually very complicated. As several of these posters also sept themselves up to be experts onthe issues of cochlear implants and language development, it is expected that with that expertise would come the understanding of the language used and the concepts represented.
When a cocnept is presented in every day language, it is your first inclination to discount it and to counter with an argument that is totally unrelated. Therefore, when you dispute that which has already been impirically proven, or argue a point froma superficial standpoint without a proper consideration of the issues inveolved, it is necesary to correct where the errors lie. If the use of technical terms or vocabulary is a problem for you,there is nothing preventing you from making the effort to educate yourself. Indeed that is how one learns, and if one is truly interested in learning, one will make the effort to do so without having to be spoon fed. If one's concern, however, is only to argue for the sake of arguing, rather than engaging in productive discussion, one will choose to remain inan ignorant state. One bears personal responsibility for one'slack of knowledge, especially when the information is so readily available.
My use of language is not something used to prove anything. This is the way I talk, this is the way I write, If you need claification,there is nothing wrong with asking for it, rather than reacting with defensiveness because someone has said something that you have difficulty comprehending. If you are feeling inferior, then perhaps you are getting a taste of what a deaf individual feels when they are unable to keep up with an oral conversation, not because they are not intelligent, but because their needs have been ignored.
Use that experience to develop a little empathy.
If you feel inferior, cloggy, that is your issue to deal with.