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Why speechless? Rick was never against SL. nor Cloggy, nor me.
Fuzzy
You? You described sign language in negative way at some threads.
Why speechless? Rick was never against SL. nor Cloggy, nor me.
Fuzzy
This is actually the area where I WISH pro oralists would realize that they need to collaborate with TC programs so that dhh kids can get the benifit of a full toolbox. It's a good idea to look into the private oral programs to supplement the speech therapy offered by TC programs. The good/talented oral therapists tend to be attracted towards the private programs b/c they pay more.Also are either or both of your children receiving spoken language therapy?
You? You described sign language in negative way at some threads.
Oh for crying out loud Liebling - you don't understand half of what I write,
so back off. is it now your life mission to follow and bother me everywhere I go regardless of what you understand?
No, I am not only one who see your post different.
Ever since I came to Alldeaf I advocated both SL and hearing world.
If you are interesting to both deaf and hearing world then share cons/pros in positive way.
pay attention to my posts, ask people to translate them into ASL for you and then you will be clear on my stance.
Accord AllDeaf forum Rule:
10.) No enticing or provoking other members to cause them to get into trouble.
Just because I said "parents doesn't have to learn SL" doesn't make it negative. Only in your head.
We are total speechless over your comment because it's a misleading and negative which it should not be. We want hearing posters know that SL is mainly important..
Good grief, think before you attack me.
Attack? No, but correct your misleading and negative post.
Anyway back to topic.
Why speechless? Rick was never against SL. nor Cloggy, nor me.
Fuzzy
Rick said:What ever you do, do not stop using sign with your children."
Audiofuzzy said:They don't have to sign to raise Lotte a happy, confident child,
Cloggy said:She's right... we don't (any more) We only use it when her CI is off
Cloggy said:"Why does she need sign-language".?
Audiofuzzy said:I for one don't think a hearing parent is REQUIRED to learn sign language.
Audiofuzzy said:Hearing parents does not have to sign They can use gestures invented by and comprehensible for both the child and the parent. They can draw pictures, they can write if the child is old enough to read, they can speak directly into their ear if possible, they can speak with careful lip movement. That's for starters
Audiofuzzy said:How in the world did all of you deaf who'se hearing parents never signed communicated with them, then? judging by your opinions, it wasn't even possible. One can only wonder how did you got raised up into successful adults?
Audiofuzzy said:do you want loving father who don't sign, or bad father who sign?
Audiofuzzy said:You would preffer an signing azz for a father instead of loving non-signing?
grr I was trying to edit but time-up anyways I forgot to add after " This is why Cheri was speechless ".. because it shows that Rick support sign language 100%! "
Remember that not using sign language does not mean signlanguage is not considered valuable.grr I was trying to edit but time-up anyways I forgot to add after " This is why Cheri was speechless ".. because it shows that Rick support sign language 100%! "
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This is why I, and I feel also Rick, Audiofuzzy, Neecy and other, can say something like that, but still believe sign is valuable.
Signlanguage is so "sacret" here, that any statement that can be interpreted in a negative way will be used to slap the posted on the ears.... Starting an avalanche of misinterpretation.??
So go ove the list of statements again, and tell me....
..... do these statements say that sign-language is not valuable ??
See? I am not only one who see Fuzzy's negative posts over sign language...
It's mature way to postive her misleading and negative posts without insult/bash/attack her.
Who Else Uses Sign Language?
It is not just deaf and hard of hearing children who use sign language. Another large segment of sign language users is hearing nonverbal children who are nonverbal due to conditions such as down syndrome, autism, cerebral palsy, trauma, and brain disorders or speech disorders. For parents, sign language provides a means of quick communication, particularly for those whose attention spans may be very short or language very limited. Or it may be a tool for language development prior to developing spoken language. For children, it is a means of expressing themselves so that they are less frustrated.
What ever you do, do not stop using sign with your children. Likewise, why would you stop using the ci for son? Also are either or both of your children receiving spoken language therapy? Your questions are really personal ones that you and your husband are going to have to resolve.
Good luck,
Rick
Why speechless? Rick was never against SL. nor Cloggy, nor me.
Fuzzy
You? You described sign language in negative way at some threads.
Remember that not using sign language does not mean signlanguage is not considered valuable.
I speak for myself when I say that I find signlanguage beautiful, intreaging, convenient etc, BUT I don't use it any more. It is a language that is used so little that it fades away. The basic stays behind....
So when someone says "there is no need for sign", it means just that. The automatic conclusion that it means "sign is not valuable" is completely wrong.
This is why I, and I feel also Rick, Audiofuzzy, Neecy and other, can say something like that, but still believe sign is valuable.
Signlanguage is so "sacret" here, that any statement that can be interpreted in a negative way will be used to slap the posted on the ears.... Starting an avalanche of misinterpretation.
If it is considered to be a valuable tool, then one also includes it. Once only ceases to include the use of sign with a deaf child, when one decides it is no longer valuable. Perhaps you don't see the circular track your reasoning takes. Nor, obviously, do you see the ironly of a poster who has never used sign, never learned sign, and still does not know sign, nor use it with his own CI implanted daughter at this point in time, or any point in time, suddenly advocating for the use of sign. Particularly in light of the fact that he made a direct statement reagrding those who raised their children with the use of sign as taking "the easy way out".