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Whatdidyousay, seek treatments now. I went out with someone whose father is similar to yours. She is hearing and healthy, but she still manages to find fault. Being deaf or hard-of-hearing has nothing to do with your abuser. People who are abusers will carry out their misintentions on others whether they like it or not.
Case in point? I would hate to shun my grandmother at this point, but she used to treat all seven of her children like scums out of relitation since she was expecting my grandfather to die in the War. She continued this cycle of abuse with all of her grandchildren. It didn't matter if they were white or native, boy or girl, sighted or seeing or anything of the sort. She was notorious for using what she saw as flaws against her own children. Thank God, I have no recollections of her.
I doubt getting a divorce or the death of her husband would had helped any of my grandmother's children. She wasn't right in the head.