Reba said:If a person is truly saved, no one, not even the person himself/herself, can "unsave" that person.
Saved people can become backslidden or carnal. They can also have doubts and "feel" unsaved. But they cannot become unsaved.
Does that mean I am still saved even if I don't believe? Or does it mean I wasn't really saved? That is judging deconverted people as "never really saved." Deconverted people like me had real belief that they were saved. Saying that they were not really saved is looking down on and putting down how they truely believed before. Picking out a verse that a god supposely had written is still judging because one has to actively get the verse and show or tell it to people.
Plenty believed so strongly that they never thought they would deconvert. Like those people, you said that you believe that you would never deconvert. People who said that very thing had deconverted. There are plenty of places online with such stories.
There are verses that say it is possible to become unsaved. Here's a Christian reply that says yes it is possible from within. The verse in John says no man can remove a believer from the Father's hand, that's an external influence.
The Christian memeplex has verses like this to make people think that they would never leave Christianity. It is not an unexpected feature of a successful memeplex. Such verses in the bible causes an automatic bias if somebody believes that the bible is true. They would have to believe those verses too. The verses act as a filter to filter out any thoughts about actually deconverting. They block out anything that could threaten the integrity of faith. This meme keeps people under the control of the memeplex by causing them to think that nothing could cause them to lose faith, which causes them to keep filtering what they see in the world to put things into religous terms such as actions by their god or Satan. If it cannot be put into their version of Christian terms, it is ignored.
A preacher told me that some branches of Christianity believe that people cannot become unsaved and other branches believe that people can.