Iam on the same boat as u. I had to leave this thread cuz it was
me off too!
All my life I grew up around hearing people (yes I grew up mainstreamed oral) and had encountered people who say stuff like "God loves you and he is sorry for making you deaf." With that and other factors, it made me feel very ashamed of my deafness and as a result, my self -esteem shot down so I grew up struggling with my identity. I wanted so badly to be hearing cuz everyone expected that from me. By going to Gallaudet, I finally accepted my own deafness but thanks to people who equate deafness as a bad thing, I grew up believing that there was something seriously wrong with me. Looking back, it was all those religous fanatics who mostly made those kind of comments. Even one told me that she felt sorry for me for being deaf cuz I couldnt hear music. Stupid Stupid Stupid people :rl: