As far as I've seen Liebling and Cheri had answered that question several times in another CI threads, they said at least the age of 7...They wanted the "child" involved in this decision along with the parents....
Thank you Angel, Unfortunatly I don't have the time to search all of the threads on this message board. The courtesy of a response or a link to the answers is appreciated.
Ok, now assuming the age of 7 is appropriate. I will comment on that. You have a 7 year old profoundly deaf child that has been through maybe 5 years of early elementry school. How much would a hearing kid have learned in that time? How much would a profoundly deaf child have learned in that time? Would their levels of education and knowledge be the same? And in either case, is that enough knowledge to make such a decision. Interesting. Personally, (from my experience with my own children) I don't think a 7 year old has the capacity make a choice that will be in their best interest. At 7 they don't even know what their best interest is. Put yourself in a position of a hearing parent of a profoundly deaf 7 year old child and pose the question. How do you think the conversation will go?
The child would ask questions like what is a CI, what are sounds, what is hearing, what does my best interest mean? The hearing parent will answer those questions to the best of their ability from the perspective of their own lives. My guess is that the end result will be the hearing parent convincing the 7 year old that a CI would be in their best interest. A deaf parent talking to a deaf child may have a totally different outcome. Or not. Take a guy like Fragmenter as a case in point. Lets assume for the sake of argument that the child is not swayed one way or the other becuse of their parents being hearing or deaf and the outcome could go either way.
Ok now the 7 year old child has decided. Regardless of their choice being yes or no to a CI, is this now acceptable to those that say "let the child decide"? If you said yes, please read further to consider another possiblilty to the "let the child decide" scenerao.
I often see the argument over the early stage benefits of hearing as it relates to the pace of a childs education and their ability to achieve in life. It seems to be a point of contention. Some say there are benefits and some say there are not. For the record I am not siding either way. For me the jury on that one is still out.
If there really is no difference in the learning pace and achivement levels of profoundly deaf kids over kids that can hear natuarlly or assisted, then I will jump on the "Let the child decide camp" in a second. I wonder if those that say "Let the child decide" would jump in the "parents choice" camp if they found it to be true that kids that have the capacity to hear do learn faster and achieve more.
Tough questions for me as a parent. Is my kid gonna resent me because I chose a CI for him or is he gonna resent me because I didn't. I will put myslef in my child's shoes just for a minute and try to react to a couple of possible outcomes.
Outcome 1. It's proven there is no overall benefit (educationally, or in general living) to having assisted hearing and my parents chose an implant for me.
I would be resentful if the CI didn't work and it caused me chronic pain, or it kept me from persuing a profession I am interested in because of its existance or if I found out my parents did it for selfish reasons. I would be resentful because my parents could have waited and let me decide for myself.
Outcome 2. It's proven there are overall benefits (educationally and in general living) to having assisted hearing and my parents decided to let me choose (lets say at age 7) and I decided not to get the CI. Or, my parents decided for me to not get the CI.
Once I was old enough to grasp the realities of the decision (I would say between 12 and 16 years old) I would be resentful to them for going with the decision of a 7 year old that doesn't have the education level or world knowledge to make such a decision. I would be resentful to them for the opportunities I had missed out on. I would be resentful for them waiting 7 years to ask me when it's proven that the earlier assisted hearing is implemented the better chances there are for achievement and again resentful for them allowing me (a 7 year old) to make the decision.
Put yourself in the childs shoes in both situations and think hard about how you would respond.