What did you learn today? Part II

I learned that i become addicted to eating the cocoa spiced almonds. :shock: * smoking out of the mouth*
 
I learned that it's better for you to focus on your own happiness than to focus on money... Hey, life is short after all...

Make the best of your life, re-prioritize risks and have adventures. Be spontaneous. Don't feel compelled to settle down and have a family... Your life is about YOU.

Now who wants to go hitchhiking in Europe with me? Wives with a busy schedule or even a single college woman... Are very welcome.
 
Babyblue said:
Oh wow, :shock: How did you find out about it?
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The ex-girlfriend that my ex hubby broke up with over Thanksgiving weekend told me that her oldest daughter is my ex hubby's biological daughter So, that means they were involved back in 1998 before we moved to MD. She said yes for one year. I told her that she was wrong for being involved with a married man and that karma got back to her with him cheating on her and then breaking up with her over Thanksgiving weekend. Karma is a bitch. Wow.
 
shel90 said:
The ex-girlfriend that my ex hubby broke up with over Thanksgiving weekend told me that her oldest daughter is my ex hubby's biological daughter So, that means they were involved back in 1998 before we moved to MD. She said yes for one year. I told her that she was wrong for being involved with a married man and that karma got back to her with him cheating on her and then breaking up with her over Thanksgiving weekend. Karma is a bitch. Wow.
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I wouldn't trust her words... DNA test?
 
Wow, Shel, and all of you who have these unexpected half-siblings or unknown children of your spouses/ex-spouses show up. What a challenge to process that info.

It sounds like this girl doesn't live anywhere near you, Shel, is that right? She's in Arizona and you're in MD? But that's the family your daughter has been living with? Ay-yi-yi. Does she happen to like this girl, anyway? I wish you patience and wisdom as you sort out what to do about this, if anything.

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And in other pregnancy news - I just found out I'm going to be a great-aunt once again! The nephew who got married in June has just announced to the whole world, via Facebook of course, that they are expecting. So yay! One more baby to make things for! I am really thrilled for them. They will be fantastic parents, I'm sure.
 
lanapoo said:
I learned that it's better for you to focus on your own happiness than to focus on money... Hey, life is short after all...

Make the best of your life, re-prioritize risks and have adventures. Be spontaneous. Don't feel compelled to settle down and have a family... Your life is about YOU.

Now who wants to go hitchhiking in Europe with me? Wives with a busy schedule or even a single college woman... Are very welcome.
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:wave:

I want!!!!
 
Beach girl said:
Wow, Shel, and all of you who have these unexpected half-siblings or unknown children of your spouses/ex-spouses show up. What a challenge to process that info.

It sounds like this girl doesn't live anywhere near you, Shel, is that right? She's in Arizona and you're in MD? But that's the family your daughter has been living with? Ay-yi-yi. Does she happen to like this girl, anyway? I wish you patience and wisdom as you sort out what to do about this, if anything.

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And in other pregnancy news - I just found out I'm going to be a great-aunt once again! The nephew who got married in June has just announced to the whole world, via Facebook of course, that they are expecting. So yay! One more baby to make things for! I am really thrilled for them. They will be fantastic parents, I'm sure.
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The recent ex girlfriend moved from AZ to MD to be with him 5 years ago with her 3 kids. They all moved back to AZ 2 years ago and were planning on getting married this upcoming March. Then, out of the blue, my ex broke up with her and kicked her and 3 kids out over Thanksgiving weekend in which a new girl with 4 kids moved in that same weekend. Anyways, that recent ex girlfriend is very angry and is telling me all these new shocking information. She is claiming that her 13-year old daughter is the biological daughter of my ex so that means she was also involved with him back in 1998 before my ex and I moved to MD. I had no idea until this week. I am taking everything she says with a grain of salt. However, she told me how he broke up with her. What he said to her and everything is about the same what he said to me and his first post-divorce girlfriend when he broke up with us. Also, this girl told me what he had said about me neglecting our daughter and all that. The exact same lies he told the other ex-girlfriend.

I guess I will have to name them girlfriend #1, girlfriend #2, and girlfriend #3 so everyone can keep track of who I am talking about. Geez...

However, this recent news wasn't upsetting for me because I have moved on from my divorce with him so that just makes me so happy I am not married to him anymore.

BTW..congrats!
 
lanapoo said:
I wouldn't trust her words... DNA test?
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Right..like I told BG...I am taking what she says with a grain of salt. She said she is going to file for child support against him. I say, "help yourself". I feel nothing for her. Just see her as a fool if she got involved with him back in 1998 while we were married and then get involved with him again in 2005 behind girlfriend #1's back. She asked for it. Stupid.
 
shel90 said:
The recent ex girlfriend moved from AZ to MD to be with him 5 years ago with her 3 kids. They all moved back to AZ 2 years ago and were planning on getting married this upcoming March. Then, out of the blue, my ex broke up with her and kicked her and 3 kids out over Thanksgiving weekend in which a new girl with 4 kids moved in that same weekend. Anyways, that recent ex girlfriend is very angry and is telling me all these new shocking information. She is claiming that her 13-year old daughter is the biological daughter of my ex so that means she was also involved with him back in 1998 before my ex and I moved to MD. I had no idea until this week. I am taking everything she says with a grain of salt. However, she told me how he broke up with her. What he said to her and everything is about the same what he said to me and his first post-divorce girlfriend when he broke up with us. Also, this girl told me what he had said about me neglecting our daughter and all that. The exact same lies he told the other ex-girlfriend. I guess I will have to name them girlfriend #1, girlfriend #2, and girlfriend #3 so everyone can keep track of who I am talking about. Geez...

However, this recent news wasn't upsetting for me because I have moved on from my divorce with him so that just makes me so happy I am not married to him anymore.

BTW..congrats!
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Thanks for the congrats! I am so excited and thrilled for them. They will be terrific parents, for sure.

Re: your ex, the Drama King - history just always repeats itself with people who are jerks. People who speak badly about and lie about their exes will do it to the next one, every time.

One of my golden rules when I was dating: I refused to get involved with anyone who seriously bad-mouthed an ex. Those types were just never worth the aggravation.

Sorry you're going through this with him. If the girl really IS his daughter, hope the judge awards child support. Wonder if there are any other little ones out there related to him!
 
Beach girl said:
Thanks for the congrats! I am so excited and thrilled for them. They will be terrific parents, for sure.

Re: your ex, the Drama King - history just always repeats itself with people who are jerks. People who speak badly about and lie about their exes will do it to the next one, every time.

One of my golden rules when I was dating: I refused to get involved with anyone who seriously bad-mouthed an ex. Those types were just never worth the aggravation.

Sorry you're going through this with him. If the girl really IS his daughter, hope the judge awards child support. Wonder if there are any other little ones out there related to him!
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You got a good point about one of your golden rules.

As for other children being related to my daughter, I do wonder about that but important that my daughter has a relationship with my son even if it is long distance. My daughter doesnt know that her former "step-sister" is supposely her blood sister. However, I am not going to share what I just learned with her. Trying to stay out of it as much as I can. All I can say is wow that my ex hubby really has a lot of deep-rooted issues. I am wondering if he has an untreated mental illness.
 
I learned that I brushed my teeth with anti-fungal cream. Gross!!! Not a good way to start off a very busy day. 14 family members on there way for dinner. That's not the "big dinner", that's tomorrow at grandmas. Thank god my husband does all or most of the work. Hoping that my kids will let me take some pictures. 2 out 3 very camera shy. Im feeling a little stressed with all the company. I havent seen some of my brothers and sisters since before i got sick. Head is pounding. Im sure its from stress, or, what I brushed my teeth with. Ha ha Merry Christmas everyone. Hope you have a healthy, happy holiday.
 
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I learned that I brushed my teeth with anti-fungal cream. Gross!!! Not a good way to start off a very busy day. 14 family members on there way for dinner. That's not the "big dinner", that's tomorrow at grandmas. Thank god my husband does all or most of the work. Hoping that my kids will let me take some pictures. 2 out 3 very camera shy. Im feeling a little stressed with all the company. I havent seen some of my brothers and sisters since before i got sick. Head is pounding. Im sure its from stress, or, what I brushed my teeth with. Ha ha Merry Christmas everyone. Hope you have a healthy, happy holiday.
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Oh no! That reminds me of the Orbit comercial. Dirty mouth? He he he
 
I learned that - *gasp* it seems that Cheetah is getting around. (jk) When driving home from the store today, I saw a sign that said "Cheetah's is Now Open for Business!"

So, Cheetah - what kind of business is this? :giggle:
 
KristinaB said:
I learned that - *gasp* it seems that Cheetah is getting around. (jk) When driving home from the store today, I saw a sign that said "Cheetah's is Now Open for Business!"

So, Cheetah - what kind of business is this? :giggle:
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I am so going to sue them!!! That's my name, damnit!!! :shock:

Sigh, I don't share very well.
 
shel90 said:
You got a good point about one of your golden rules.

As for other children being related to my daughter, I do wonder about that but important that my daughter has a relationship with my son even if it is long distance. My daughter doesnt know that her former "step-sister" is supposely her blood sister. However, I am not going to share what I just learned with her. Trying to stay out of it as much as I can. All I can say is wow that my ex hubby really has a lot of deep-rooted issues. I am wondering if he has an untreated mental illness.
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Or even a personality disorder? That was my first thought given all the drama that your hubby gave you.
 
I learned that I hate to be the one to bake sweet potatoes. Or rather, I hate baking them in a way that is messy.
 
Last night, family gathering at the dining table -- since I know it's long overdue for me to ask my mother further question about my father's complicated hearing loss. I was reminded to ask her again about his hearing test in the past and the recent hearing test checkup, and did the doctor ever diagnose my father that he has hearing loss and she said nope. She said that the test result was passed. It happened again, again, again many times in the past hearing test for more than 30 years the result is still the same (passed) and my father has still been complaining that he has difficult listening what the movie at the theater was talking about and in family/friends group he regularly asks my mother to interpret (speaking to him closely) what the others are conversing. I asked my mother what about hearing aids (I asked about that long time ago I acknowledged that they were useless to him as well) and nope not since he did tried to use his ampfilers in his ears...he still does not understand what's being said. Everything is almost useless for him...after the specific questions being answered to me then I made the confirmation to my family that it is strongly possible father has APD or CAPD. Some of my family have no clue what does APD/CAPD stands for. I explained to them fully...then some of them seemed to agree with me father must have it because I learned that APD is difficult to diagnose by a doctor.

My Deaf brother was being an idiot to say that me and him have APD/CAPD too. Born Deaf with nerve damages is different compared to someone who has APD/CAPD in the later life. *smh* at him.
 
I learned that hubby is planning on buying a boat with some of the loan money. He's also planning on telling his mother a falsehood about it. I told him, I did not want to know and if she asked or found out, that he was to make sure she understood that I was NOT a part of it.
 
shel90 said:
Nope...and neither does the other girl. At this point, my mind refuses to process this new information. I think I have been through too much drama involving my ex hubby that I just cant take it anymore.

And think about it...my daughter is 14. This girl is 13.

Yep, figure it out. Just wow...
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Well, that reminds me of Arnold Schwarzenegger's youngest son and his mistress's secret child...same age.
 
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