saxxykitty78
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hm.. okay I don't really care about marriage and all but I'm just living my life to the fullest at this moment 
Wanna get married?
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Yes, that´s right.
Everything will go to the parents of unmarried partners as next kin automatic when one of partners died. If unmarried couple together has a child then everything is still go to the parents of unmarried partner until a child is 18 years old.
If couple who don´t want to get married then check with lawyer or Notary about legal. Important to do Will with Notary or Lawyer to be safety. Yes I know that there´re cons and pros about unmarried and married couple but the legal about unmarried is bit worst.
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No, it´s not myth. I would suggest you to check with Notary.
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my bro in law told me this.. i was like thats interesting..
i thought if i died.. the father will get custody of TJ.. but no.. my mom will cuz she is the next kin.. the father doesnt? .. but shes not fit to take care of TJ.. so i better have will drawn up in case i died.. so father will get custody of TJ.. but right now he have temp custody of TJ but i am trying to get TJ back..
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I can understand the trust issue... I had that problem with my ex husband. He didn't trust me and it was obvious during our divorce because when we went in front of the judge, I told him I wanted nothing from my ex. He thought I would ask for money like alimony.. but I didn't because I knew he didn't have the money.. so i just asked for a clean break, ya know?
Not everyone is as willing to make a clean break.. and I feel that everyone should make a clean break of divorces. I don't believe alimony should even exist.. but that's just my opinion.
Not everyone is as willing to make a clean break.. and I feel that everyone should make a clean break of divorces. I don't believe alimony should even exist.. but that's just my opinion.
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Biological parents always get first unless court deem biological parent unfit,then they would look for next kin. And that grandma falls on it.
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Right! Why pay so much money on wedding/repections then honeymoon etc Also wife have to change new DL, SSN card, etc...waste of time to me. And if marriage isn't work out, end up diorvoce and cost more money. Forget it!
Just be with GF/BF, BF/BF or GF/GF if relationship isn't work out, then is there any cost? Nope! Only if you both own house, sell it and split in hlaf.
Yeah.. it is cheap to get married but expensive to get divorce...thats old sayings...
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i think getting married is expensive than get a divorce.. it can go over 2 thousand dollars.. on receptions, wedding gown, tuxedos, rehearsal dinners, and so on..of course for a fancy wedding.. whereas the divorce only cost 500 dollars to 1,000 dollars.. thats it? hmm..
but if it come to simple wedding.. then its different story.. prolly cheaper than the divorce then.. ha.. i guess it depend on people's choices? heh
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Right! Why pay so much money on wedding/repections then honeymoon etc Also wife have to change new DL, SSN card, etc...waste of time to me. And if marriage isn't work out, end up diorvoce and cost more money. Forget it!
Just be with GF/BF, BF/BF or GF/GF if relationship isn't work out, then is there any cost? Nope! Only if you both own house, sell it and split in hlaf.
don't have to spend honeymoon, and other stuff on wedding. Can have simple marriage, if spouse agree.
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Smiley.. My wedding cost 6,000 dollars.. My divorce cost 60 dollars.. Umm... I'd say divorce is cheaper than weddings 
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Well, I do believe in marriage, but divorce ? That depends on in the long run if, both husband and wife works it out by givin' some compromises to each other. One can't have everythin'. Share is somethin' that needs to be workin' on and also, trust via communication. I know sometimes, bein' a single is awesome, but sometimes a person needs some affectionate, too such as kissin', holdin' hands, huggin' and all that ( not to mention about " bedroom " 
I will put that away in the drawer. )
It is a wise to wait a little bit longer before you can move on to a " marriage " issue. Get to know each other really good first before both of couple can make up their minds what their hearts tell them.
I will put that away in the drawer. ) It is a wise to wait a little bit longer before you can move on to a " marriage " issue. Get to know each other really good first before both of couple can make up their minds what their hearts tell them.
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You forgot something....honeymoon too. (sometime it is a gift from parents/family, sometimes you pay yourself for the trip)
Anyway also you forgot important thing...if couple is getting divorce and have kids..it'll cost WAY more than the wedding worth!!!
Some couple do agree to share custosy, some agree have visit right, etc. It'll be less headahce than fight in the court and it cost alot of money.
Anyway also you forgot important thing...if couple is getting divorce and have kids..it'll cost WAY more than the wedding worth!!!
Some couple do agree to share custosy, some agree have visit right, etc. It'll be less headahce than fight in the court and it cost alot of money.
i think getting married is expensive than get a divorce.. it can go over 2 thousand dollars.. on receptions, wedding gown, tuxedos, rehearsal dinners, and so on..of course for a fancy wedding.. whereas the divorce only cost 500 dollars to 1,000 dollars.. thats it? hmm..
but if it come to simple wedding.. then its different story.. prolly cheaper than the divorce then.. ha.. i guess it depend on people's choices? heh
Not true, If the mother raise the child has custody, herself and the father isn't in the picture the mother has the right to place the child anywhere she wants the child to go to when she dies, It has to be on a living will.
When I die, my boys are not going to their father, They're going to my family.
No it does not, Both of my sisters are divorce with kids, it cost less in divorce than it is to be married.
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ONLY IF couple are battle for KIDS, then it will be a long run who win the custody of kids! That invovle a lot of money. If the couple agreed in many ways without battle/fight, it will go smooth!
My friend tried to get her boys back but lost and gave them up to her parent to raise them. And she said cost WAY a lot than her divorce!! WHY? Her ex refused to have the boys to stay with their mom!!!
My friend tried to get her boys back but lost and gave them up to her parent to raise them. And she said cost WAY a lot than her divorce!! WHY? Her ex refused to have the boys to stay with their mom!!!
Well, Sorry to burst your bubbles here, You think my sister and her ex husband did not battle over the kids? They fought right and left, and my sister won.
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It is DEPEND on who. I am not speaking of your sister. IN general! My friend lost a lot of money because of it. And she decided to give up her boys to her parent. Of course boys know that. And they do keep in touch and visit. Now they are almost grown up and going to college. Now she only have one left, a girl (different father). She told me nasty stories and I was like uuugghhh. I felt so sorry for her.
I am speaking of in GENERAL. I know not all cases are same..all are different.
I am speaking of in GENERAL. I know not all cases are same..all are different.
Well, Sorry to burst your bubbles here, You think my sister and her ex husband did not battle over the kids? They fought right and left, and my sister won.
You should had stated that right at the begin, Instead you jumped right on SmileyGin, when she is speaking the truth that it does happen in some cases when you said it doesn't. Now it depends on each person, on their case and their reasons beyond it all.
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