Wanna get married?

..and women are jerks in relationships too. :roll:
 
im tell you that dating online is jerks! and i got break-up with my ex-boyfriend current and im now dating with my new boyfriend his name is John Anderson but i told my mom i wanted to dating with that man!

so im been dating with my 3rd ex-boyfriend who lived in MS and he and me been argue on the e-mail and chat online but he and me to plans to break-up on the relationship and dont talk him anymore.

after im date with my 3rd boyfriend so my mom got idea from called deafs but i told my mom i wont wanted that shit from deafs! and i got unregister from deafs its my decision to chose whatever what i wanted right for me to chose man than my mom's advices!

my mom says dont care what i wanted it to date older man because he is 38 years old but im 25 years old that fair but i told my mom that fair she did dating my dad longtime ago and my dad is older than my mom! they later my step-dad older than my mom i wanted older man like my dad and my step-dad i wanted it i wont wanted my mom's help! i wanted handle myself!
 
its ok to be scared.. but u have to be careful.. thats all.. just take your time and go slow.... :)

just dont rush.. thats all :)
 
My husband was divorced and I was also. We met each other and we were just friend in few days. Then we become sweetheart. We didnt want get marry again because of divorce issue. We agreed that we can live together and see if we can handle or not. We got so good along together and had no problem. My husband was ready to ask me to marry him. We got married then our 1 year were so bad because of my job and our personal problem. I worked at night and he worked at day time. our marriage turned so hard for us. I had to quit then our marriage turn smooth. Now we are married for 10 years but we are together for 12 years. We love being married! Bad and Good time in our marriage but we never let our love get hurt.

We didnt rush to get married but our first year anniversary turned so bad. huh? but we were stuck together no matter what if bad time. Our love are very strong.
 
LakeTahoe said:
Marriage is PIECE OF PAPER!!!!! You need to WORK harder to keep marriage alive.
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So is a HIGH SCHOOL DIMPLOMA A Piece of paper.But you cant get a GOOD JOB Without an HIGH SCHOOL DIMPLOMA. But a Marrage certificate can allow you keep some of your money from the IRS.
 
ghsh1996 said:
My husband was divorced and I was also. We met each other and we were just friend in few days. Then we become sweetheart. We didnt want get marry again because of divorce issue. We agreed that we can live together and see if we can handle or not. We got so good along together and had no problem. My husband was ready to ask me to marry him. We got married then our 1 year were so bad because of my job and our personal problem. I worked at night and he worked at day time. our marriage turned so hard for us. I had to quit then our marriage turn smooth. Now we are married for 10 years but we are together for 12 years. We love being married! Bad and Good time in our marriage but we never let our love get hurt.

We didnt rush to get married but our first year anniversary turned so bad. huh? but we were stuck together no matter what if bad time. Our love are very strong.
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Yeah.. I know what you mean... I married to a hearing guy and was married to him for 10 yrs before he passed away in my arm due to lung cancer... the marriage was not easy but we were in very much love and lots of compromises.. it worked,,, I miss him..
SxyPorkie
 
Buckdodgers said:
So is a HIGH SCHOOL DIMPLOMA A Piece of paper.But you cant get a GOOD JOB Without an HIGH SCHOOL DIMPLOMA. But a Marrage certificate can allow you keep some of your money from the IRS.
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You make an excellent point.

My sister is currently divorcing her husband of 5 yrs. He doesn't have a diploma OR a GED (WHY sis married this clod is another story, rmfe... *ahem*).

Anyway, what you say is kinda true. My sister was the one in the marriage with the better education. She was/is the one that held down a fulltime job and provided the family with benefits. NOT HIM. Not that she has kicked his sorry butt to the curb, he's whining about this and that. Her atitude is sorry, but GET A JOB!

At to your second point, that is ALSO true. For that, I cite Sir Paul McCartney. He is currently divorcing his second wife. It came out that a Pre-nup was NOT signed before they were married. I believe his status in England will probably get him out of the trick bag on this, but, it reeks of stupidty, imo.

If you're going to be with someone, make sure you've signed legal papers to protect your assets. You may think you're living happily ever after, but reality can and does come along to bite you on the behind.
 
Not every state serves prenuptional agreement.Like California,Masseschutes,Vermont,Rhode Island,New Jersey, Minnesota and Illnois doesnt have a prenuptional agreement law.So if youre gonna protect youeself in money dont live in California,Masseschutes,Vermont,Rhode Island,New Jersey, Minnesota and Illnois.
 
Buckdodgers said:
Not every state serves prenuptional agreement.Like California,Masseschutes,Vermont,Rhode Island,New Jersey, Minnesota and Illnois doesnt have a prenuptional agreement law.So if youre gonna protect youeself in money dont live in California,Masseschutes,Vermont,Rhode Island,New Jersey, Minnesota and Illnois.
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Or, do something else. I am unfamiliar with prenuptial agreements, so I don't know which states do and don't have them. I just think it's stupid for someone with substantial assets to risk it all like that. There's got to be ways to protect yourself; even when certain states don't have pre-nups.

I'm wondering if they have such a thing, and they just don't call it a "prenuptial agreement".

It just seems ludicrous to me that the wealthy would not protect themselves in some manner.
 
Oceanbreeze said:
Or, do something else. I am unfamiliar with prenuptial agreements, so I don't know which states do and don't have them. I just think it's stupid for someone with substantial assets to risk it all like that. There's got to be ways to protect yourself; even when certain states don't have pre-nups.

I'm wondering if they have such a thing, and they just don't call it a "prenuptial agreement".

It just seems ludicrous to me that the wealthy would not protect themselves in some manner.
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Cause the Wealthy rather tie things up in courts hire lawyers for media coverage.
 
Buckdodgers said:
Cause the Wealthy rather tie things up in courts hire lawyers for media coverage.
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Celebrities do, but I wasn't referencing just celebrities. I was also referring to people who have wealth, but aren't celebrities. Business people, for instance.

But, you're right. It's very common for celebrities to hire lawyers for the purpose of PR.
 
SxyPorkie said:
Yeah.. I know what you mean... I married to a hearing guy and was married to him for 10 yrs before he passed away in my arm due to lung cancer... the marriage was not easy but we were in very much love and lots of compromises.. it worked,,, I miss him..
SxyPorkie
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Sigh I am sorry about your husband. Are you remarried or what?
 
I believe in Marriage. All you need is faith.

I don't really want to get marry because it is
a lot of responsibility.

I have not met a man who I want to be marry to
and I don't trust him with my life...
if I end up at the hospital and if doctor ask him permission...
he might make the wrong decision on me.

So I just gonna stay with my momma... because
I trust her.

If I meet the man who is very mature and love me...
and I learn from him about maturity...

Then I will marry him.

I kinda like to marry a Christian man, because
it would be like he sacrifice himself and commit
to Jesus Christ...
If he can commit himself to Jesus... then
I believe he can commit to marriage long time too.
 
If a man asked me to sign paper so that he can protect his asset,
then I won't marry him, because it is like he doesn't trust me...

So why I need to marry somebody like that that don't have
that much faith in me.
 
ghsh1996 said:
Sigh I am sorry about your husband. Are you remarried or what?
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No i did not remarry.. even tho i did dated few guys... it did not work,,, my heart still belongs to my late husband...
SxyPorkie
 
The*Empress said:
I believe in Marriage. All you need is faith.

I don't really want to get marry because it is
a lot of responsibility.

I have not met a man who I want to be marry to
and I don't trust him with my life...
if I end up at the hospital and if doctor ask him permission...
he might make the wrong decision on me.

So I just gonna stay with my momma... because
I trust her.

If I meet the man who is very mature and love me...
and I learn from him about maturity...

Then I will marry him.

I kinda like to marry a Christian man, because
it would be like he sacrifice himself and commit
to Jesus Christ...
If he can commit himself to Jesus... then
I believe he can commit to marriage long time too.
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That's a piece of Widsom here (plus "trust" issue, too)
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