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Hi SteelX & fei ku,
Have you read my apology response post to Taylor?
Have you read my apology response post to Taylor?
This is not something I normally suggest because I am always open to discussion on important issues. I do feel that this thread (and another related one) have run their course. It was an excellent discussion that was very indepth but did not get too heated. One of my pet peeves is when a good discussion gets trashed and then the thread locked and then deleted.
I think EVERYONE, including myself, have learned some very important lessons here. There is still plenty to be discussed about the issue of child predators, but I think this particular incident has run its course. I don't know if others would agree but its probably time that it were locked (but not deleted).
There is enough information here about warning signs, and how predators work, etc. This thread will make a great reference but I do not know what more can be contributed on the nature of Steve and this girl.
But as I have said once that I strongly recommend Alex to remove two forums, The Closet and Penisarium because it's a great bait to draw in peodiples and crooks. It leaves more serious and sticky situation(s) being exposed to.
Anyway, kid...you are still a kid! 14 years of age and still in high school
May I say something?
Please don't label 2hot4you as "kid". She is not longer a young child but teenager or young adult.
A lot of teenagers don't like to hear the word "kid" because they are not young children but teenage or young adult.
I respectfully disagree.
This wasn't the typical drama that we usually see. The overall topic of internet safety needs to dealt with openly.
I just think it's sad that it took something of this magnitude for it to be brought to light.
I actually hope the thread remains open, so that people can express their views as they see fit.
We can ALL learn from what has transpired in these recent days/weeks.
What does the Penisarium forum has to do with pedophiles? That forum is private and only allowing those who are above the age of 18 and is a member of AD to enter. Alex would not even allowed child pornographic in his site anyway. So it would not even draw attention to pedophiles to begin with.
And the Closet forum is a place where lesbians and gay can discuss their lifestyle and that too does not even draw attention to pedophiles either.
I just learned about this sicko guy, Buckdodgers being ousted and prohbitted as alldeaf member. Good job, Alex!
But as I have said once that I strongly recommend Alex to remove two forums, The Closet and Penisarium because it's a great bait to draw in peodiples and crooks. It leaves more serious and sticky situation(s) being exposed to.
And that they shouldn't belong to the ALLDeaf forum where many kids, parents, students, deafies, elders, and more who knows how many that are into this forum. That is darn bad idea on his part to allow these two "xxx" forums in this kind of community.
I wasn't surprised where Buckdodgers and the likes came in and drooled over teens. It caused problems and stuff that we many don't enjoy read. I never take a look at these two forums, The closet and Penisarium - to dirty and cheap for me and same for many out there, I assume.
I really hope that it makes Alex and others to think seriously more on these problems having these two forums continuing on and risking any more on our children and especially the morality of this community members. It ain't worth it!
May I say something?
Please don't label 2hot4you as "kid". She is not longer a young child but teenager or young adult.
A lot of teenagers don't like to hear the word "kid" because they are not young children but teenage or young adult.
Uh, Liebling she is a kid.
She dealt with this issue in a mature manner for her age, but she's still a kid. She will remain so until she's 18.
Uh, Liebling she is a kid.
She dealt with this issue in a mature manner for her age, but she's still a kid. She will remain so until she's 18.
My older son is teenager 15 yrs old... he hate hearing word "KID label"
Prefer proprite word "Teenager" because suitable wording..
12 to 18 yrs old label is Teenager because mostly popluar word label..
11 to 12 yrs old as label word "Pre-teenager" Mostly I used say teenager
My last son is kid because he's 10 yrs old.. not even become teenager yet.
If you calling person ohh you're just KID.. The person would feel am I kid? Hell no *screaming you back* I'm frig'gn not KID.. I'm teenager.. How do you feel ?
Proprite word..
Careful with teenagers' feelings!
My older son is teenager 15 yrs old... he hate hearing word "KID label"
Prefer proprite word "Teenager" because suitable wording..
12 to 18 yrs old label is Teenager because mostly popluar word label..
11 to 12 yrs old as label word "Pre-teenager" Mostly I used say teenager
My last son is kid because he's 10 yrs old.. not even become teenager yet.
If you calling person ohh you're just KID.. The person would feel am I kid? Hell no *screaming you back* I'm frig'gn not KID.. I'm teenager.. How do you feel ?
Proprite word..
Careful with teenagers' feelings!
The way I was raised you're a kid until your 18th birthday. Since it boils down to differing opinions, I'm not going to bother arguing the point with anyone in this thread. It's way off the point, and just sends us down a road we don't need to go. If anyone has an issue with me about this can take it up with me in PM. Otherwise, please just kindly let it go. It's not worth getting all in a twist over.
Nope, the teenagers would feel being imaturity if you carry on treat them like young child. I feel bad for teenagers if their parents see them as kid or young child and treat them as kid or young child.
I consider 2hot4you as teenager or young adult, not kid or young child.
I´m mother of teenagers and know how to deal with teenagers, not you...
I disagree. Anyone under 18 is still a CHILD.