aren't there actual diseases and other health crises that money could be spent on?
Yes, I wish there is a cure for Alzheimer's as I think it is one of the worst diseases to have.
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aren't there actual diseases and other health crises that money could be spent on?
The world is changing. We are moving away from mechanical work and 'hard skills' to brain work and 'soft skills'. There are both good and bad things related to that, but 'being tough' is becoming outdated.
Yes, I wish there is a cure for Alzheimer's as I think it is one of the worst diseases to have.
Oh...so that gives a good excuse for the next generation to be weak and not accepting of their own fate? Just whine and play the blame game? Now, I know where my children are going wrong. I will enforce this "tough love" on them so they wont become soft and whiny as adults.
While I am certainly sympathetic to your struggles, your notion that being tough is becoming outdated in relation to manual labour- were you joking or were you interpreting that literally?
We are not talking about physical strength - we are talking about development of mental and spiritual strength that comes from enduring hard times in our lives.
I certainly believe you when you say you've had hard times and that dealing with deafness can seem like an olympic feat at times but I do notice your attitude needs some adjustment if you want to be a happier person. but having read many of your posts, I can see you are already changing your attitude for the better now that you've come here, see what others had to say and realize you are not alone.
So, I have faith that you will change some perspectives for the better and for your own good.
Welcome to AD, I think you've been officially initiated.
Go ahead, but do it the right way.
I came to think of Michael Jackson's dad Joseph who was 'tough' but that made Michael develop a sense of insecurity (Joseph did it because he wanted the family to escape poverty). Even though Michael earned a huge fortune as a star, his strange personality became a trap that he did never manage to get out of. It is like a Greek tragedy.
Perhaps I was thinking that definitions are changing as society changes. Violence is less common in society today than it was in the past for a number of reasons. Take a look at this video (Steven Pinker on the myth of violence | Video on TED.com) where Steven Pinker says that violence is decreasing and it is a trend that goes back all the way since fixed settlements first developed 10,000-20,000 years ago. Pinker points out four reasons for that development: No. 1 [12:38-14:12], no. 2 [14:15-14:45], no. 3 [14:45-15:40] and no. 4 [15:45-16:36]. (There are subtitles)
No. 2 is that people get physically injured less often and enjoy better health care in life. I was thinking that the use of safer tools and shift towards 'brain work' are examples of this. 'Being tough' due to physical injury is more uncommon and hence less acceptable, and that was my interpretation.
'Mental and spiritual strength' might belong to reasons no. 1 (violence as a deterrent is decreasing), 3 (nonzero-sum games) and 4 (the Expanding Circle), I reckon.
Thanks.
Yes, I wish there is a cure for Alzheimer's as I think it is one of the worst diseases to have.
Not in this country.
Yes, exactly!!!!! What they should have done with you HH scienctist is not only given you spoken English, and stuff like that, but also things like exposure to other dhh kids and attendance at a Deaf Unit...If they had, i can guantee you that you would NOT be looking for a cure. You'd be up here horrified that people were looking for a cure.
They need to concentrate their research into things like Alzhiemers/bipolar/scheizophernia etc....REAL stuff that REALLY honestly affects people!
Perhaps I was thinking that definitions are changing as society changes. Violence is less common in society today than it was in the past for a number of reasons. Take a look at this video (Steven Pinker on the myth of violence | Video on TED.com) where Steven Pinker says that violence is decreasing and it is a trend that goes back all the way since fixed settlements first developed 10,000-20,000 years ago. Pinker points out four reasons for that development: No. 1 [12:38-14:12], no. 2 [14:15-14:45], no. 3 [14:45-15:40] and no. 4 [15:45-16:36]. (There are subtitles)
No. 2 is that people get physically injured less often and enjoy better health care in life. I was thinking that the use of safer tools and shift towards 'brain work' are examples of this. 'Being tough' due to physical injury is more uncommon and hence less acceptable, and that was my interpretation.
'Mental and spiritual strength' might belong to reasons no. 1 (violence as a deterrent is decreasing), 3 (nonzero-sum games) and 4 (the Expanding Circle), I reckon.
I think that you are trying to say that people develop strong bonds for each other when in case of disease, disability or injury. Those feelings are hardwired in our brains and they come naturally. But I also think that they emerge as a response to coping to a situation that people cannot change, which they think of as 'natural'.
Compare that attitude to those diseases that we have managed to reduce or eradicate. No one would say today that we should bring back those diseases (mainly infectious diseases and parasites) from the past. Even though people with such diseases were cured later on or simply avoided getting them, neither the patients nor those who were caretakers ever expressed any wish to change it.
Caring for people and developing feelings for them is the right thing to do. But I don't see what is right in saying that some disease/injury/condition should remain because it is 'natural' somehow.
You're seeing it as a pathology. Deafness isn't bad or good. It just is. It's like being gay. Being gay isn't bad or good. It just IS. You're thinking of being without hearing as something that's pathological. Yet we can adapt to and live without it. It doesn't cause pain or anything like that. Sure we don't have the abilty to hear....but we can process things visually. It's just like the way blind/low vision people can't see, but they can process things aurally. See now?
I think that you are trying to say that people develop strong bonds for each other when in case of disease, disability or injury. Those feelings are hardwired in our brains and they come naturally. But I also think that they emerge as a response to coping to a situation that people cannot change, which they think of as 'natural'.
Compare that attitude to those diseases that we have managed to reduce or eradicate. No one would say today that we should bring back those diseases (mainly infectious diseases and parasites) from the past. Even though people with such diseases were cured later on or simply avoided getting them, neither the patients nor those who were caretakers ever expressed any wish to change it.
Caring for people and developing feelings for them is the right thing to do. But I don't see what is right in saying that some disease/injury/condition should remain because it is 'natural' somehow.
He is a scientist. He is trained to logically categorize things. I wouldn't be surprised if this encourages seeing deafness/hoh as a pathology.
Why doesn't he see that a person with all working parts but doesn't sign as pathology? Oh, it is the hearing society teaching us that there is nothing wrong with NOT signing. That is why I am very impressed with hearing people who sign and also accept us the way we are because it takes alot of guts and hard work to learn a language that many tend to look down on.
Sorry, I should have known.
Why doesn't he see that a person with all working parts but doesn't sign as pathology? Oh, it is the hearing society teaching us that there is nothing wrong with NOT signing. That is why I am very impressed with hearing people who sign and also accept us the way we are because it takes alot of guts and hard work to learn a language that many tend to look down on.
This thread is AWESOME!!!!!! You know in the early 70's I bet there were simlair conversations and dialoges with the Mattiechine Society and Daughters of Bilitas.
Just out of curiosity, what are the Mattienchine society and the Daughters of Bilitas? Just a question from a ignorant deafie. :Oops:
Just out of curiosity, what are the Mattienchine society and the Daughters of Bilitas? Just a question from a ignorant deafie. :Oops: