AMEN!!!! That is exact what I mean when I post in other thread, one of 13 yrs old asking for advise on getting cell phone. I am sorry, I am opposed having kids gettinc cell phone, all schools are required to have access to telephone so whats point of having cell phone? For emergencies? Oh come on! Schools usually have nurses and access to telephone. Need cell for emergencies is LAME excuses! PLUS for the last 150 years, no one has cell phone, did they have problems? Of course not! so whats difference for today?
Well, I am for a 13 years old getting a cell phone. I would give mine one (If I had a 13-year-old child/teenager), but it would be severely limited, and the reason I would be allowing my 13 year old to have one is so that she or he would have one on hand in case of a severe emergency such as a school shooting (they have been happening a bit often lately in the last 10-15 years, and it frightens the hell out of me) or a car accident or something very serious, especially since I am deaf and that would be the best way to contact me is by texting or emailing me on the cell phone. My 13 years old will only be allowed to text me and my future husband, and immediate family members. Voice cell phone calls will be allowed to only 911 (after she has been severely warned that prank 911 calls will NOT be allowed, and will result in severe privilege loss of her or his cell phone usage amount and total temporary loss of other possessions such as her or his MP3 player or the TV or the stereo or other electronics and the like) and 4 or 5 closest friends that I have approved of in advance (have actually met them and their parents). All emails will be allowed to only all her friends that are girls only if she is a girl, and to boys only if he is a boy. Recently I saw a TV commercial on TV where the parents gets to control the amount of usage of voice calls, texting, and emailing and other data depending on how they feel their teenager is doing or behaving. She will still be too young for AIM, MSN, Yahoo, and other instant messenger programs that comes with many cell phones such as the SideKick. Besides, since she is only 13 years old, her cell phone won't be a SideKick or a BlackBerry or such similar phones. It will just be a simple flip-down cell phone with texting and emailing and voice capabilities. She is too young to have all the extra other stuff. Cell phone usage will be a privilege, not a right, and I will tell her or him that. Her or his cell phone usage will be heavily monitored. If I find out that my 13 year old has been using her or his phone to cheat or to help others cheat on tests in school, her or his cell phone using will be immediately and severely reduced to only contact with 911, and with both parents only (for emergency purposes only), and NO ONE ELSE for a VERY LONG TIME.
Actually, my child WILL be getting a simple cell phone with voice, texting and emailing capabilities with a flat rate/unlimited data once she or he enters middle or junior high school due to my worry of school shootings (they seem to happen pretty much only in middle/junior high and high schools, and about a year ago or so, a college, I don't remember any happening in elementary school except for that Amish school shooting). I want my child to be able to whip out her or his phone out of her or his pocket and dial 911 quickly and report the shooting, and then text or email me and I will get my ass in the car and race over to the school and wait there for the police, FBI, and the SWAT teams to bring the children to safety.