I noticed that too. A LOT of it, does seem to be connected with having "designer" high acheiver kids. They buy into (admittly biased) marketing of oral only as being for high acheiver types. Like the unspoken message is that if the parent choses oral only, the kids will be fluent in seven languages (the kid from the 60's or 70's who spoke seven languages) or who will be otherwise "high acheieving"But you know, it is usually the upper SES that insists on strict oral only environments and demand strict oral only performance from their kids. I have my theories on the reason for this, but nothing that has been researched
There's no mention of the possibilty that the kid will have some spoken language skills, but not have a complete mastery of speech.
Like Oticon's booklet on methodolgy says that its VERY common for oral only dhh kids to say stuff like "How many spiders have legs?" for "how many legs do spiders have?"
Rick, you don't understand..........NONE of us are anti oral skills. We just think that pro-oral people should be more open to Sign as a possible helpful tool, that could REALLY help dhh kids.
I know SO many exoral kids who say they wish they'd learned Sign early on.
Why do pro oral-onliers insist that oral skills be the be all and end all of a dhh kids' existance? Why should life be an eternal speech therapy session for a dhh kid?
You simply do not see the downsides of oral only. Yes, its great that it worked for your daughter, but it's NOT a perfect method. It's just that you lucked out that it seemed to be a perfect fit. Your family didn't experiance a lot of the inequalities and fighting with special ed providers and things like that that a lot of other families experiance!