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It was happened on my birthday at 7.30 pm last Sunday.
I had close friends to celebrate on my birthday in dinning room. My children stay outside with their mates for long hours. I know they throw snowballs each other like “snowballs war”…
Danny was upset and came to us with young man saying that he “damaged” young man’s car front window screen by snowballs… I was like
and got Danny to repeat it because I can’t image that throw snowball to damage window screen… Young man got us to look at his car… We did… Oh my dear… it’s only very little like “cat’s whisker” cracked on car window screen. It looks like it’s nothing do with snowball… it could be impossible because we have around 6 inch deep snow… Young man suggested us that it could be that Danny didn’t notice small stone when he picked and made snowball to throw… I told young man that I felt it’s nothing do with snowball but it’s just old window screen like what we have some of little “cat whisker” cracked. (He has old car)…He demand to have a new car window screen. I was like sigh and suggested him to come again tomorrow (Sunday) since we have visitors today. (Honestly I really have no time to discuss with him over that stupid little thing – it would be different if there’re big thing). We went back to house to leave him stand with Danny and mates.
Alan ran to us and told me that young man took Danny to police station. It made us furious because he took Danny without our permission which it’s not right. My hubby and friends calm me down and say that the police would laugh at young man because it’s very small scratch like cat’s whisker and will say that it’s nothing do with snowball…
An around hour later 2 polices brought Danny to us and make statement with us… Police said that young man has the right to demand a new car window screen from us. We were like huh and asked them did they see his car? They replied yes... but it’s no matter either there’re small or big but he still has the right to demand a new car window screen. I was like
I asked them again that do they believe its snowball. They said that it could be small stone that Danny didn’t notice when he picked to make snowball… "What a naive Police are, I said to myself"... Police suggested us that young man will drop his lawsuit against us if we agree to cover car window screen. We asked them how much window screen cost? They estimated that it could be around $500. Danny was terrible upset after heard that word $500… I tried to do something against young man’s word… We suggested police that we will drop our lawsuit against him for “kidnapped” Danny only if he agrees to drop his demand a new car window screen. Police was like 
and asked us either young man took Danny to Police station in town without our permission. We said yes because we would say NO if young man want to take Danny to police station. Other police look at his watch and told us that we can’t do that because it’s not over one hour. We can do that if it’s over one hour but its only 30 minutes… I was like shit because we tried to against his demand…
I know we have compulsory insurance but we doubt either window screen could be cover or not because Danny and his mates play snowballs are on the street which it suppose be at playground or garden… not street…
Danny was upset when we told him that we have no choice but remove his month allowance for a year if compulsory insurance won’t do for us. My friends suggest us to talk with Danny’s friend’s parents to cover their insurance for window screen if my insurance is not acceptance. We thought my friend’s suggestion is good. Danny said that he will try to talk his mates about this because he is afraid to lose his month allowance. One hour later Danny came and told us that his mates’ parents are agree to cover insurance for car window screen because their children are also part of responsible, too.
We went to mate’s parents on next day (Sunday). They were like sigh when they learn the name of young man and told me that he and his family are very hypersensitive (oversensitive) people. We should use 3 meter distance away from young man’s family house property and car. They make hypersensitive over very small things and claim their rights… They told me that young man’s father is POLICE OFFICER. They want us aware that young man and his family are money grabbers. They said that they will support us if my insurance won’t do for us. They accepted that their children are also part of responsible, too.
On next day (Monday) we went to Insurance office. Good news! They cover for us with no problem… but they need price offer for window screen from young man. We told Danny good news when he came from school… He relieved and happy… He informed his mates that my insurance accepts. Their parents are relieved and happy. I warned my boys to not go near young man’s property…
Young man came to us to give us price offer of window screen. It cost $600. We noticed that there is no bank account of window Screen Company where insurance should transfer money to. Young man suggested us that money should go direct to him instead of go to company… We stay firm and say NO. We demand that money go to company directly instead of his account. We argued…and told us that he is honest because his father is police officer… My hubby is unfriendly toward him saying “so?” Young man realized that he wasted his time to argue with us and saw which company we insure… He called my insurance and convinced them that money should go his account directly. My Insurance agrees to this… It got us m
My hubby told our insurance to not do that. Insurance explained us that they are going to transfer $600 to his account and wait for one month then will write a letter to young man to ask for original invoice where he already pays…
*Praise Insurance*... Wait and see either young man is honest or not... either he keep $600 himself instead of fix a new car window screen...
Share your experience like this over very little things here with us……
It was happened on my birthday at 7.30 pm last Sunday.
I had close friends to celebrate on my birthday in dinning room. My children stay outside with their mates for long hours. I know they throw snowballs each other like “snowballs war”…
Danny was upset and came to us with young man saying that he “damaged” young man’s car front window screen by snowballs… I was like
and got Danny to repeat it because I can’t image that throw snowball to damage window screen… Young man got us to look at his car… We did… Oh my dear… it’s only very little like “cat’s whisker” cracked on car window screen. It looks like it’s nothing do with snowball… it could be impossible because we have around 6 inch deep snow… Young man suggested us that it could be that Danny didn’t notice small stone when he picked and made snowball to throw… I told young man that I felt it’s nothing do with snowball but it’s just old window screen like what we have some of little “cat whisker” cracked. (He has old car)…He demand to have a new car window screen. I was like sigh and suggested him to come again tomorrow (Sunday) since we have visitors today. (Honestly I really have no time to discuss with him over that stupid little thing – it would be different if there’re big thing). We went back to house to leave him stand with Danny and mates. Alan ran to us and told me that young man took Danny to police station. It made us furious because he took Danny without our permission which it’s not right. My hubby and friends calm me down and say that the police would laugh at young man because it’s very small scratch like cat’s whisker and will say that it’s nothing do with snowball…
An around hour later 2 polices brought Danny to us and make statement with us… Police said that young man has the right to demand a new car window screen from us. We were like huh and asked them did they see his car? They replied yes... but it’s no matter either there’re small or big but he still has the right to demand a new car window screen. I was like
I asked them again that do they believe its snowball. They said that it could be small stone that Danny didn’t notice when he picked to make snowball… "What a naive Police are, I said to myself"... Police suggested us that young man will drop his lawsuit against us if we agree to cover car window screen. We asked them how much window screen cost? They estimated that it could be around $500. Danny was terrible upset after heard that word $500… I tried to do something against young man’s word… We suggested police that we will drop our lawsuit against him for “kidnapped” Danny only if he agrees to drop his demand a new car window screen. Police was like and asked us either young man took Danny to Police station in town without our permission. We said yes because we would say NO if young man want to take Danny to police station. Other police look at his watch and told us that we can’t do that because it’s not over one hour. We can do that if it’s over one hour but its only 30 minutes… I was like shit because we tried to against his demand… I know we have compulsory insurance but we doubt either window screen could be cover or not because Danny and his mates play snowballs are on the street which it suppose be at playground or garden… not street…
Danny was upset when we told him that we have no choice but remove his month allowance for a year if compulsory insurance won’t do for us. My friends suggest us to talk with Danny’s friend’s parents to cover their insurance for window screen if my insurance is not acceptance. We thought my friend’s suggestion is good. Danny said that he will try to talk his mates about this because he is afraid to lose his month allowance. One hour later Danny came and told us that his mates’ parents are agree to cover insurance for car window screen because their children are also part of responsible, too.
We went to mate’s parents on next day (Sunday). They were like sigh when they learn the name of young man and told me that he and his family are very hypersensitive (oversensitive) people. We should use 3 meter distance away from young man’s family house property and car. They make hypersensitive over very small things and claim their rights… They told me that young man’s father is POLICE OFFICER.
They want us aware that young man and his family are money grabbers. They said that they will support us if my insurance won’t do for us. They accepted that their children are also part of responsible, too.On next day (Monday) we went to Insurance office. Good news! They cover for us with no problem… but they need price offer for window screen from young man. We told Danny good news when he came from school… He relieved and happy… He informed his mates that my insurance accepts. Their parents are relieved and happy. I warned my boys to not go near young man’s property…
Young man came to us to give us price offer of window screen. It cost $600. We noticed that there is no bank account of window Screen Company where insurance should transfer money to. Young man suggested us that money should go direct to him instead of go to company… We stay firm and say NO. We demand that money go to company directly instead of his account. We argued…and told us that he is honest because his father is police officer… My hubby is unfriendly toward him saying “so?” Young man realized that he wasted his time to argue with us and saw which company we insure… He called my insurance and convinced them that money should go his account directly. My Insurance agrees to this… It got us m
My hubby told our insurance to not do that. Insurance explained us that they are going to transfer $600 to his account and wait for one month then will write a letter to young man to ask for original invoice where he already pays…*Praise Insurance*... Wait and see either young man is honest or not... either he keep $600 himself instead of fix a new car window screen...
Share your experience like this over very little things here with us……
I cannot believe you. 
, when my first son was in pre-school, he cut the boy's shirt with a pair of scissors and I didn't know anything about this until the principal send home a note saying she wanted to talk to me tomorrow morning, which I did came to the office with my son, that when she told me what my son did to this little boy's shirt, and the first thing I said was oh my gosh....my son started crying after the pincipal said she paid the mother of the boy's shirt that was damaged 20.00 because she felt that my son didn't mean to do it and he did apologized, so she felt it was no big deal cause kids in pre-school intend to do that sometimes, but the problem was the boy's mother wanted more money, she called and complaint that 20 dollars wasn't enough she wanted 60 dollars for the shirt cause his father brought it for him, and the principal told her shes believe the shirt is worth 20 not 60....however the mother wasn't happy, she was mad and wanted more because his father no longer lives with them and hardly see him, and that shirt means so much to him, yet the principal said that if the shirt means so much to your son, then he shouldn't wear that to school because once hes in pre-school , the children intend to have accidents such a painting, glue, etc...The mother still complaint so the principal told me she can't pay her more then 20, so I told the principal I wanted a meeting with her and we can sit and talk about this and see if She'll take 30 instead of 60 cause I felt bad for her and her son, but the principal told me that she will call the mother and will let me know this afternoon, so she called and said that the mother said never mind 20 dollars was enough.....