Didn't skip a bit of it. And there was nothing condescending in my post. You stated that you were well read and well researched, so I was simply asking you if all that reading and research, you had encountered information on when, how, and why the gaps widen. I was prepared to get into a discussion with you regarding that, but hey, I guess not.
Comfortable with your choice? Good for you. Then why are you spending so much time trying to justify it?
This is not a discussion about the gaps. It is a discussion about SEE and that it can be a viable mode of communication when used properly. You want to talk about gaps, start another thread.
I respond to a comment, I'm considered defensive. I answer a question, I'm justifying what I do. Why are you spending so much time attacking something that has been successful for my son?
You still haven't responded to my comments above about the fact that through the use of TC and SEE my child is at or above grade level. If it is so ineffective, or if I am most certainly NOT using SEE, how is it my child got to where he is at? Oh yeah, I forgot. Aliens came and infused the knowledge in his brain.
Faire Joure was on to something when she made the comment about not doing things Jillio's way. Here is another saying worth considering, "There's more than one way to skin a cat." Now I am a vegetarian so that saying is a bit gross, but entirely appropriate. At least I am level headed enough to know that is in fact the truth. You perched up high on your soap box will scream, "NO!!!! There is one way, and that is my way!" Well Jillio, I hate to be the one to break it to you but the world does not begin and end at your feet.
I do not dispute that ASL is faster when it comes to communicating concepts and ideas. I will dispute the fact that SEE is an impossibility, because I know that it is not.
Reading other threads, someone made a comment about having other hearing children in the house. The challenges that come along with having one DHH child, and the rest of the house is hearing. So what do you propose Jillio? Everyone turn their voice off all the time? What about when we are communicating with others who are hearing and the DHH child is in the room? Verbally respond to a question and then sign your answer in ASL, or respond verbally and in sign at the same time so that child still has access to the conversation going on?
Jillio, it is possible for there to be another parent on this earth who has taken the time to learn and educate themselves about their child's "disability." Please note "disability" was in quotes. I don't consider my child disabled. I consider him enabled in many different ways.
My goodness, at least I recognize that there are different ways to achieve an end. You are so stuck on your way, that you are blinded to other possibilities.
I never claimed to be the expert on anything. You Jillio, on the other hand have appointed yourself the expert on everything DHH. If you were so knowledgable about SEE you would then know that it still incorporates the same visual principles as ASL. But you can't seem to see anything past your nose.
Do not insult my child. He is a success and I'm sorry that you cannot be happy for him. I can tell you that if the roles were reversed I would commend you on finding something that worked well for you and your child. But hey, that's just me. Like I said, I'll stay in the light.
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